Second Life affair ends in Divorce
 

I admit.. I lol'ed throughout the whole thing...

Second Life affair ends in divorce - CNN.com

Wow.

I find this to be the best part.

Wow.... I think some people need to put down the joy stick.

:eek:

Okay, I've spent my share of time in infidelity support groups after my wife's affair, and I know intellectually that women tend to find emotional affairs just as gut-wrenching as physical affairs...but I'm honestly baffled by online "emotional" affairs like this.

I just can't really see why this sort of thing would be divorce-caliber upsetting. Sure, tell him he's a dickwad and set some boundaries for appropriate online behavior, but purely online emotional stuff just baffles me (both in the "why would you want to do it?" sense and the "why would you give a shit?" sense).

Now, if the chick on the other end starts calling him in real life, sending him e-mail or planning to run off with him, bust him all you want. But avatar sex?

I'm desperately hoping that there's more to this story (i.e., a broader pattern of inappropriate marital behavior, including inappropriate attachments to actual flesh-and-blood women) and we're just not getting it because the headline wouldn't be as catchy.

I fully acknowledge that maybe I'm just not getting this because I'm a guy.

I found the article amusing, but that last line had me laughing uncontrollably. The writer could not have ended the article better.

What no joy stick? Okay then raise their hands of the mouse and keyboard.

I did not know that avatars could have sex on SecondLife, that's news to me.

That is one funnyashell story right there.

From the story:


I think that's the most important line from the story. My take is that these two met in a chatroom, certainly had some sort of emotional connection cybersex themselves, and place a much much higher level of importance on it now as a result.

I suppose that could be true. My wife freaks out if I send friendly e-mails to co-worker chicks as part of work banter because I "used to joke with (her) like that".

Silly me. I thought I joked with everybody "like that".

Still, seems like more of a chick thing. I remember when my wife and I had been married for about two years and we got our first computer, she was doing the cybersex thing with a guy we knew. I busted her on it and we had a long talk about appropriate behavior for married people (and exchanging sexy messages with acquaintances over the interwebs wasn't one of them). Thing was, I didn't really even give a shit about what she was doing. For me, it was all about the double standard: if I'd done anything even remotely like that, she would have ripped my head off. (But, of course, I wouldn't have done anything like that anyway, because it was silly. I like to have both my hands free for jerking off, thank you.)

Then again, if I'd dealt with that behavior better, maybe I wouldn't have found myself on the shit end of a real affair ten years later. ;)

But as you can tell from my decade old anecdote, my opinion hasn't really changed, even with a great deal more wisdom. It's worth a serious conversation or five about appropriate marital boundaries, but that's about it.

Yeah it's been that way for a number of years now.

The escort places can be entertaining at times, but whatever you do, no matter how bored you get, do -not- wander into a furry zone.

This is the first I have ever heard about Second Life

Me too....Escort rooms? The Furry zone (I'm afraid to ask what that exactly is)?

Escort rooms are usually combination strip clubs/brothels where each girl has a set price of Lindens per sexual activity. There's usually a house minimum, but generally speaking, the ones worth their salt are going to charge more, of course. Each girl can also set limits on the types of the things they do. Like for example, some won't do ageplay or bondage or furry or snuff or whatever and if a client asks for those things, they'll refer the client to an escort who will engage in what said client is looking for.

Furry zones are seriously depraved places. We're talking the kind of fucked up shit that creeps even me out. Basically, think bipedal, sentinent animals of all species with human sex organs and the desire to use them.

Then you've got the Gorean zones, which are interesting, but not really my cup of tea. I tend to be bored by the RP zones. It's just too awkward that way, though I appreciate the work a lot of people put into it.

It's a fascinating fusion of SL economy and RL economy at times too, with some people pouring quite a bit of real life cash into it. Some people even make a fair bit of real life money out of it, too.

There's also the usual just hang out and chat places, a lot of trivia contests that people host, etc. Lot of dance clubs, etc.

Basically, you imagine it, SL probably has it in some form or another.

I'm not sure, but I'd guess French is the main language spoken there.

Damn Amy Taylor is hot, have you guys done an image search on her yet?

Not that Amy Taylor :)

I'm creating a second life account so that I can view the forums. This could have dynasty written all over it. You can pick any first name you want, but then it creates a list of "available last names".

Oh boy. I try like 5 different first names (including my own), but it says no last names available. So I try the first name of "Boyd", and there are some actual winners.

Ladies and gentlemen, I am now Boyd Snoodle.

More to come.

whoops..I guess had them send the confirmation email to an account that doesn't exist...attempt two, I am now HAMBONE SWEETWATER

What. The. Fuck.

Seriously.



Seriously.

So who gets all the Jolt and Magic the Gathering cards?

So when you're in one of those rooms do you keep hitting F5 to prolong it?

Also ... at climax is it customary to type VINI VIDI VICCI?

I pick blackberries in my online world.

excellent

Yeah, that last sentence was awesome. :D

Winner.

And I have to add, after seeing "Role Models" last night, I am not shocked by any of that disturbing diatribe.

It was doomed to failure as soon as she modeled for his car.

This post creeps me out.

YOu know WAY to much about this.

dola- I have never heard of second life and it sounds a little creepy IMO.


So basicly she is divorcing him for doing something akin to picking up a hooker in Grand Theft Auto?

Not really, because in GTA you're not left wondering if its really a dude on the other end of the intertubes.

guffaw!

When you are done you just hit P followed by a line of alternating tildes and spaces.

Wow, you need both hands? You really treat yourself, that's nice.

Get a life...a real life.

this is the 2nd time i've heard of furry zone. pumpy was the first one to tell me about it. what the hell goes on?!?!? :confused:

nevermind, izulde let the cat out of the bag.

I wonder if JimmyWint is in Second Life. :)

JEEZUS CHRIST THIS IS THE SICKEST AND WEIRDEST AND MOST HARDCOREST THING EVER. THIS IS SICK AND DEPRAVED. I CAN'T STOP WRITING IN ALL CAPS.

Yeah, furries are....well....they make LARPers look normal.

I blame Bugs Bunny

I don't know. I'd have a pretty big problem if I caught my wife having cybersex - even with a total stranger. I think it would be even worse with someone she actually knew.

I can see how this kind of shit - online "romances" - can actually fuck up real life relationships.

Speaking from the bad side of an online something-or-other, it really does screw up real-life relationships. World of Warcraft plus the woman I thought I knew equals our relationship is totally messed up...maybe forever.

am I the last person on the planet who jerks off to porn?

Still on erotic stories?

Nope.

Fixed :p

ASCII porn?