[Flasch186]

heard.

Last night it was often brought up that if you don't want to do this then fine lets do something else but you're going to play team sport (philosophically the wife and I think a lot of good comes from team sport participation). He expresses a strong desire in many ways that he does want this but the fear of getting hit is a big problem. The perfetcionism and then effort fade is another.

He says all the things that lead you to believe that he does in fact want this. He has admitted the problem verbally so I'm hopeful that that will again allow us to peel back some of this in a trust fall kind of way. I just think two things... he's gotta grow up as you mentioned and he's gotta get hit so he can see that he wants to hit the ball much more than he gives a shit about whether he gets hit or not.

Strange days man strange days.