[NobodyHere]

Well she ended it. I'll leave the door open if she wants to come back but I ain't begging.

Now the issue is that we kind of have the same circle of friends so now I have to navigate that sea. She says she won't make it awkward but I know she has a vindictive side to her. I wish no ill upon her so we'll see how it plays out.

I guess my main takeaway from all this is to talk more and to take hints better.

I think my ultimate mistake was to just let things sit. She seemed rather disengaged in the last few times I saw her. But rather than talk about it I did nothing. So in her mind I wasn't interested any longer in dating. That wasn't quite true but I had no good idea on how to re-engage her.

There's also the matter where I liked cooking a home chef meal together at my place whereas I think she wanted me to take her out to restaraunts more.

Live and Learn I guess.

In the meantime I did get another female coworker...