I guess what I'm really asking for is a global "I would like things to be returned to warehouse for me to pick up rather than dumped on my front porch for all to see" setting. And yeah like Jon says, I suspect it's the seller specifying to dump on first attempt because it saves them $$$.
As for whether it always was like this, I used to get those slips on my front door most of the time and I could call to arrange delivery or pick up. Now I haven't seen one of those in a couple years. So at least from my perspective things have changed.
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