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Originally Posted by Izulde
Nope, not seeing the headache issue here, at least as far as DT is concerned. It's not something he needs to involve himself with at all. She's a big girl and is perfectly capable of handling the dude on her own. If Dude gets too clingy, pushy, dramatic, whatever, then she distances herself from him. If he plays nice, then it's all good for all involved.
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It's a headache when she doesn't distance herself from him. Instead, she gets mad at you for being jealous. They're "just friends" after all so it's totally fine for him to (insert totally not-fine behavior) because "he doesn't think of me like that!". It's a headache when he doesn't play nice, but instead actively works against you and she, for whatever reason, can't see it.