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10-09-2007, 05:16 PM
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Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Relationship Threads...I go from NAY to YAY
Someday soon I might have one of my own. Sorta...kinda...but it's long-distrance and unconsumated at the moment so I'm not counting my chickens before they hatch in December.
That's all. Just a very happy man right now and wanted to puff my chest out a bit. Feel free to flame away. Doubt I'll even hear you. |
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10-09-2007, 05:22 PM
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General Manager
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Satellite of Love
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Long-Distance relationships don't work... Quote:
Oh......*deep breath* LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DON'T WORK!!!!!  BTW, what happens in December? |
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10-09-2007, 05:24 PM
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General Manager
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: New Mexico
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As long as this doesn't affect your werewolf play, I'm ok with it.
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10-09-2007, 05:25 PM
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Pro Starter
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Muskogee, OK USA
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I thought we had something, you cheating bastard!
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10-09-2007, 06:33 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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December she's coming to Boston for 2 weeks...
We've been talking on and off for a while, but it just recently developed into something substantial. And FYI...she's definitely the one doing the pushing on it on an emotional level, which is okay by me in this case. |
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10-09-2007, 06:35 PM
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Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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lol...oh it might eventually. But that's a ways away |
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10-09-2007, 06:39 PM
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General Manager
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: The Mountains
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Long-term "relationships" don't usually work, but long term "really close emotional friends that do it when they can" can actually work quite well.
It's usually the chick that ruins those though. |
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10-09-2007, 06:52 PM
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Head Cheerleader
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Caught somewhere between Raising Hell and Amazing Grace...
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How long distance is it? What has your relationship been up to this point?
Congratz btw! As someone who has recently gotten into a serious relationship myself, I know the excitement you are feeling 
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10-09-2007, 07:00 PM
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Pro Starter
Join Date: Sep 2005
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Good for you!
Just beware that people tend to be different "Long-Distance" than they are in your face. I'm not talking just physically, but mentally as well... We all do it, as we try to present the image of who we want the other person to see. (As for myself, I think I may actually be too bitter, jaded & lazy for anything to ever actually happen...) |
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10-09-2007, 07:01 PM
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High School JV
Join Date: Sep 2006
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I honestly read this and thought you were saying your gf/significant other was pregnant... Last edited by dime : 10-09-2007 at 07:06 PM. |
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10-09-2007, 07:19 PM
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Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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boston-to-ohio |
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10-09-2007, 07:58 PM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Black Hole
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You need to consummate the relationship.
With sex hopefully. Unless it's a dude. Then just go for the handshake. |
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10-09-2007, 08:02 PM
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Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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LOL @ Raiders True true. Which is why I said...sorta...maybe...but I'm trying to keep it all in perspective until that happens. I'm sure it's not a dude. Dude's don't sound like girls on the phone |
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10-09-2007, 08:16 PM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Buffalo, NY
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You've obviously never spoken to st. cronin on the phone then..... |
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10-09-2007, 08:28 PM
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College Starter
Join Date: Oct 2000
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I think it's Chris Hanson. Watch your step.
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10-09-2007, 08:37 PM
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College Starter
Join Date: Nov 2000
Location: South Florida
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That's what I told my son. He finally figured it out, but not before he blew a load of money to fly to Canada to see some girl he "met" online.  Last edited by SFL Cat : 10-09-2007 at 08:39 PM. |
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10-09-2007, 08:43 PM
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Stadium Announcer
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Burke, VA
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What's with all the hate for long distance relationships? My wife and I were in a NJ to Oklahoma relationship (started online) for a number of months when we first met. We've now been married over ten years.
Good luck, DT.
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10-09-2007, 08:56 PM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Buffalo, NY
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While online and long distance relationships certainly have the odds built against them for success, they CAN succeed and trying to force poeple to abandon them is rather assinine. I understand this was your son and any good parent tries to protect their children from such things, but your comment seems to show a major disdain for the very idea that his relationship may have worked out. People, be they sons, daughters, friends, relatives or whatever, have to learn for themselves. If you talk them out of something then they haven't experienced anything on their own and it holds no true value. I can tell young people to stay away from tiajuana until my eyes turn purple, but most of them would have to experience that disgusting cess pool to really understand WHY i told them not to. Stay out of people's relationships, let things fall where they may. Its better for everyone invlved that way. *Just for the record I have had numerous online AND long distance relationships (and some that were both) and while I went through my share of heartache I also found my best friend and wife this way, we have spent 10 wonderful years together and just enjoyed our 4th anniversery. just because its not considered the "norm" does NOT mean its any less respectable or can be any less successful. |
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10-09-2007, 09:01 PM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Chicagoland
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Two years into our relationship my wife & I spent about a year a continent apart. We've now been together for 10 years and married for 5. It can happen, but it's not easy.
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10-09-2007, 09:03 PM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Buffalo, NY
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I agree flere, I tend to get tired and frustrated with the generic "long distance/internet relationships never work" argument. |
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10-09-2007, 09:06 PM
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Favored Bitch #1
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: homeless in NJ
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I have. He is silky smooth |
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10-09-2007, 09:32 PM
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Go Reds
Join Date: May 2001
Location: Bloodbuzz Ohio
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So you haven't met in person yet? Would it be awkward at first or no?
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10-09-2007, 09:33 PM
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General Manager
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Satellite of Love
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Because technically they don't. At some point, the "long distance" has to be dropped from the relationship label. If the two people have the right personality traits to put up with a long distance relationship for awhile, even over a year, then sure they can get through it until they no longer are a long distance apart. A few months for most people would be easy, but once it gets to be over 6 months, I doubt 90% of the people can go through that. And I would say it's vastly different to be in a relationship for a few years and then have to spend time apart than it is starting out a relationship long distance. |
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10-09-2007, 09:43 PM
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Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Edinburg,TX
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It's very awkward! But if she lets you pick her up from the station and you go back to your place and start bangin' within an hour, it tends to break the ice.
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You Stole Fizzy Lifting drinks! You bumped into the ceiling which now has to be washed and steralized, so you get NOTHING! You lose! |
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10-09-2007, 09:45 PM
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Head Coach
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Michigan
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Imagine their sex now .. Girl: Oh babz! DT: OMG OMG OMG Girl: Do u have protection? DT: BRB Daddy Torgo is away -- Loading Dr. Norton Daddy Torgo returns at 10:45 pm DT: DONE Girl: !!!! |
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10-09-2007, 09:47 PM
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College Starter
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Berkeley
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I had a long distance relationship seven and a half years ago with a girl in Beijing. We've now been married six and a half years and have a 10 month old son. It can work.
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10-09-2007, 09:51 PM
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Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Edinburg,TX
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personally i put the computer away during the bangin' part, but if it helps them i give them my full support. 
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You Stole Fizzy Lifting drinks! You bumped into the ceiling which now has to be washed and steralized, so you get NOTHING! You lose! |
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10-09-2007, 09:53 PM
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Head Coach
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Michigan
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Wow that's stupid. When I'm about to cum I just start dola'ing posts. |
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10-09-2007, 09:59 PM
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Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Edinburg,TX
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Well, I am currently holding up the monitor on my laptop with my left hand as I type with the right. I broke both hinges clean off. No more laptop during sex for me after that day......
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You Stole Fizzy Lifting drinks! You bumped into the ceiling which now has to be washed and steralized, so you get NOTHING! You lose! |
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10-09-2007, 10:01 PM
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Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: San Jose, CA
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So what activities do y'all have planned besides taking her shopping at Lane Bryant?
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10-09-2007, 10:03 PM
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Head Coach
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Michigan
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Haha. From now on I'm making it a point to publically acknowledge your gems. |
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10-09-2007, 10:04 PM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Black Hole
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You have to make her call you Daddy. |
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10-09-2007, 10:16 PM
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General Manager
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: New Mexico
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yesssssssssssssss |
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10-10-2007, 09:10 AM
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Head Coach
Join Date: Sep 2004
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Depends. Out of the times I've done this travel to meet a chick from online thing, one time it was extremely awkward, another time we were on the bed inside of half an hour, and the rest of the times it's been a case of chattiness on both sides, but with nothing happening.
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10-10-2007, 09:16 AM
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Head Coach
Join Date: Dec 2001
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wow, you must have a long cock
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10-10-2007, 09:19 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: sans pants
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Superman was flying around and saw Wonder Woman getting a tan in the nude on her balcony. Superman said I going to hit that real fast. So he flys down toward Wonder Woman to hit it and their is a loud scream. The Invincible Man scream what just hit me in the ass!!!!! I do shit, I take pictures, I write about it: chrisshue.com |
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10-10-2007, 10:07 AM
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SI Games
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Melbourne, FL
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I met my wife online and we've been happily married for over 9 years now and have three kids (and three kittens) ... Don't let me and Daimyo put you off though - not every online romance ends in marriage and kids |
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10-10-2007, 10:21 AM
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College Starter
Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: The Dirty
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I would recommend that you watch Seinfeld, the Pledge Drive.
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10-10-2007, 12:07 PM
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Hockey Boy
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Royal Oak, MI
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Amen, Cam. I met my wife 6 weeks before I left D.C. for Brussels. We did the long distance relationship, New York to Brussels, for an entire year before she moved out there and we were together. The long distance aspect wasn't ideal, but it worked. We made an effort to try and see each other at least once a month (which included a couple of weekend trips from Brussels to New York) and talked a lot on the phone.
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10-10-2007, 12:15 PM
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Head Coach
Join Date: Sep 2004
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Long distance relationships -can- work, but their probability for success is significantly lower, because they require more of an emotional, time, and financial investment than local relationships (in my opinion anyway).
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10-10-2007, 12:16 PM
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Head Coach
Join Date: Dec 2001
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they are perfect for email though
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10-10-2007, 12:35 PM
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College Prospect
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: OH
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DT can you be more specific about where in Ohio? Just trying to make sure my wife isn't cheating on me. Thanks.
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10-10-2007, 09:33 PM
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Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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lol oliegirl said there were haters in here...i don't see much hate. Thanks for the support guys who supported.
guess we'll see come december... |
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10-10-2007, 09:59 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: The Hatch
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Long distance relationships are awesome if she's willing to send you her panties and lollipops.
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10-11-2007, 07:57 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Back in Houston!
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So you have three kids and three kittens? Which one of you is half cat? SI
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10-11-2007, 08:49 AM
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College Benchwarmer
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: North Carolina
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I've been in a long-distance relationship for about a year now I guess. She was gonna move down here over the summer after finishing up her MA, but happened to stumble on her dream job in Lexington.
There are definitely positive aspects to long-distance relationships. They're like buying a monitor from Costco--you could probably get a better deal somewhere else, but in the meantime you've got a brand new monitor at home and the return process is painless if you find something more to your liking.* * this paragraph will be deleted for posterity.
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10-11-2007, 10:10 AM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Buffalo, NY
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Quoted for posterity. |
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