On one hand, I understand the time and effort the parent has put in to support their child getting to that level, to say nothing of the time and effort the child has put in and thus the empathy (hopefully) that the parent has for that child and his/her effort. It's understandable to be emotional and dismayed. Sports is emotional, after all.
On the other hand, you're supposed to be an adult, setting an example, and also being the support your child needs especially when something like this happens. Maybe grow the fuck up.
I think a lot about this when reffing or watching my boys play and see parents of the losing team absolutely losing it on the sidelines. You know what those kids want when they walk off the field after a loss? Comfort, understanding, support. Not a deranged lunatic who can't handle their emotions.
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