Trying to be rational - is there something that they both really like that your spouses are willing to cede to you to be "your thing?" A treat of some sorts?
And I don't necessarily mean food...but like...say...going to the zoo, or taking a bath or brushing their teeth? That way you can kind of make that your like "special time" and they start to associate you with something they like again.
I dunno...I'm not a parent. I tend to approach these things too logically probably.
|