[sterlingice]

I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry. We've been dealing with a.lot. this year - I haven't shared with this board yet, mainly because the time required to do it justice. Aside: it's a strange thing, along with each interaction of telling someone about a death making it more real and reliving some of the grief each time, there's also the desire to really do justice to the people who you want to tell this news to and that becomes a pressure in and of itself. Anyhoo...

I really mean it with the laughing and crying - like sometimes you think about how this sort of dumbfuckery can trivialize those people and things most important to you. But other times, it makes you go, you know I needed a good laugh and imbeciles like this can inadvertently deliver.

SI