Does it bother you to get carded

Lathum · 01-20-2006, 05:14 AM

An incident at work tonight prompted me to post this. As many of you know I am a bartender at a very busy bar. Tonight I refused service to a women, long story short the guy she was with called me an asshole, we got in each others faces, etc...

so my question is this.

Does being carded at a bar bother you and if so why?

gottimd · 01-20-2006, 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Lathum

An incident at work tonight prompted me to post this. As many of you know I am a bartender at a very busy bar. Tonight I refused service to a women, long story short the guy she was with called me an asshole, we got in each others faces, etc...

so my question is this.

Does being carded at a bar bother you and if so why?

No, doesn't bother me at all. I am 28, but I look like I am in my teens, and I get carded constantly, even sometimes for R movies (which is embarrassing). But its become such a pattern, that when my wife and I are doing something that requires my ID, I already have it ready, instead of fumbling around for it at the last second.

I think there was a discussion about this before about being a customer in a restaurant or a server, I forget. I think, hey, you are just doing your job IMHO. Its not like you are insulting me, its no big deal.

Tekneek · 01-20-2006, 05:57 AM

If people really don't like it, why don't they direct their rage at the government? Bunch of morons think YOU are the problem because you are following the law.

Being carded only bothers me in so much that I don't agree with the law. I don't blame the person asking for it.

Honolulu_Blue · 01-20-2006, 07:20 AM

No. It doesn't bother me at all. I have had two friends who tended bar and got fired and fined for serving alcohol to minors. It was a police sting operation, they were busy, and missed it. I am sympathetic to anyone who asks for my ID, even if it rarely happens anymore.

jeff061 · 01-20-2006, 07:27 AM

Doesn't bother me at all. I've always looked 5 years older than I am, so it rarely happens anyways.

ice4277 · 01-20-2006, 07:41 AM

I don't mind it; actually, it kinda makes me feel old when I DON'T get carded

JonInMiddleGA · 01-20-2006, 07:47 AM

At my age? Bother me? Hell, it might even increase your tip

Critch · 01-20-2006, 08:15 AM

Doesn't bother me at all, but I'm old.

A couple of months ago I went into a bar with a couple of younger workmates (round about 28-30 range) and the barman asked for ID. I'd forgotten my stuff, mentioned to the barman, he said "it's ok, I wasnt asking you, you're plenty old enough". That bothered me.

gottimd · 01-20-2006, 08:16 AM

Does Bucc still get carded?

rkmsuf · 01-20-2006, 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by gottimd

Does Bucc still get carded?

AARP discounts rule.

jeff061 · 01-20-2006, 08:18 AM

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"it's ok, I wasnt asking you, you're plenty old enough"

I had a similar experience. I was 22.

PackerFanatic · 01-20-2006, 08:21 AM

I wish I got carded...only 4 more months...

cartman · 01-20-2006, 08:54 AM

The funniest "carding" I ever experienced was when they asked for my ID to buy lottery tickets.

KevinNU7 · 01-20-2006, 08:54 AM

I rarely ever get carded unless I'm out with my wife who looks like she's 20. I don't ever see the big deal at all.

As someone who used to bounce I can tell you I have no sympathy for people who "forgot their ID", I usually respond with, "But you remembered your money to buy drinks."

FrogMan · 01-20-2006, 08:57 AM

when I played soccer, dang I hated being carded. Then I became a referee and I became a carder, not a cardee. That wasn't so bad...

FM

Coffee Warlord · 01-20-2006, 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by KevinNU7

I rarely ever get carded unless I'm out with my wife who looks like she's 20. I don't ever see the big deal at all.

As someone who used to bounce I can tell you I have no sympathy for people who "forgot their ID", I usually respond with, "But you remembered your money to buy drinks."

Heh. I never quite understood why people continually use that excuse. I occaisonally bartended/bounced when things got busy at a bar a friend of mine used to manage, and always wanted to scream "think of a new excuse, already damn you!" 'Course, my favorite was the people who tried to enter the bar carrying an open bottle of beer, and would get pissed when I wouldn't let em in with it.

But no. I could care less about people carding me, but I do get mildly irritated when people card folks who are (and obviously look) 50+ years old. Use some freakin' common sense.

Ksyrup · 01-20-2006, 09:13 AM

When I worked as a cashier in a grocery store during college, I hated selling alcohol because I hated having to card people. But after watching several people taken off of their registers and arrested for selling to an underaged undercover cop, I took no chances. I pretty much carded everyone, to protect myself. Nothing like applying to law school (and then for admission to the Bar) with an arrest on your resume.

One time, I refused to sell to a 24-year old guy who was with 4 teens, and he threw a fit. But I knew the law, and knew that I could refuse to sell to him if I suspected he was buying it for someone underage. They were just stupid to get in line with him. I even took shit from other customers for it.

Marc Vaughan · 01-20-2006, 09:54 AM

I'd love to be carded .... but then I'm 34 and would take it as a compliment

st.cronin · 01-20-2006, 09:57 AM

I enjoy getting carded. It's especially fun when I'm out with my woman, and I get carded and she doesn't (I'm about 8 years older than her).

Warhammer · 01-20-2006, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by rkmsuf

AARP discounts rule.

Actually, he might need to turn up his hearing aid a bit to understand what they were asking.

kcchief19 · 01-20-2006, 10:19 AM

In a related story, I just turned 34 and nearly broke down sobbing in the middle of Target when a sweet little pre-teen girl crashed into me and said, "Excuse me, sir."

I don't think I can handle being called "sir" or "mister" at my age.

Eaglesfan27 · 01-20-2006, 10:40 AM

I NEVER have been carded because I look much older than I am, or at least I used to. I didn't get carded when I was 16 and first bought liquor for friends, and I haven't since. I would LOVE to get carded, but realize it is never going to happen.

PackerFanatic · 01-20-2006, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by kcchief19

In a related story, I just turned 34 and nearly broke down sobbing in the middle of Target when a sweet little pre-teen girl crashed into me and said, "Excuse me, sir."

I don't think I can handle being called "sir" or "mister" at my age.

lol, poor guy.

I always call people sir or m'am, just because I am nice like that. Most of the time they don't like it, lol.

Desnudo · 01-20-2006, 11:36 AM

I think the rule of thumb is Miss unless they look like they're over 50. I don't know what the equivalent for a guy is. Master? Dude?

Samdari · 01-20-2006, 11:43 AM

I'm 36 and look like I am 50. I kiss those who card me, regardless of age, creed, religion or gender.

path12 · 01-20-2006, 11:43 AM

Dude, I'm 43. Please card me.

gottimd · 01-20-2006, 12:05 PM

Would you card a teenage kid who came in and his eyes glowed red and he demanded a keg of beer?

saldana · 01-20-2006, 12:26 PM

i think the customer should have punched lathum in the face, put his head under the tap, and poured beer into his mouth for not serving his girlfriend.

seriously, i cant stand people that get indignant because you refuse to break the law for them...it is a well known law, not something that you only hear about once every 25 years...no id, no drink..what is so damn hard about that...

that said, i did find it a bit amusing/annoying when i went to a beer festival with my father, who is turning 60. there is no way anyone looking at the two of us would not know we are father and son, so after they carded me (31) and saw how old i was, they turned and carded him. we just looked at each other and laughed.

saldana · 01-20-2006, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by gottimd

Would you card a teenage kid who came in and his eyes glowed red and he demanded a keg of beer?

i think you are in the wrong thread, you want the one called werewolves

oliegirl · 01-20-2006, 02:08 PM

I love being carded...makes me feel young, and proves to me that the wrinkle cream is working

Maple Leafs · 01-20-2006, 02:15 PM

You realize there's going to be a "Does it bother you to get carted" thread, with a picture of Carson Palmer, don't you?

Coffee Warlord · 01-20-2006, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Maple Leafs

You realize there's going to be a "Does it bother you to get carted" thread, with a picture of Carson Palmer, don't you?

Or Fragilesaurus Rex.

stevew · 01-20-2006, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Maple Leafs

You realize there's going to be a "Does it bother you to get carted" thread, with a picture of Carson Palmer, don't you?

Like this?

dubb93 · 01-20-2006, 03:37 PM

The only time it upsets me is when I go to a certain movie theater in Indy. The local theaters, which are higher quality I might add either don't card me for R rated movies, or card me once at the time of buying the ticket.

The last time I went to this certain theater I was wearing basketball shorts and a T-Shirt. So I had no pockets. I took my ID up and bought my tickets. I was carded and sold the tickets.

I then took my money and ID back to the car since I didn't have pockets. I didn't know it at the time, but this theater has a hard on for carding. You are carded again as you enter the main entrace to the theater, the manager of the freakin place didn't card me and let me pass, but carded one of my friends. Then as we were walking into the theater of choice there was a teenage girl standing there and she asked for my ID. I really couldn't believe they were going to card us 3 times for one movie. I explained the situation to her and she wouldn't budge. So I went and talked to the manager who let me pass into the place without carding me and he said it was up to her. I found the whole situation laughable as I was about 4 years older than the girl carding me, not to mention 6'2 230 with a full gotee, and they were telling me I didn't look 17!

So in that situation, yes I minded being carded, just not the first time. As for buying smokes or if I tried to buy alcohol I wouldn't and don't mind being carded.

larrymcg421 · 01-20-2006, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by gottimd

Would you card a teenage kid who came in and his eyes glowed red and he demanded a keg of beer?

Don't forget the ho hos.

Tigercat · 01-20-2006, 03:49 PM

It kinda bothers me not to be carded anymore. When I had hair, I was always carded because apparently it made me look 15 or something. Now that I don't have hair, apparently I look 30ish. Not being carded now just reminds me that apparently I skipped 15 years in looks.

Subby · 01-20-2006, 03:51 PM

Just when I vote...

SegRat · 01-20-2006, 03:58 PM

I only got mad once. I was in Vegas and Slots of Fun and some security prick walked up to me and told me to leave. I asked why and he told me I was not of age. I informed him politly that I was, and then he reponds, "whatever, give me your ID." I then told him to piss off and that I would spend my money else where.
Otherwise I dont mind being asked for my ID.

Tom E · 01-20-2006, 04:03 PM

Only if i don't have my ID on me and the bartendar is a true prick...

Lathum · 01-20-2006, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom E

Only if i don't have my ID on me and the bartendar is a true prick...

you shouldn't get mad if you forgot your ID.

pennywisesb · 01-20-2006, 04:37 PM

I don't mind getting carded. Its when I don't get carded, and there is a sign in plain view stating "We card anyone under 35 years of age" when I get annoyed. (I'm only 25 and would hope I don't look 35)

Klinglerware · 01-20-2006, 05:06 PM

No I don't mind getting carded, but having my valid ID rejected anyway, well that's another thread...

01-20-2006, 07:20 AM	#4
Honolulu_Blue Hockey Boy Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Royal Oak, MI	No. It doesn't bother me at all. I have had two friends who tended bar and got fired and fined for serving alcohol to minors. It was a police sting operation, they were busy, and missed it. I am sympathetic to anyone who asks for my ID, even if it rarely happens anymore. __________________ *Steve Yzerman*: 1,755 points in 1,514 regular season games. 185 points in 196 postseason games. A First-Team All-Star, Conn Smythe Trophy winner, Selke Trophy winner, Masterton Trophy winner, member of the Hockey Hall of Fame, Olympic gold medallist, and a three-time Stanley Cup Champion. Longest serving captain of one team in the history of the NHL (19 seasons).

01-20-2006, 07:27 AM	#5
jeff061 Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: MA	Doesn't bother me at all. I've always looked 5 years older than I am, so it rarely happens anyways. __________________

01-20-2006, 07:47 AM	#7
JonInMiddleGA Hall Of Famer Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Behind Enemy Lines in Athens, GA	At my age? Bother me? Hell, it might even increase your tip __________________ "I lit another cigarette. Unless I specifically inform you to the contrary, I am always lighting another cigarette." - from a novel by Martin Amis

01-20-2006, 08:16 AM	#9
gottimd Dearly Missed (9/25/77-12/23/08) Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: DC Suburbs	Does Bucc still get carded? __________________ NAFL New Orleans Saints GM/Co-Commish MP Career Record: 114-85 NAFL Super Bowl XI Champs In memory of Gavin Anthony: 7/22/08-7/26/08

01-20-2006, 08:21 AM	#12
PackerFanatic Pro Starter Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Appleton, WI	I wish I got carded...only 4 more months... __________________ Commissioner of the RNFL

01-20-2006, 05:57 AM	#3
Tekneek Pro Rookie Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: USA	If people really don't like it, why don't they direct their rage at the government? Bunch of morons think YOU are the problem because you are following the law. Being carded only bothers me in so much that I don't agree with the law. I don't blame the person asking for it.

01-20-2006, 07:41 AM	#6
ice4277 Pro Rookie Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Berkley, MI: The Hotbed of FOFC!	I don't mind it; actually, it kinda makes me feel old when I DON'T get carded

01-20-2006, 08:15 AM	#8
Critch lolzcat Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Herndon, VA	Doesn't bother me at all, but I'm old. A couple of months ago I went into a bar with a couple of younger workmates (round about 28-30 range) and the barman asked for ID. I'd forgotten my stuff, mentioned to the barman, he said "it's ok, I wasnt asking you, you're plenty old enough". That bothered me.

01-20-2006, 08:54 AM	#13
cartman Death Herald Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Le stelle la notte sono grandi e luminose nel cuore profondo del Texas	The funniest "carding" I ever experienced was when they asked for my ID to buy lottery tickets. __________________ Thinkin' of a master plan 'Cuz ain't nuthin' but sweat inside my hand So I dig into my pocket, all my money is spent So I dig deeper but still comin' up with lint

01-20-2006, 08:54 AM	#14
KevinNU7 College Starter Join Date: May 2003 Location: Beantown	I rarely ever get carded unless I'm out with my wife who looks like she's 20. I don't ever see the big deal at all. As someone who used to bounce I can tell you I have no sympathy for people who "forgot their ID", I usually respond with, "But you remembered your money to buy drinks." __________________ Boston Bashers - III.14 - (8347)

01-20-2006, 08:57 AM	#15
FrogMan Hattrick Moderator Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Pintendre, Qc, Canada	when I played soccer, dang I hated being carded. Then I became a referee and I became a carder, not a cardee. That wasn't so bad... FM __________________ A Black Belt is a White Belt who refused to give up... follow my story: The real life story of a running frog...

01-20-2006, 09:13 AM	#17
Ksyrup This guy has posted so much, his fingers are about to fall off. Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: In Absentia	When I worked as a cashier in a grocery store during college, I hated selling alcohol because I hated having to card people. But after watching several people taken off of their registers and arrested for selling to an underaged undercover cop, I took no chances. I pretty much carded everyone, to protect myself. Nothing like applying to law school (and then for admission to the Bar) with an arrest on your resume. One time, I refused to sell to a 24-year old guy who was with 4 teens, and he threw a fit. But I knew the law, and knew that I could refuse to sell to him if I suspected he was buying it for someone underage. They were just stupid to get in line with him. I even took shit from other customers for it. __________________ M's pitcher Miguel Batista: "Now, I feel like I've had everything. I've talked pitching with Sandy Koufax, had Kenny G play for me. Maybe if I could have an interview with God, then I'd be served. I'd be complete."

01-20-2006, 09:54 AM	#18
Marc Vaughan SI Games Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Melbourne, FL	I'd love to be carded .... but then I'm 34 and would take it as a compliment

01-20-2006, 09:57 AM	#19
st.cronin General Manager Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New Mexico	I enjoy getting carded. It's especially fun when I'm out with my woman, and I get carded and she doesn't (I'm about 8 years older than her). __________________ co-commish: bb-bbcf.net knives out

01-20-2006, 10:19 AM	#21
kcchief19 Pro Starter Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Kansas City, MO	In a related story, I just turned 34 and nearly broke down sobbing in the middle of Target when a sweet little pre-teen girl crashed into me and said, "Excuse me, sir." I don't think I can handle being called "sir" or "mister" at my age.

01-20-2006, 10:40 AM	#22
Eaglesfan27 Hall Of Famer Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: New Jersey	I NEVER have been carded because I look much older than I am, or at least I used to. I didn't get carded when I was 16 and first bought liquor for friends, and I haven't since. I would LOVE to get carded, but realize it is never going to happen. __________________ Retired GM of the eNFL 2007 Super Bowl Champion Philadelphia Eagles (19-0 record.) GM of the WOOF 2006 Doggie Bowl Champion Atlantic City Gamblers. GM of the IHOF 2019 and 2022 IHOF Bowl Champion Asheville Axemen.

01-20-2006, 11:36 AM	#24
Desnudo Coordinator Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Here and There	I think the rule of thumb is Miss unless they look like they're over 50. I don't know what the equivalent for a guy is. Master? Dude?

01-20-2006, 11:43 AM	#25
Samdari Roster Filler Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Cicero	I'm 36 and look like I am 50. I kiss those who card me, regardless of age, creed, religion or gender. __________________ http://www.nateandellie.net Now featuring twice the babies for the same low price!

01-20-2006, 11:43 AM	#26
path12 Coordinator Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Seattle, WA	Dude, I'm 43. Please card me. __________________ We have always been at war with Eastasia.

01-20-2006, 12:05 PM	#27
gottimd Dearly Missed (9/25/77-12/23/08) Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: DC Suburbs	Would you card a teenage kid who came in and his eyes glowed red and he demanded a keg of beer? __________________ NAFL New Orleans Saints GM/Co-Commish MP Career Record: 114-85 NAFL Super Bowl XI Champs In memory of Gavin Anthony: 7/22/08-7/26/08

01-20-2006, 12:26 PM	#28
saldana Pro Starter Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Bethlehem, Pa	i think the customer should have punched lathum in the face, put his head under the tap, and poured beer into his mouth for not serving his girlfriend. seriously, i cant stand people that get indignant because you refuse to break the law for them...it is a well known law, not something that you only hear about once every 25 years...no id, no drink..what is so damn hard about that... that said, i did find it a bit amusing/annoying when i went to a beer festival with my father, who is turning 60. there is no way anyone looking at the two of us would not know we are father and son, so after they carded me (31) and saw how old i was, they turned and carded him. we just looked at each other and laughed.

01-20-2006, 02:15 PM	#31
Maple Leafs Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2002	You realize there's going to be a "Does it bother you to get carted" thread, with a picture of Carson Palmer, don't you? __________________ Down Goes Brown: Toronto Maple Leafs Humor and Analysis

01-20-2006, 03:49 PM	#36
Tigercat College Starter Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Federal Way, WA	It kinda bothers me not to be carded anymore. When I had hair, I was always carded because apparently it made me look 15 or something. Now that I don't have hair, apparently I look 30ish. Not being carded now just reminds me that apparently I skipped 15 years in looks.

01-20-2006, 03:51 PM	#37
Subby lolzcat Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: sans pants	Just when I vote... __________________ Superman was flying around and saw Wonder Woman getting a tan in the nude on her balcony. Superman said I going to hit that real fast. So he flys down toward Wonder Woman to hit it and their is a loud scream. The Invincible Man scream what just hit me in the ass!!!!! I do shit, I take pictures, I write about it: chrisshue.com

01-20-2006, 03:58 PM	#38
SegRat High School Varsity Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Oshkosh, WI	I only got mad once. I was in Vegas and Slots of Fun and some security prick walked up to me and told me to leave. I asked why and he told me I was not of age. I informed him politly that I was, and then he reponds, "whatever, give me your ID." I then told him to piss off and that I would spend my money else where. Otherwise I dont mind being asked for my ID. __________________ USFL: Charlotte Fightn' Squirrels

01-20-2006, 04:03 PM	#39
Tom E H.S. Freshman Team Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Livermore, CA	Only if i don't have my ID on me and the bartendar is a true prick... __________________ Be Polite Be Proffesional And Be Ready to Kill... I'll Never Forget What's Her Name... A Democrat is Somebody who Knows the Issues, a Republican is Somebody who Understands the Issues...

01-20-2006, 04:37 PM	#41
pennywisesb College Benchwarmer Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Los Angeles, California	I don't mind getting carded. Its when I don't get carded, and there is a sign in plain view stating "We card anyone under 35 years of age" when I get annoyed. (I'm only 25 and would hope I don't look 35) __________________ Myspace Profile

01-20-2006, 05:06 PM	#42
Klinglerware College Starter Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: The DMV	No I don't mind getting carded, but having my valid ID rejected anyway, well that's another thread...

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