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We went through something very similar with my MIL. She was absolutely dead set against somebody coming in and cleaning biweekly (we just pay for our cleaning service to go over to hers the same day), and bitched about it for at least the first 3 months, but finally admitted one time to my wife that she secretly was very happy that her home was finally clean - the social aspect of it is good as well (especially right now during Covid), they play with and groom her dog and although she'll bitch still if they put something out of place, it's been one of the best decisions we've ever made for her. I hope you can get your mom into a good place, but I suspect it's going to have to have you playing the bad guy for a while for the sake of her health.
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