Sometimes I hate myself

[Lathum]

Need to vent. So I've been seeing this girl for a while. It basiclly started out as us sleeping together and developed into more. So we talked a few weeks ago and decided to see where things can go. So I decided tonight to hang out with my buddies. I asked her to come with but she didn't like the club we were going to. So I asked her to call me when she left work and she didn't. I text messaged her and no response, so now I am in a bad mood because I didn't hear from her all night. I am more pissed at myself than anything. God I hate dating.

[Eaglesfan27]

Maybe she just became busy tonight, and it is not a bad reflection on your relationship?

[MrBug708]

Sometimes you dont need to hear from her everynight....

[Franklinnoble]

Lundberg f*cked her.

[sovereignstar]

Originally Posted by Lathum

It basiclly started out as us sleeping together and developed into more.

I don't want to sound like the almighty here, but this usually leads to bad things. You're moving backwards. Sex is a drug and it tends to blindfold you.

Insecurities are caused by a lack of understanding (and communication). You're not sure why she didn't call you. Did she just say that she didn't like that club because she's upset that I'm not spending that time alone with her (not even sure if this could be the case)?

Fucking head games. My advice would be to slow things down a little bit and to actually start "dating". Talk and then talk some more. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Rid yourself of these head games.

I'm not working with much here. How long did you know this girl before you started seeing here? If you don't mind answering, how often do you two sleep together now? How long have you two been seeing each other overall?

[thealmighty]

Originally Posted by sovereignstar
I don't want to sound like the almighty here

Say what?

[TLK]

Originally Posted by Franklinnoble

Lundberg f*cked her.

[Pumpy Tudors]

Originally Posted by Franklinnoble

Lundberg f*cked her.

Gold.