Cheating

[Recoil]

If your significant other cheated on you, under any circumstances, would you ever take them back?

[Qwikshot]

No

[Subby]

Yes

[Flasch186]

no

[VPI97]

Yes

[Icy]

I think i wouldn't, but hard to say without being in the situation. The worst thing in this cases is the future lack of confidence, will you be ok when she goes out without you? what about her work mates?, etc. Once the confidence is lost... good bye to a good relationship at least imho. Of course it's a really hard decission as usually your love feelings about her can't change in one day.

[st.cronin]

I would post a poll and abide by the results.

[RedKingGold]

No

[Warhammer]

Tough question, have done so in the past, swear I wouldn't do it in the future. That said, it would depend on the situation.

[PackerFanatic]

If I ever did, I would use it against them all the time.

[Bee]

I don't think I could. Her being dead and my being in prison would probably get in the way of the relationship.

[heybrad]

We were on a break.

[Pumpy Tudors]

no
http://img197.imageshack.us/img197/8148/mennola2md.jpg

[CamEdwards]

yes

[path12]

It's happened, and I would have at the time, don't know if I would in future.

[SuperGrover]

no

[Terps]

Nope.

[Klinglerware]

yes

[Farrah Whitworth-Rahn]

Nope. And I'd ruin his life. :)

[Butter]

NO. Nonono.

[SunDevil]

nope

[George]

No.

[John Galt]

Not again.

[chinaski]

hell no

[MikeVic]

Nope. And I'd ruin his life. :)

If only there was some way to warn the poor soul so he knows what's coming...

[Coffee Warlord]

Nope. Never.

[JS19]

nope. once that trust is gone theres no way in hell its ever coming back.

[Coffee Warlord]

And for any of you who would consider it, take a lesson from my moron of a friend.

Married this girl. Less than a year in, she cheated on him. Divorced.

They got back together. REMARRIED. And promptly got divorced again, her having cheated on him AGAIN.

[Pumpy Tudors]

My answer to the question:

I think that is all going to depend on her booty, now isn't it?

[mrsimperless]

If she were begging and crying then I'd say yes. After she had dried her tears I would bust out with a "Siiieeek!"

[Qwikshot]

And for any of you who would consider it, take a lesson from my moron of a friend.

Married this girl. Less than a year in, she cheated on him. Divorced.

They got back together. REMARRIED. And promptly got divorced again, her having cheated on him AGAIN.

That is just moronic...

[RedKingGold]

Note to self: Never go out with any of Coffee Warlord's friends...

;-)

[Coffee Warlord]

Note to self: Never go out with any of Coffee Warlord's friends...

;-)

You can't hang with the amount of alcohol we imbibe. :)

[Daimyo]

If she came to me first, admitted it and asked forgiveness and genuinely appeared remorseful then I would forgive her and take her back. If I found out on my own and had to confront her about it then its probably 50/50 what i would do. If it happened a second time it would certainly be over.

[duckman]

Hey, Brad.

[Poli]

I still haven't decided.

[Poli]

potential dola: I'm guessing my indecision means I have.

[Hurst2112]

And for any of you who would consider it, take a lesson from my moron of a friend.

Married this girl. Less than a year in, she cheated on him. Divorced.

They got back together. REMARRIED. And promptly got divorced again, her having cheated on him AGAIN.

I'm your friend?!

;)

[Pumpy Tudors]

I'd call Tommy Grand and catch her on the "Cheaters" TV show, and then I'd evaluate the situation based on her booty.

[Lorena]

Nope. And I'd ruin his life. :)

Like this?

http://static.flickr.com/59/194792793_d7ef9851f0.jpg?v=0

[Hurst2112]

i love photoshop. that was funny

[Desnudo]

Only if I was videotaping it

[chinaski]

i love photoshop. that was funny

that was real, in NYC. Its a viral marketing campaign.

[Hurst2112]

10-4

[sabotai]

If your significant other cheated on you, under any circumstances, would you ever take them back?

It would depnd on if I've seen her call down with marginal hands....

wait, what are talking about?

[GrantDawg]

Most who said no probably actually would, and most who said yes would find they couldn't. No one knows until they face it.

[Farrah Whitworth-Rahn]

If only there was some way to warn the poor soul so he knows what's coming...

He knows. Trust me. ;)

[Suburban Rhythm]

I can believe I'm the first to say we need more details before answering.
This probably won't be JimmyWint level stuff, but should still be entertaining for us stuck in the office until 5:00 on a Friday

[Farrah Whitworth-Rahn]

Like this?

http://static.flickr.com/59/194792793_d7ef9851f0.jpg?v=0

Naw, vengeance is best served on the sly, giving my target enough rope to hang themselves. And then stand back and watch it happen. Mwwwwwwwwaaaahhahahaha.

[Eaglesfan27]

It's happened once with a GF of 2 years and I didn't take her back. My wife knows that if she cheated I would never take her back. I believe that we all have the potential to cheat, and once we give into that potential, we are more likely to cheat in the future. I would never be able to trust her if she cheated on me, and it would be over.

[Lorena]

He knows. Trust me. ;)

Mind elaborating? Inquiring minds wanna know...

[Greyroofoo]

Yes, but she would have to bring a (female) friend.

[Vince]

I don't think I could.

[Draft Dodger]

the story goes the office hottie at my place of business was cheated on a couple years ago. her husband was going to leave her after he got caught, but in the end decided to stick with her...if she got a boob job.

yeah, I have no respect for her either

[Farrah Whitworth-Rahn]

Mind elaborating? Inquiring minds wanna know...

I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you. Seriously though, I'm not going to give away all my secrets. No one would by my autobiography. :p

Arlie's been with me for almost 10 years now. He knows me all to well. He knows how I get when people let me down, or worse - betray me. And quite frankly, I've always told him that if he felt the need to go get naked with some other woman, then he should do so but just tell me first. I really wouldn't mind at all.

No I wouldn't really.

[Draft Dodger]

Arlie's been with me for almost 10 years now. He knows me all to well. He knows how I get when people let me down, or worse - betray me. And quite frankly, I've always told him that if he felt the need to go get naked with some other woman, then he should do so but just tell me first. I really wouldn't mind at all.

No I wouldn't really.

conversely, how does he feel about other dudes seeing you naked? I think you remember how to PM me...

[Suburban Rhythm]

Arlie's been with me for almost 10 years now. He knows me all to well. He knows how I get when people let me down, or worse - betray me. And quite frankly, I've always told him that if he felt the need to go get naked with some other woman, then he should do so but just tell me first. I really wouldn't mind at all.


Anyone else reading that, and feel like they are watching a silent movie, where you'd be screaming "NO, IT'S A TRAP!! NO! NO!!!" to the poor guy on the screen?

[Farrah Whitworth-Rahn]

conversely, how does he feel about other dudes seeing you naked? I think you remember how to PM me...

Well considering I've been sending you and Jeeber pixplsthx for almost a year now he'd better be ok with it. :p

[Draft Dodger]

that was YOU???

[Farrah Whitworth-Rahn]

that was YOU???

Ok you caught me. I was just forwarding on what Jeeber sent me in return.

[John Galt]

Anyone else reading that, and feel like they are watching a silent movie, where you'd be screaming "NO, IT'S A TRAP!! NO! NO!!!" to the poor guy on the screen?

Yes. Arlie, do not fall for it. Repeat, do NOT fall for it.

[Draft Dodger]

Ok you caught me. I was just forwarding on what Jeeber sent me in return.

this, folks, is the internet version of the cold shower

[Franklinnoble]

Yes. Arlie, do not fall for it. Repeat, do NOT fall for it.

http://hardkore.net/forumz/images/smiles/ackbar.jpg

[Edward64]

Highly unlikely.

The only reason I could fathom staying with her is if her cheating was a result of something (substantially negative) that I did (ex. I cheated first?).

Greyroofoo. Loved your answer.

[MacroGuru]

I would, and in a round about way, I have.

Oh, and we also have the same view Farrah has....

[Desnudo]

It's happened once with a GF of 2 years and I didn't take her back. My wife knows that if she cheated I would never take her back. I believe that we all have the potential to cheat, and once we give into that potential, we are more likely to cheat in the future. I would never be able to trust her if she cheated on me, and it would be over.

whs

[Desnudo]

I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you. Seriously though, I'm not going to give away all my secrets. No one would by my autobiography. :p

Arlie's been with me for almost 10 years now. He knows me all to well. He knows how I get when people let me down, or worse - betray me. And quite frankly, I've always told him that if he felt the need to go get naked with some other woman, then he should do so but just tell me first. I really wouldn't mind at all.

No I wouldn't really.

Before:

http://www.uwrf.edu/~W1082720/Fatal%20Attraction.bmp

After:

http://images.ibsys.com/2002/0409/1389896.jpg

[molson]

I wouldn't take her back, not necessarily because of anger, but because it would be pretty clear she really wasn't into me anymore.

[DanGarion]

No.

[Glengoyne]

I'll echo John Galt's "Not Again", but add that I'd expect her to cut me more slack.

[Antmeister]

Yes, but she would have to bring a (female) friend.

LLLLLOOOOVVVEE IT!

[M GO BLUE!!!]

I might... But only to make her feel completely like the scrapings of a zookeeper's boot.

Stay with her, but don't so much as touch her. When she asks why you won't touch her, just say you're not in the mood. When she finally blows up about it and demands to know why, just tell her that if she wants some she can screw anyone she wants except you, since you don't knowingly sleep with whores. :D

[Eaglesfan27]

whs

whs?

Edit: I'm guessing this equals "What he said?"

[gkb]

Absolutely not. It's happened enough to me in the past that I'm not just guessing I wouldn't, I know I wouldn't.

[Crim]

Cheating..... Gmac-ing going on!!!!!!!!!!

[kingnebwsu]

Nope.

[Marc Vaughan]

Yes but only once.

[Pumpy Tudors]

Cheating..... Gmac-ing going on!!!!!!!!!!
Well played.

[JeeberD]

It depends upon the situation, but I think it would be very difficult to take her back...

[Arles]

Farrah and I have always had a pretty open relationship. I agree with her stance in that it would be silly for either of us to go behind each other's back with someone else. That said, I haven't really pushed the envelope on her stance above. ;)

[JeeberD]

I like the sound of that! ;)

[bbor]

No....unless it was with JeeberD.

Then i would pity her:D

[Galaxy]

It's happened once with a GF of 2 years and I didn't take her back. My wife knows that if she cheated I would never take her back. I believe that we all have the potential to cheat, and once we give into that potential, we are more likely to cheat in the future. I would never be able to trust her if she cheated on me, and it would be over.

What do you think promotes people to cheat?

[DaddyTorgo]

I don't think I could. Her being dead and my being in prison would probably get in the way of the relationship.

well said

[Schmidty]

I haven't posted yet, but I think my answer would be - I have no idea.

My daughter is the most important thing in my life other than God, and I want her to have a "normal" family life. She will already have to deal with the fact that her biological father is a drug-addict who hasn't tried to have any contact with her in the 4 years she's been alive. I dealt with that same situation (my entire life), and I wouldn't want to contribute to that happening to her.

No matter what decision I would make, it would be excruciating either way.

[Glengoyne]

I don't think I could. Her being dead and my being in prison would probably get in the way of the relationship.

I missed this post the first time through the thread. It reminds of that Garth Brook's song.

Papa's rig was buried in the local motel
The desk clerk said he saw it all real clear
He never hit the brakes and he was shifting gears.