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This morning, my father was found dead in the basement of our house. He had a plastic bag over his head and had committed suicide. I have been living here since graduating college as my mother needed my help. My parents had just become divorced in November, and my mother had let him stay through the holidays. He was suppossed to move out today. My mother found him, and it just doesn't seem like its real. They were married for 31 years, and this is extremely hard for all of us. He was a priest for several years and we just don't know how he could have done this. There was a lot going on in his life that nobody knew about, as he was extremly secretive with our family and especially my mother. Nothing seemed out of the ordinary last night, and this is just a huge shock to us all. I welcome anyone who would like to pray for our family. THank you.
terpkristin
01-14-2006, 12:09 PM
Wow, GWB. :(
I'm very sorry for your loss, and will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
vtbub
01-14-2006, 12:11 PM
Oh my. So sorry. You got them.
Gary Gorski
01-14-2006, 12:20 PM
Very, very sorry to hear that GWB - you'll be in my family's prayers
M GO BLUE!!!
01-14-2006, 12:20 PM
Damn...
I'm so sorry.
timmae
01-14-2006, 12:25 PM
very sad news... hang in there bro..
Emiliano
01-14-2006, 12:27 PM
Damn, very sorry to hear GWB. My thoughts for you and your family. Try to be strong.
NoMyths
01-14-2006, 12:27 PM
Terrible. You're in my thoughts.
saldana
01-14-2006, 12:32 PM
cant even imagine the pain you are in, my and my families prayers and sympathies are yours.
Schmidty
01-14-2006, 12:36 PM
I don't know what to say other than you are in my, and soon in my church's, prayers.
Flasch186
01-14-2006, 12:39 PM
OMG, Im soooo sorry. My prayers are with you.
ice4277
01-14-2006, 12:43 PM
:( My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dutch
01-14-2006, 12:46 PM
Very sad, GWB. Be strong. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. :(
Qwikshot
01-14-2006, 12:49 PM
Very sorry for you and your family's loss.
duckman
01-14-2006, 12:50 PM
That's terrible, Joe. I'll pray for you and your family.
very sad to hear, you have my prayers.. be and stand strong for your Mom, God Bless... :(
Cuckoo
01-14-2006, 12:50 PM
I echo the other sentiments posted here GWB. I can't even begin to fathom what you must be going through. I will keep you in my prayers buddy. I pray that God will help you find strength to make it through a terrible, terrible time. :(
SegRat
01-14-2006, 12:56 PM
My prayers are with you and your family.
Cringer
01-14-2006, 01:10 PM
Sorry to hear this man. Take care of your family as best as you can.
Joe, I will be praying for you and your family.
MacroGuru
01-14-2006, 01:13 PM
You will definately be in our prayers tonight.
kingfc22
01-14-2006, 01:13 PM
Sorry for you and your family's loss.
flere-imsaho
01-14-2006, 01:24 PM
Very, very sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your mother.
George
01-14-2006, 01:29 PM
Very, very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
thealmighty
01-14-2006, 01:36 PM
Prayers for you and yours from my family.
miami_fan
01-14-2006, 01:42 PM
So very sorry for your family's loss. You are in my prayers
Swaggs
01-14-2006, 01:42 PM
Very sorry for your loss. :(
Hang in there.
JeeberD
01-14-2006, 01:44 PM
I'm so sorry, Joe. You and your family will be in my thoughts... :(
TroyF
01-14-2006, 01:52 PM
prayers are with you man. Stay strong.
Fonzie
01-14-2006, 02:02 PM
Tragic - my thoughts are with you and your family, Joe.
WSUCougar
01-14-2006, 02:07 PM
I'm so sorry.
You and your family will be in my prayers.
GrantDawg
01-14-2006, 02:09 PM
I very sorry for your loss, and you and your family is in my prayers.
Honolulu_Blue
01-14-2006, 02:10 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine. You and yours will be in my thoughts.
oliegirl
01-14-2006, 02:12 PM
Sorry doesn't seem like enough, but that is all I have for you...you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
McSweeny
01-14-2006, 02:13 PM
holy shit
that's terrible. i don't even know what to say. i'm so sorry for your loss and you'll be in my thoughts
Pyser
01-14-2006, 02:13 PM
Joe- very sorry to hear this. my condolences.
Terrible news. I can't begin to imagine your pain, Joe.
DaddyTorgo
01-14-2006, 02:21 PM
damm. just damm. condolences GWB. my thoughts are with you and yours in this hour of need
Warhammer
01-14-2006, 02:25 PM
Very sorry to hear this happened. If you need someone to talk to or anything, let me know. You will be in our thoughts and our prayers.
stevew
01-14-2006, 02:39 PM
Sorry for your loss Joe. I hope you and your mom make it through together.
Sorry to hear this, Joe. I can't even begin to imagine how rough this would be.
Deattribution
01-14-2006, 04:01 PM
Sorry to hear, condolences and hope everything gets better for you and your family.
fantastic flying froggies
01-14-2006, 04:29 PM
:(
my thoughts are with you Joe...
scarface132
01-14-2006, 04:46 PM
Damn, I don't even know what to say, other than I am so sorry for you and your family.
Your family is definitely in my thoughts and prayers.
BYU 14
01-14-2006, 04:48 PM
You and your family will be in our prayers as well-my sincere condolences to your entire family.
Eaglesfan27
01-14-2006, 04:48 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
FrogMan
01-14-2006, 04:56 PM
dear god, saw the thread title but nothing had prepared me to how hard I'd be hit when reading your post :(
You and yours will be in my thoughts, hang in there...
FM
Karlifornia
01-14-2006, 04:56 PM
Damn. That's terrible news. My thoughts are with you.
Craptacular
01-14-2006, 04:59 PM
:( Prayers and thoughts on the way.
Darkiller
01-14-2006, 05:07 PM
I'm so sorry to read this GWB.
All my prayers to you in this very difficult moment.
MikeVic
01-14-2006, 05:10 PM
So sorry. :( I'll pray for the best, for you and your family.
sterlingice
01-14-2006, 05:32 PM
Whoa :(
I couldn't even begin to imagine. Prayers with you.
SI
Raiders Army
01-14-2006, 05:38 PM
It's been a bad couple of days for the FOFC crowd. Two members lost close family members.
My thoughts are with you.
Celeval
01-14-2006, 05:42 PM
Thoughts and prayers.
MizzouRah
01-14-2006, 06:05 PM
:( Sad news GWB. You and your family are in my prayers.
biological warrior
01-14-2006, 06:09 PM
You and your family will be in my thoughts.
Vince
01-14-2006, 06:11 PM
My condolences. :(
Glengoyne
01-14-2006, 06:17 PM
In our thoughts and prayers.
MIJB#19
01-14-2006, 06:17 PM
Sorry to hear that, Joe. I wish to you and loved ones you will find the strength to get through these difficulty times.
beatle
01-14-2006, 06:49 PM
You will also be in my prayers as well. No one really ever thinks that something like this can happen which makes it so difficult to deal with!
Mac Howard
01-14-2006, 07:15 PM
This is the third time I've typed this post but there are no words to express my sympathy for this awful news. May you and your mother find consolation from wherever you can.
QuikSand
01-14-2006, 07:35 PM
So very sorry to hear.
CleBrownsfan
01-14-2006, 09:38 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. :( You and your family will be in my thoughts...
Ksyrup
01-14-2006, 09:40 PM
Crap, not sure how I missed this thread until now. What an awful thing for someone to deal with. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
hoosierdude
01-14-2006, 09:45 PM
Our thoughts, prayers, and support are with you in this time of grief.
Bad-example
01-14-2006, 11:25 PM
Sad to hear. :(
hoopsguy
01-14-2006, 11:31 PM
GWB, I'm very sorry to hear this news. I can barely imagine what this might feel like, but it felt like I was punched in the stomach just reading this and trying to fathom how painful this would be. Good luck to you and your mother in the days ahead.
Vinatieri for Prez
01-15-2006, 02:01 AM
My condolences. Hang in there. We'll all be thinking of ya'.
Desnudo
01-15-2006, 02:12 AM
I'm sorry to hear something so tragic. I know you will have the strength to carry through.
Very, very sorry to read this. My prayers are with you.
Desmond
01-15-2006, 03:43 AM
My condolonces man. Keep your chin up.
Passacaglia
01-15-2006, 07:58 AM
Sorry to hear this, Joe. Stay strong.
Marc Vaughan
01-15-2006, 08:20 AM
Sorry to hear that, my thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Neon_Chaos
01-15-2006, 10:58 AM
So sorry, GWB. No words. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
JonInMiddleGA
01-15-2006, 11:06 AM
Oh my goodness, you & your family are certainly in my prayers, and you have my most sincere condolences.
Castlerock
01-15-2006, 11:35 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Sweed
01-15-2006, 11:43 AM
Sorry to hear of your loss. You'll be in my prayers.
clintl
01-15-2006, 11:46 AM
I'm sorry to hear of your loss, GWB. You are in my thoughts.
Very sorry to hear that, my condolences.
Be strong and support your mom in these hard days.
oykib
01-15-2006, 12:26 PM
That's terrible, man. You're in my prayers.
Grammaticus
01-15-2006, 01:32 PM
GWB, I too am sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thanks for all of the kind words guys and girls. It means a lot just reading through them, more than you would know. The past few days have been extremely difficult for all of us. I went to the basement yesterday where it happened, to retrieve his glasses and I found an empty bottle of rum and an empty box of sleeping pills, 72 count. I am suprised that the police had missed this, but it was pushed behind an area out of view. I'm sure the medical examiner would have found this out eventually. But I am wondering how long something like that would take. I hope there was little pain involved. So it is apparent to us now that he had placed the bag over his head because he did not want us to see him like that. Part of this whole issue has been my families' financial status. My father had been receiving overdraft notices from the bank, with little to no money although he had been working. He completely stopped paying bills a few years ago. Over this long weekend, we were struggling with the fact that if he didn't have any money in his account, his life insurance policy may have lapsed. Thankfully that is not the case however, as we spoke with them this morning. It was difficult to know what was going on with him, as he was a very quiet man and also secretive. He would leave the house a few hours before he had to start work, and he would come home late. We didn't know why. Upon talking with someone at his office, we found out that he had been writing a book. He had 8 chapters complete, it was some sort of legal book. I am so proud of him, he was finally putting his intelligent mind to use. I'm kind of rambling but needed to put this down somewhere.
Godzilla Blitz
01-16-2006, 12:03 PM
Just noticed this thread. Sorry to hear about your dad's death, GWB. My thoughts are with you.
MalcPow
01-16-2006, 12:38 PM
Really sorry man. Condolences, my prayers are with you.
MIJB#19
01-16-2006, 12:56 PM
It's good to read your little update, Joe.
Stay strong and don't forget there still are good things around you.
Flasch186
01-16-2006, 03:09 PM
GWB my thoughts are on you and yours.
biological warrior
01-16-2006, 04:54 PM
My thoughts and, prayers are again with your dad, family and you,
digamma
01-16-2006, 05:20 PM
My deepest condolences. I'm thinking about you.
My mom just told me that last night, my brother tried to commit suicide. He is in the hospital right now. He never got along with my father, and he's been feeling guilty since he was the last one to speak with him. So many things are going my head right now, I don't know what to say.
Flasch186
01-17-2006, 06:38 AM
oh Jeez....stay strong Joe.
Maple Leafs
01-17-2006, 06:39 AM
Wow... just wow.
Try to hang in there. It will get better. It has to.
Northwood_DK
01-17-2006, 06:53 AM
Very sorry for you and your family's loss. My condolences.
duckman
01-17-2006, 07:24 AM
Joe, I'm so sorry. :(
CleBrownsfan
01-17-2006, 07:27 AM
GW - the only advice I can give you is to be strong for your family. We are all thinking of you...
KeyserSoze
01-17-2006, 07:37 AM
Very sorry man. Keep supporting your family...
Subby
01-17-2006, 08:07 AM
Just seeing this and wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
JeeberD
01-17-2006, 08:56 AM
Oh geez. Stay strong, man. Stay strong...
KevinNU7
01-17-2006, 09:19 AM
This is awful. I wish you nothing but the best through this trying time. Stay strong
Kodos
01-17-2006, 09:21 AM
I have no idea what I could say that might be comforting. Terrible situation. So sorry to hear of your loss.
vtbub
01-17-2006, 09:45 AM
Oh my. :(
terpkristin
01-17-2006, 05:44 PM
Wow.
Please know that you've got friends here, and friends probably elsewhere, all thinking of you and your family.
Hang in there, we're here for you.
Dutch
01-17-2006, 10:24 PM
Keep you head up Joe. We're still keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. I hope you're brother is okay.
VPI97
01-17-2006, 10:31 PM
Stay strong, buddy.
Senator
01-17-2006, 10:34 PM
Very sorry for this.
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