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I don’t think there’s a better thread but I’m stressed. My 13yo son has his first girlfriend about a month ago. Hooray. It’s certainly built his confidence that he’s not in fact ugly. But I digress. I have a cloned iPad and can read his texts. This girl is horribly abusive to him verbally. She’s 12/13 and likely trying to figure herself out too but my son is overly nice and supportive and uplifting to her and she’s nothing but negative, denigrating, and abusive to him. It’s very weird and he often responds with “tf?” And “wtf?” When she says awful things to him, about him etc but he’s a moth to flame as he tries to navigate relationships. Anyways, I’m going to talk to him today about it so any advice would be awesome. He knows I can see the texts and I blame Bark (an app) that sends clips of texts however he doesn’t know that I can read them all anyways… he don’t like it but he knows that it’s non negotiable that we do.
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