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digamma
03-04-2005, 07:27 AM
I think the article speaks for itself, but we had a fantastic night last night, with a tremendous honor bestowed upon my dad.

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Tucker gym named for slain coach Venable

By BILL OSINSKI ([email protected])
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Published on: 03/04/05
The Venable name will be preserved in the place where two men named Venable spent many of their best hours.

In a sad yet celebratory ceremony Thursday night, the Tucker High gymnasium was dedicated to William S. "Billy" Venable. More than 200 paid tribute to Venable, who, along with his son Bill Jr., was shot and killed in January 2004 by an intruder at their Lilburn home. The father was 55, his son 17.

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Thursday night, a bronze plaque with the elder Venable's likeness was unveiled at the dedication for the former football and wrestling coach. Part of the inscription called him "a gentle giant who gave of himself to Tucker High School and the Tucker community."

The plaque will be installed in the lobby of the gym where Venable worked throughout his 16 years at the school. Speakers recalled how Venable would put in many extra hours there — coaching, organizing an annual craft show fund-raiser, making sure the teams' laundry was done.

"He was modest to a fault — the consummate back- ground guy," said Billy Venable's son Stephen, now an attorney in Los Angeles. "He was the one who got things done, but when it came time to give out the credit, he diverted it."

Stephen Venable said his father would have been "completely embarassed" by the tribute, and he might have even found an excuse to leave the room when the plaque was unveiled. "Deep down, I know he'd be deeply touched and bursting with pride, as we all are tonight."

Susan Venable, Billy Venable's widow, accepted the gift of a smaller version of the plaque.

Tucker High principal Scott A. Butler said when he thinks of Billy Venable, he thinks of a line from "The Prince of Tides," a movie about a high school coach: "It's the memories in our lives that sustain us."

But in dealing with the pain of their deaths, Butler said, "It's love, not time, that heals our hearts."

Ben Lewis, director of the youth church program in Tucker, sang a song he wrote titled "Why." One line from the refrain is: "Why, oh why, did such an awful day come here? God, where are you? How we need to know you are near."

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On a side note, SkyDog outed me last night as a geek. In his lead in to singing "Why?", he casually mentioned that he and I were "friends on an internet message board." My days of playing the cool kid are over.

Subby
03-04-2005, 07:28 AM
Wow...that is incredibly moving. Thanks for sharing that...

VPI97
03-04-2005, 07:31 AM
My wife and I saw you guys on the news last night and after we got over the shock of seeing Hootie singing ( :) ), we both commented on how much your dad and your brother must have meant to so many people. Godspeed.

Ben E Lou
03-04-2005, 07:36 AM
On a side note, SkyDog outed me last night as a geek. In his lead in to singing "Why?", he casually mentioned that he and I were "friends on an internet message board." My days of playing the cool kid are over.Well, at least half of the people there last night already KNOW that I'm a geek. I honestly didn't even think about it before I said it. :p

Ben E Lou
03-04-2005, 07:38 AM
Side note: I can't find this article in the print edition. I see a picture of the plaque and a different picture from the one posted in this thread on page D-3, but with no accompanying article--just a bit of caption text. Am I missing it?

digamma
03-04-2005, 07:42 AM
Side note: I can't find this article in the print edition. I see a picture of the plaque and a different picture from the one posted in this thread on page D-3, but with no accompanying article--just a bit of caption text. Am I missing it?
I don't think so. I think it is just in the Gwinnett County print addition. I don't feel it is my place to complain, but it seems strange, given that Tucker is in DEKALB COUNTY.

Ben E Lou
03-04-2005, 07:44 AM
I don't think so. I think it is just in the Gwinnett County print addition. I don't feel it is my place to complain, but it seems strange, given that Tucker is in DEKALB COUNTY.Oh yeah. They did this with the long article about Susan, too, if I recall. I had to drive across the county line to get a print version of that one, too. Guess I'll do it again today...

Hmm.....maybe I can have the bus stop to buy a paper....and maybe we could stop right near Gwinnett arena....and maybe we could just HAPPEN to wait for oh, 90 minutes or so and show up late to camp tonight....

digamma
03-04-2005, 07:45 AM
Well, at least half of the people there last night already KNOW that I'm a geek. I honestly didn't even think about it before I said it. :p
No worries, though after e-mailing the story to some of my buddies, with the end note, they've already taken to calling me "MBG" (message board guy, which has always been our code for particularly redneck looking fans at college football games (even though we all are on the message boards A LOT more than they are)). :D

Ben E Lou
03-04-2005, 08:07 AM
we both commented on how much your dad and your brother must have meant to so many peopleI think it is worth saying that this isn't the typical case of the "selective memory" that we sometimes have of those who have died, either. They were two *great* guys. Papa V always took care to take new, younger coaches under his wing (more than one of the black coaches at THS have commented to me that he was the first one to reach out and make sure they felt welcome), and always was a hard-working, behind-the-scenes guy. Digamma commented on this last night also: he ALWAYS bragged on his kids. Bill, Jr. was one of *VERY* few kids that I knew fairly well that really lived out his faith in front of his friends. He didn't just talk the talk. He walked the walk.

KWhit
03-04-2005, 08:25 AM
Sorry to say I missed this on the news last night. That's a wonderful honor. It's great to see that your father and brother were so well loved.

Ben E Lou
03-04-2005, 08:42 AM
Can anyone get this video to play?

http://www.11alive.com/video/player.aspx?aid=37677&sid=59809&bw=

I was asleep when the news came on last night. My wife tried to wake me up, but to no avail.

digamma
03-04-2005, 09:00 AM
Can anyone get this video to play?

http://www.11alive.com/video/player.aspx?aid=37677&sid=59809&bw=

I was asleep when the news came on last night. My wife tried to wake me up, but to no avail.
The link at www.wgnx.com (http://www.wgnx.com) works for me, but I can't get 11alive to play either.