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Lathum
01-14-2009, 11:38 PM
I mean who is actualy responsible for mailing the check/ going on line. Not making the cheese.

Karlifornia
01-14-2009, 11:42 PM
Nobody...we live off the grid.

Ok, fine, my roommate does.

JeeberD
01-15-2009, 12:33 AM
Me. I love my wife, but I would have a hard time letting her do the bills...

Lathum
01-15-2009, 12:48 AM
Me. I love my wife, but I would have a hard time letting her do the bills...

why?

JeeberD
01-15-2009, 12:51 AM
I like knowing exactly how much we have and where it's going. Plus, math really isn't her thing...

Lathum
01-15-2009, 01:27 AM
I like knowing exactly how much we have and where it's going. Plus, math really isn't her thing...

fair enough.

My wife handles all that stuff, she is way more orginaized then me. It's not like I can't do it, I made it through 30 years without her, but if she wants to do it I wont say no

JetsIn06
01-15-2009, 04:55 AM
I somehow ended up doing them. Not really sure why.

Honolulu_Blue
01-15-2009, 05:41 AM
Lady H_B is our household's Master of Coin. She's a lot better at this kind of thing than I am and a lot more organized.

Icy
01-15-2009, 05:47 AM
I do, as we joke about, i manage the family "macro economy" (business, bank accounts, bills, etc) and she handles the "micro economy" (daily shopping, cash, etc).

Raiders Army
01-15-2009, 06:28 AM
I have bills?

terpkristin
01-15-2009, 06:34 AM
I try to get Oz to pay them but he just doesn't listen.

/tk

RedHawk00
01-15-2009, 07:18 AM
I am in the same boat as Icy... big stuff me, little stuff her

Schmidty
01-15-2009, 08:10 AM
I do it.....which isn't always such a good thing. I'm a procrastinator with a bad memory. I love places that just auto-pay out of checking, because I can't mess that up.

flere-imsaho
01-15-2009, 08:17 AM
I used to do it, but she does now. She's significantly better at it, and cares more. Plus, I was tired of getting second-guessed on how I was doing things.

I get to take out the garbage, though. Go me! :D

CU Tiger
01-15-2009, 08:22 AM
We sit down together every two weeks look over them, she writes the checks I drop them in the mail (ok the 1 or 2 we dont pay online)

jeheinz72
01-15-2009, 08:24 AM
I let my wife do it because well, it's one less thing I gotta do.

tarcone
01-15-2009, 08:28 AM
I used to do it. But I was terrible at it and my wife took over. So household axiom #22 really works. "The less it appears you know how to do, the less you have to do."

lighthousekeeper
01-15-2009, 08:50 AM
So household axiom #22 really works. "The less it appears you know how to do, the less you have to do."

wow - i now have a new life philosophy

Maple Leafs
01-15-2009, 09:02 AM
My wife and I share the expenses of course, but she does the actual bill paying.

In the past few years, she has:

- Had us double-paying our mortgage for about six months, until the bank called and asked what the hell was going on

- Overpaid the sewer bill so much that we wound up with a credit that lasted two years

- Paid $250 to Visa that I didn't owe. After I yelled at her, the next month she vaguely remembered something important about Visa so she sent them another $500.

So yeah, it's working out great for us.

chesapeake
01-15-2009, 09:42 AM
My wife is smart, accomplished, and makes almost 50% more than I do. But money issues terrify her. So my Sugar Mommy will keep me in the bling as long as I take care of the bookkeeping. That, my friends, is a heckuva deal.

Marc Vaughan
01-15-2009, 09:55 AM
My wife is a lovely intelligent woman but has the financial accumen of a dead trout - hence I do all the financial stuff, she prefers it that way ...

Not least because then when it goes wrong its my fault ;)

Autumn
01-15-2009, 10:48 AM
I do the bills. I've been in the spot where she was doing them because I kept running late and she was always second guessing. Now I just do them along with our business accounting, so it gets done.

Honolulu_Blue
01-15-2009, 11:38 AM
My wife and I share the expenses of course, but she does the actual bill paying.

In the past few years, she has:

- Had us double-paying our mortgage for about six months, until the bank called and asked what the hell was going on

- Overpaid the sewer bill so much that we wound up with a credit that lasted two years

- Paid $250 to Visa that I didn't owe. After I yelled at her, the next month she vaguely remembered something important about Visa so she sent them another $500.

So yeah, it's working out great for us.

I didn't know your wife worked for Maple Leafs Sports & Entertainment Ltd. The Jeff Finger and Jason Blake signings make perfect sense now.