Pretty much agree with everything you said.
It looks very good to me and does have that "Next Gen" look however the cloth movement did look kind of strange hopefully EA can fix it in time for release. But no doubt in my mind overall it looks better then any sports game on the PS3. I mean it really does look photo realistic. And this is only year 1 so I am sure it's going to get way way better then this over the next few years.
Can not wait to start playing sports games on PS4!