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Alright, I give up 
Posted on November 13, 2016 at 12:26 AM.
You guys win.

What's ****ty is most of you know that ignoring my attempts to reach out to you have bugged the **** out of me and that's why you do it, and I have let you win. I guess that's how some men act.

I think it's pretty cruel. I'm a human being, not dirt.

Go for it though. **** all over me.

You win. I give up

I don't how it got to this point. I sent a couple hasty messages out of frustration but it didn't seem like that big of a deal. Nothing unforgivable. I just want to game with everyone again but I can accept that its over now and over for good I guess.

Take it easy
# 1 mike24forever @ Nov 13
I'm truly concerned about you. I think you need to get help, at least someone to talk to. You won't listen to people who have reached out to you and you seem to be spiraling. People may not be responding to you because they don't know how to deal with you. I think they are avoiding you so they don't hurt your feelings.

I removed you from my friends list, because you called your OS friends cowards. You see, I've never been afraid of anything except being a bad father. I have a problem with being called that or even implied.

I know you're going through a hard time, we all have had difficult periods in our lives. if you're not willing to listen to the advice you are being given and implementing that into your life, people will eventually walk away because they are sick of talking and not seeing any improvement or effort on your end.

Good God man, your a teacher and coach, start taking your own coaching experiences and using them in your situation. How many athletes have you uplifted, supported and help achieve something they didn't think they could. If you're able to uplift them, it's time to turn this on yourself and step up and help yourself. When we were playing The Division, I thought you were a good guy. You were fun to game with. Right now though, you are seeking pity from others. The worst part is, I've seen some really kind OS members reach out to you and you've either not responded or have not made any effort to use their advice.

Your dramatic blog titles are not helping your cause either. You are fortunate enough to have members who care, but don't forget it's the internet, some individuals may tear you a new one for these attention seeking blogs. I'm actually surprised it hasn't happened yet.

You need to take a step back and look at the entire situation. Maybe it's not "US" that's the problem. Identify what's your issue and start working at getting better. You seem to love working with kids. Focus on your career and stop worrying about what people on the internet think of you. My guess is, people were cool with you until you started this crap.

Man up Jared. Stop this crap and start being that guy I was gaming with while playing The Division. We all have crap to deal with. Now, deal with it and if you need help, reach out to those that have tried to help you.
# 2 Teyas @ Nov 14
whose mans is this and why is it on the home screen
# 3 Guapo516 @ Nov 15
No idea who you are or what this is about, but just being a person I can't read something like this and the reply mike24 left and not have sympathy for you. I'm a complete stranger and it's more than likely what you're seeking is some answer or some kinda resolution from those you already know, but I'll try and help anyway.

Not sure how you got to this point, but you're here and the best way to move forward sometimes is to take a step back, analyze and attack the issues head on. You have to be your most vulnerable and honest and make some tough decisions that you may see as less manly, but at least you'll know you've set the record straight and you can move on from there. There's nothing to be embarrassed about seeking help, it honestly takes more guts to open up to someone, than it does to suppress and run away from the reality that there's potentially a problem internally. Another thing is you have to take a humble approach of going from coach/teacher to now student. Mike24 gave you a good dose of honesty and that's the best medicine in the world.

I hope you find peace within and peace with those you hope to reconcile with, good luck!
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