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21C
07-30-2004, 09:29 AM
I teach in a Catholic high school in Australia with students aged in the range from 12-16. A fellow teacher overheard some girls ( not sure of their ages ) talking to each other about the importance of maintaining eye contact when giving blowjobs. They were worried about what the boy was thinking if they weren't looking into his eyes.

My question is - Who cares? Does anyone here worry about if their loved one is not gazing lovingly into your eyes while getting a BJ ( or a blowie as we call it here sometimes )? Do any of you think to yourself, "Well, that was pretty good but was that whole averting-her-eyes thing about?"

clintl
07-30-2004, 09:32 AM
It's refreshing to know that this kind of topic is discussed in Catholic schools, too.

Cringer
07-30-2004, 09:34 AM
I teach in a Catholic high school in Australia with students aged in the range from 12-16. A fellow teacher overheard some girls ( not sure of their ages ) talking to each other about the importance of maintaining eye contact when giving blowjobs. They were worried about what the boy was thinking if they weren't looking into his eyes.

So many bad thoughts.........I need to see a priest now........
:(

Noop
07-30-2004, 09:34 AM
I like to look into her eyes when she is rocking my mic... but after I have unloaded my gear I hand her a napkin and leave.

Cringer
07-30-2004, 09:35 AM
Dola -

Sure, eye contact is fine, just so long as she doesn't mind that I pay attention to were I am driving more then look at her....

Cringer
07-30-2004, 09:36 AM
Undola - :(

Ksyrup
07-30-2004, 09:36 AM
I can't see a damned thing without my contacts. So yes, they are extremely important to me.

JeeberD
07-30-2004, 09:36 AM
Nope, no eye contact. I prefer to pretend that it's a hot chick servicing me rather than ol' bbor...

Ksyrup
07-30-2004, 09:39 AM
The typical teenage boy is more than likely thinking, "Holy shit! This chick is actually blowing me!" So I don't think they need to worry about what else the guy might be thinking.

Now when you get older and/or married...then the mind is more likely to wander.

Noop
07-30-2004, 09:42 AM
Now when you get older and/or married...then the mind is more likely to wander.
Wander where? You mean to tell me you can micro manage during a blowjob? That would be so cool... I have a habit of talking while I am kissing a female. Sad I know but I have know idea why I do it and I usually say things that don't make no sense.

Cringer
07-30-2004, 09:44 AM
The typical teenage boy is more than likely thinking, "Holy shit! This chick is actually blowing me!" So I don't think they need to worry about what else the guy might be thinking.

Now when you get older and/or married...then the mind is more likely to wander.

Seeing how I get blown less AFTER getting married, I am more likely to think "Holy shit! My wife is actually blowing me!"

Ksyrup
07-30-2004, 09:44 AM
LOL! YMMV.

Noop
07-30-2004, 09:46 AM
Okay what does FWIW and YMMV mean?

Cringer
07-30-2004, 09:50 AM
FWIW - for what its worth

YMMV, thats a new one to me......

SirFozzie
07-30-2004, 09:50 AM
For what it's worth

and

Your Mileage May Vary

Bill Clinton
07-30-2004, 09:53 AM
Monica always maintained good eye contact.

hhiipp
07-30-2004, 09:54 AM
I'm assuming your teacher friend decided to experiment with 2 of the girls discussing the blowies. 1 was a contact, the other was a non contact to see if it really did make a difference.

Raiders Army
07-30-2004, 10:12 AM
Totally didn't think this thread was about this.

cuervo72
07-30-2004, 10:16 AM
What is this BJ of which you speak?

Noop
07-30-2004, 10:20 AM
The Oral Sex Song

http://www.soundclick.com/bands/4/marykmusic.htm

That is what you are looking for... it is a song btw...

KevinNU7
07-30-2004, 10:23 AM
This thread is impressive.

Personally I like eye contact on and off.

Balldog
07-30-2004, 10:25 AM
This thread is funny.

Cringer
07-30-2004, 10:26 AM
Can't say I have ever actually even gotten eye contact, I thought that was just a porn thing.........

Suicane75
07-30-2004, 10:26 AM
How are you supposed to achieve eye contact when you're holding her upside down?

tategter
07-30-2004, 11:23 AM
I never met a woman that even opened her eyes during a blowjob. That reminds me, I have a birthday coming up which means that its almost time for my wife to give me my annual blowjob. Wooohoooo!!! :D

Franklinnoble
07-30-2004, 11:25 AM
I like to look into her eyes when she is rocking my mic... but after I have unloaded my gear I hand her a napkin and leave. Ladies and Gentlemen, I present today's case for the return of the QOTM...

cuervo72
07-30-2004, 11:28 AM
I never met a woman that even opened her eyes during a blowjob. That reminds me, I have a birthday coming up which means that its almost time for my wife to give me my annual blowjob. Wooohoooo!!! :D

Hey, I didn't get anything close to the sort on my birthday...

Samdari
07-30-2004, 11:39 AM
Seeing how I get blown less AFTER getting married, I am more likely to think "Holy shit! My wife is actually blowing me!"

Second.

QuikSand
07-30-2004, 11:45 AM
A: Dude, he pitched a perfect game!
B: Yeah, okay, but how many pitches did it take?

judicial clerk
07-30-2004, 11:48 AM
I thought this thread would be about Kerry's acceptance speech

MacroGuru
07-30-2004, 11:55 AM
One of the Best Threads Ever...

duckman
07-30-2004, 12:47 PM
Last night I asked for eye contact during a BJ but she wanted an extra five dollars.

Joe
07-30-2004, 01:22 PM
eye contact freaks me out

Maple Leafs
07-30-2004, 01:35 PM
Weird. I think most guys are more into lip and tongue contact, but I guess whatever works for you...

Senator
07-30-2004, 02:17 PM
Jeez, don't let EC be the deal killer. Keep your focus on the big picture.

Ben E Lou
07-30-2004, 02:23 PM
{Jumps into discussion against better judgement...}

Sorry boys. Ol' SkyDog has got to disagree with the prevailing sentiment here. Eye contact adds a LOT to the experience.

Easy Mac
07-30-2004, 02:27 PM
I'd say no, if only because I don't want her knowing that I'm really going through the FOF draft in my head that I was looking over the hour before she came over.

SplitPersonality1
07-30-2004, 02:29 PM
We should all listen to Easy Mac. After all, his FOFC title is "Head Coach".

*rimshot*

Thank you, thank you. I'm here all week.

Ksyrup
07-30-2004, 02:32 PM
{Jumps into discussion against better judgement...}

Sorry boys. Ol' SkyDog has got to disagree with the prevailing sentiment here. Eye contact adds a LOT to the experience.
Given the audience, this is like suggesting that spacewalking adds a lot to the experience of travelling in space. My guess is just being there counts for everything, and anything else is just gravy.

Ben E Lou
07-30-2004, 02:36 PM
Given the audience, this is like suggesting that spacewalking adds a lot to the experience of travelling in space. My guess is just being there counts for everything, and anything else is just gravy.OK. I cannot argue with that logic. ;)

korme
07-30-2004, 02:45 PM
Definitely thought this would be about just talking. Seriously, when girls don't show eye contact they are shy. Unless they are suckin', then who the fuck cares? Besides SkyDog.

Ben E Lou
07-30-2004, 02:51 PM
Seriously, when girls don't show eye contact they are shy.Aha....more enlightenment.

korme
07-30-2004, 02:55 PM
What can I say? I just know my stuff. I love how SWMBO doesn't use her hands and just uses the mouth, taking it all in, slowly in and out, gradually getting faster. Don't you love that SkyDog?

Ben E Lou
07-30-2004, 02:57 PM
What can I say? I just know my stuff. I love how SWMBO doesn't use her hands and just uses the mouth, taking it all in, slowly in and out, gradually getting faster. Don't you love that SkyDog?Cute, kiddo. She ain't interested in your little-boy pee-pee. :p

korme
07-30-2004, 03:00 PM
Yea, that's why I told her I didn't blame her for not going down on you anymore.

;)


edit- damn, that doesn't work because you said 'your little pee-pee', I thought you said 'a little..' SkyDog 2, Shorty 1.

Franklinnoble
07-30-2004, 03:03 PM
{Jumps into discussion against better judgement...}

Sorry boys. Ol' SkyDog has got to disagree with the prevailing sentiment here. Eye contact adds a LOT to the experience.
Anybody else suspect that SkyDog is hoping that SWMBO stumbles across this thread?

Ben E Lou
07-30-2004, 03:05 PM
Yea, that's why I told her I didn't blame her for not going down on you anymore.

;)


edit- damn, that doesn't work because you said 'your little pee-pee', I thought you said 'a little..' SkyDog 2, Shorty 1.Too fast for ya. I realized my mistake and edited it right before your reply.

SkyDog 1.6, Shorty 1.4. :p

cody8200
07-30-2004, 03:05 PM
Ill have to agree with Sky, eye contact is a plus in my book. Not the whole time...but its definetely nice.

Ben E Lou
07-30-2004, 03:06 PM
Anybody else suspect that SkyDog is hoping that SWMBO stumbles across this thread?Not necessary. Advantages of honesty and open-ness in a marriage. :D

Ksyrup
07-30-2004, 03:09 PM
She's just trying to avoid looking at SD's star-spangled briefs.

Franklinnoble
07-30-2004, 03:12 PM
Not necessary. Advantages of honesty and open-ness in a marriage. :D
I could have all kinds of fun with the "open-ness in a marriage" comment... but training camp is about to start, and I don't need to be in the penalty box during football season. ;)

Buzzbee
07-30-2004, 03:25 PM
Not necessary. Advantages of honesty and open-ness in a marriage. :D

Open-ness between two people in a loving, commited relationship is one thing. Open-ness with several hundred geeky males on an internet forum is a little bit different.

Ben E Lou
07-30-2004, 03:26 PM
{Jumps into discussion against better judgement...}Yup. As I first thought to myself, I probably should have just kept my thoughts to myself. :(

Franklinnoble
07-30-2004, 03:28 PM
Yup. As I first though to myself, I probably should have just kept my thoughts to myself. :(
Nah... I just think pictures would have gotten the point across more succinctly.http://dynamic2.gamespy.com/%7Efof/forums/images/smilies/wink.gif

Buzzbee
07-30-2004, 03:32 PM
Given the audience, this is like suggesting that spacewalking adds a lot to the experience of travelling in space. My guess is just being there counts for everything, and anything else is just gravy.

Please Ksyrup. No gravy references in a thread about blowjobs.

http://www.fof-ihof.com/phpBB2/images/smiles/icon_puke.gif

Samdari
07-30-2004, 03:36 PM
Better Judgement 1, SkyDog 0

Buzzbee
07-30-2004, 03:38 PM
Yup. As I first thought to myself, I probably should have just kept my thoughts to myself. :(

Yeah, thanks.

Tonight:

BB: "Hey Ben. Glad to finally meet you"
*struggling to push mental image out of his mind of SD receiving oral sex from his wife*

Yeah, thanks a lot.

:p

Franklinnoble
07-30-2004, 03:46 PM
Yeah, thanks.

Tonight:

BB: "Hey Ben. Glad to finally meet you"
*struggling to push mental image out of his mind of SD receiving oral sex from his wife*

Yeah, thanks a lot.

:p
Just be sure to make eye contact.

JAG
07-30-2004, 03:48 PM
Yup. As I first thought to myself, I probably should have just kept my thoughts to myself. :(

*shrug* I wouldn't sweat it. It wasn't anything like socks and ants.

Senator
07-30-2004, 03:58 PM
If this thread passes up the pedophilic hot teacher in post, there is going to be hell to pay.

sabotai
07-30-2004, 04:38 PM
Now the chicks want eye contact? They're lucky if I don't give them $5 for a cab and kick them out when I'm done.

Franklinnoble
07-30-2004, 05:11 PM
If this thread passes up the pedophilic hot teacher in post, there is going to be hell to pay.
Well, we're running out of newsworthy material on LaFave... although there's not much in the way of photos that can be safely posted on this topic, so everyone's favorite homeroom teacher will probably have a secure legacy.

Leonidas
07-30-2004, 06:09 PM
Of all the things I might consider over the course of receiving head, eye contact from the performer is probably around number 86, right between concern over the next oil change in my truck and trying to figure out how far in advance before retiring Ricky Williams knew he was going to fail that last drug test.

Pumpy Tudors
08-01-2004, 02:32 AM
I'd like to comment here, but I shouldn't.

sabotai
08-01-2004, 02:43 AM
I'd like to comment here, but I shouldn't.

Don't tell me it's important for you to make eye contact when you're giving head, too...

Anthony
08-01-2004, 12:38 PM
Cute, kiddo. She ain't interested in your little-boy pee-pee. :p


HAHAHAHAHA. SkyDog ain't so bad afterall.

applause

Joe Canadian
08-01-2004, 12:45 PM
So many bad thoughts.........I need to see a priest now........
:(

Oh, the irony...

Logan
08-01-2004, 12:51 PM
How the hell did I miss this thread?

Mantle2600
08-01-2004, 05:14 PM
cause you were making eye contact???

Pumpy Tudors
08-01-2004, 05:35 PM
Don't tell me it's important for you to make eye contact when you're giving head, too...

Busted. :(

JeeberD
08-01-2004, 11:52 PM
Hmmm, found out last night that eye contact is kinda cool. Who woulda guessed it?

DanGarion
08-02-2004, 12:30 AM
Eye contact is wonderful. I trained the last girl that gave me one that exact technique...

bbor
08-02-2004, 12:34 AM
Nope, no eye contact. I prefer to pretend that it's a hot chick servicing me rather than ol' bbor...


I suck ONE cock and you label me:D

bbor
08-02-2004, 12:46 AM
Hmmm, found out last night that eye contact is kinda cool. Who woulda guessed it?

Your welcome....uhh...err...did i say that out loud? :eek:

JeeberD
08-02-2004, 12:50 AM
You have suck big, beautiful blue eyes. They express your desire so well...

DanGarion
08-02-2004, 12:56 AM
You have suck big, beautiful blue eyes. They express your desire so well...
...

JeeberD
08-02-2004, 12:59 AM
Whoa...talk about a freudian slip... :eek:

duckman
08-02-2004, 02:24 PM
This thread has officially went down the toliet.

Franklinnoble
08-02-2004, 02:25 PM
This thread has officially went down the toliet.
What's a "toliet?"

http://dynamic2.gamespy.com/%7Efof/forums/images/smilies/wink.gif

Swaggs
08-02-2004, 02:38 PM
I thought this was an OOTP thread.

How disappointing.