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Originally Posted by A-Husker-4-Life
I want to help her, I really hate seeing her crash like this...
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Did you know her before she had this apparent problem? I ask because it might be worth evaluating whether you actually know "her" or "her with her problem". You may or may not like "her" but you don't seem to like "her with her problem". If that makes sense.
If you feel like you really know "her" then get her some help. Get her parents involved, siblings, best friends, etc. and involve some professional help. If none of her family/friends are likely to be onboard or helpful (i.e. they have the same issues) then you may need to do this with some professional help if you truly want her back from whatever is making her live recklessly. And you'll likely want to get her out of whatever life situations & influences she has today. It will not be easy and she may not be a very willing participant...but if you truly want "her"...you don't have too many choices.
Out of curiosity...what age range we talking here? 18-22? 22-30? 30+?