Best use of Excel...ever?

Suburban Rhythm · 07-21-2014, 12:15 PM

Pouty Husband Sends Wife Spreadsheet Detailing Sex-Life Dissatisfaction

flere-imsaho · 07-21-2014, 12:20 PM

I'm surprised this hasn't happened before, tbh.

Well, I'm sure it's happened before. I'm surprised it hasn't been turned into a new story until now.

Lathum · 07-21-2014, 12:30 PM

kind of a douche move by the husband. If you and your wife aren't having enough sex maybe try talking about it with her.

Blackadar · 07-21-2014, 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Lathum

kind of a douche move by the husband. If you and your wife aren't having enough sex maybe try talking about it with her.

For all you know, he has and she's denied there's a problem. Given that she posted this online, I'd say it's far more likely she's the problem.

sterlingice · 07-21-2014, 12:40 PM

What's the over/under on the next 50 entries now? 4?

SI

chesapeake · 07-21-2014, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by sterlingice

What's the over/under on the next 50 entries now? 4?

SI

One. And I'm taking the under.

Suburban Rhythm · 07-21-2014, 01:04 PM

Sort of upsetting that he didn't put a little more effort into it...

The spreadsheet I mean. Not with the wife. That ship has probably sailed long ago. But he could have at least added a graph depicting most frequent responses.

cartman · 07-21-2014, 01:06 PM

How To Fudge An Excel Spreadsheet?

Schmidty · 07-21-2014, 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lathum

kind of a douche move by the husband. If you and your wife aren't having enough sex maybe try talking about it with her.

Ditto.

If you can't make it happen, you are the problem.

I can't believe people are backing this; however, I didn't even read it, so I suck.

CU Tiger · 07-21-2014, 03:35 PM

Shit around the 4th "No" he should have added an additional column

molson · 07-21-2014, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Suburban Rhythm

Sort of upsetting that he didn't put a little more effort into it...

The spreadsheet I mean. Not with the wife. That ship has probably sailed long ago. But he could have at least added a graph depicting most frequent responses.

That's my problem with it to. It's just a list. He could have used Word. On a notebook.

Logan · 07-21-2014, 03:51 PM

Seeing the responses of "I feel gross and need to shower (didn't shower until next morning)" tells me this is a wife issue.

cuervo72 · 07-21-2014, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Schmidty

Ditto.

If you can't make it happen, you are the problem.

You want a crack at my wife then?

Draft Dodger · 07-21-2014, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by cuervo72

You want a crack at my wife then?

you know I thought of you almost immediately when I saw this the other day

whomario · 07-21-2014, 04:23 PM

I can´t be the only one wondering what exactly happened when the response was "non-verbal"

Draft Dodger · 07-21-2014, 04:24 PM

my take, by the way...Spreadsheet? Yeah, kind of lame but not totally outrageous. But the big issue is the way he sent it to her - a nasty email as she left on a ten day trip. That's beyond childish.

cuervo72 · 07-21-2014, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Draft Dodger

you know I thought of you almost immediately when I saw this the other day

Yeah...funny how that is.

I've thought of logging it before, but frankly it's not that hard to track mentally.

stevew · 07-21-2014, 07:03 PM

Immediately knew what thus was going to be about by the thread title.

Lathum · 07-21-2014, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by whomario

I can´t be the only one wondering what exactly happened when the response was "non-verbal"

My guess is just rolling over and going to sleep. My wife has that one down to a science.

Suburban Rhythm · 07-21-2014, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Schmidty

Ditto.

If you can't make it happen, you are the problem.

I can't believe people are backing this; however, I didn't even read it, so I suck.

Maybe I'm giving the guy too much credit, but my assumption is this isn't a new thing, but going on months (years?) before the list was compiled.

Also, maybe showing my age and length and state of marriage, but is 3 times in 27 days that horrible?

sterlingice · 07-21-2014, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Suburban Rhythm

Maybe I'm giving the guy too much credit, but my assumption is this isn't a new thing, but going on months (years?) before the list was compiled.

Also, maybe showing my age and length and state of marriage, but is 3 times in 27 days that horrible?

Wasn't it 3 times in 7 weeks and he had tried 27 times?

SI

Matthean · 07-21-2014, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Logan

Seeing the responses of "I feel gross and need to shower (didn't shower until next morning)" tells me this is a wife issue.

He could have gone from 3 to 5 if they had cut down on drinking. I'm guessing drinks might have been involved the other time as well.

sabotai · 07-22-2014, 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Suburban Rhythm

Maybe I'm giving the guy too much credit, but my assumption is this isn't a new thing, but going on months (years?) before the list was compiled.

I read the original reddit post (because I've become quit addicted to reading the relationships subreddit and saw this a few days ago). Apparently their sex life had taken a dive, according to her, over the past few months, but before that they were doing it fairly regularly (a few times a week).

And for people argueing over whether it's the problem of the wife or the husband, I'm reminded of a line I heard several times while watching Sports Night. "Like it can't be both?"

korme · 07-22-2014, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Matthean

He could have gone from 3 to 5 if they had cut down on drinking. I'm guessing drinks might have been involved the other time as well.

Wouldn't drinking increase the odds substantially?

Izulde · 07-22-2014, 12:50 AM

My suspicion is that she's fucking somebody else.

Lathum · 07-22-2014, 05:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Izulde

My suspicion is that she's fucking somebody else.

Why is that?

Matthean · 07-22-2014, 05:39 AM

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Originally Posted by korme

Wouldn't drinking increase the odds substantially?

If true, then he's screwed in a bad way.

MizzouRah · 07-22-2014, 07:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Izulde

My suspicion is that she's fucking somebody else.

That's my initial thought as well..

Suburban Rhythm · 07-22-2014, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by sterlingice

Wasn't it 3 times in 7 weeks and he had tried 27 times?

SI

I just counted rows. You are correct, looks to be about 6 weeks.

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Originally Posted by sabotai

I read the original reddit post (because I've become quit addicted to reading the relationships subreddit and saw this a few days ago). Apparently their sex life had taken a dive, according to her, over the past few months, but before that they were doing it fairly regularly (a few times a week).

And for people argueing over whether it's the problem of the wife or the husband, I'm reminded of a line I heard several times while watching Sports Night. "Like it can't be both?"

Makes me think of the story...

A couple goes to a marriage therapist. During the first session, they each meet with the therapist separately.

The therapist asks the husband about their sex life. "Oh...it's horrible. We hardly ever do it. Once a week...maybe twice a week if I'm lucky!"

Then the therapist meets with the wife, asking the same question. "Ugh...it's ALL THE TIME. At least once a week, sometimes twice!"

Lathum · 07-22-2014, 07:32 AM

I'm curious why you guys think she is cheating. Is it frequency or the way he or she reacted?

I think it is hard to make that conclusion without knowing more information.

Bobble · 07-22-2014, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Matthean

If true, then he's screwed in a bad way.

I see what you did there...

So, in a way, maybe he WAS screwed 27 times in 27 attempts!

Danny · 07-22-2014, 07:45 AM

I don't agree at all with the cheating assumptions. The total probably would have been 0 and I especially don't think she post it for her cheating partner to see she's still sleeping with her husband . A couple with some serious communication problems.

Suburban Rhythm · 07-22-2014, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Lathum

I'm curious why you guys think she is cheating. Is it frequency or the way he or she reacted?

I think it is hard to make that conclusion without knowing more information.

Yeah...seems like quite a leap. There's probably a enough blame to go around.

But I do find it amusing that he tracked it all. His delivery might have sucked, but the data itself is solid.

Logan · 07-22-2014, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Lathum

I'm curious why you guys think she is cheating. Is it frequency or the way he or she reacted?

I think it is hard to make that conclusion without knowing more information.

This is the internet, we don't need any more information to make conclusions.

Blackadar · 07-22-2014, 09:05 AM

I'm putting this mostly on her, based on her original post (which is now been hidden/removed from Reddit).

They were having sex 3-5 times a week. She got weight-conscious and life got "hectic". Their sex life tapered off and her post indicates she didn't think this was a problem. She then rejected her husband enough that he started keeping track of this (which didn't happen overnight). When he finally kept track of it, the facts showed that she rebuffed him about 90% of the time. When you get rejected by the one you love 90% of the time over the span of months, you're not likely to appreciate it much or react well.

I don't think we can trust her word that she didn't know anything was wrong. That sounds too convenient and makes her too oblivious. Maybe she is, but that's not a really good excuse either.

Now it's possible the husband's email and actions were immature. But there's a fundamental lack of communication here and instead of dealing with her husband, she chose to post this on Reddit. Does anyone really think that is the sign of a mature adult who is looking to resolve this situation? Or more the actions of an immature bitch?

---

On a personal note, I once read my wife the riot act via an email. Talking to her wasn't working - it was going in one ear and out the other or she would derail the conversation into a fight about something else. So the best approach was in writing, where I could lay out my concerns. My wife realized that she had been taking me for granted and things changed. So this guy sending his wife an Excel spreadsheet isn't necessarily the worst way to communicate with her. It may be his last ditch attempt to communicate before he seeks a divorce from his clueless and immature wife.

Radii · 07-22-2014, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Lathum

I'm curious why you guys think she is cheating. Is it frequency or the way he or she reacted?

I think it is hard to make that conclusion without knowing more information.

Reading this thread makes me think that this is just some unusually formed Rorschach test. People are seeing what they want to see based on their own relationship history, or maybe based on how they grew up and how dug in they are on gender stereotypes, I dunno. People who have had more bad experiences in relationships blame her. People who lack those bad experiences/are in very successful marriages blame him. People who have been cheated on assume she's cheating.

I think the only thing any of us amateur relationship counselors can safely do with this is to feel pretty certain that this relationship isn't in the best place right now. I love Reddit, but seeing the leaps being made here and extrapolating that out into the god awful advice it would lead to over on reddit is the reason I stay far, far away from any sort of relationship sub.

Arles · 07-22-2014, 10:31 AM

Everyone goes through dry spells. I think his mistake was his persistence and not understanding how to achieve the goal he wanted. You get rejected Monday and Tuesday night - don't ask Wednesday and Thursday, you're just being an ass then. Give her a few days off, set up a nice romantic dinner on Friday and if you still don't get some - you have a strong case when you talk on Saturday.

Honestly, it looks like both these people are miserable. She feels he's super pushy and isn't interested for whatever reason (self image via weight, his attitude, stress, ...). He's pissed because it went from 2-3 times a week to 2-3 times a month (fair initial response), but he's handled it like a child instead of just talking to her. Tells me he's tapping out mentally and is probably getting some on the road. Then, when she catches him, he can whip out the spreadsheet as a justification.

Lathum · 07-22-2014, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Arles

Everyone goes through dry spells. I think his mistake was his persistence and not understanding how to achieve the goal he wanted. You get rejected Monday and Tuesday night - don't ask Wednesday and Thursday, you're just being an ass then. Give her a few days off, set up a nice romantic dinner on Friday and if you still don't get some - you have a strong case when you talk on Saturday.

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This

My wife and I both work full time and have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. We both acknowledge this time in our lives in likely the worst it will be with regards to sex. During the week we are both exhausted, on the weekend we are always with the kids, my 4 year old climbs in our bed most mornings and is an early riser, so that is out.

If I initiate a couple times in a row and get shot down I flat out tell her let me know when she is ready, and she always does.

Now I have no clue where they are at in their lives, kids, etc...but tracking that, then sending it in an email and saying he won't miss her on her trip is pretty shitty. If all he cares about is sex, and he won't miss her because of that then the relationship is nuked. IMO.

CU Tiger · 07-22-2014, 11:15 AM

I guess each person and each relatonship has a different priority regarding sexual frequency and quality. Got into a rather long discussion about this a few weeks ago at a (multi gender) poker night. Based on that I am not sure anyone else can say what is going on in their house, but I feel its pretty apparent they place different levels of emphasis on sexual contact in their relationship and thats a pretty big hurdle to over come in my opinion.

If he sees their frequency as a problem, it is a problem for the relationship whether she thinks its a problem or not. I think far too often we fall into a trap of valuing the other person's feelings too much. In Arles example above. On each attempted night each of the partners has a desire/need. The initiator has a desire for physical intimacy with their partner and the other partner does not share that desire or has a different desire (laziness, alcohol, sleep, etc). Each of these desires is valid AND equal.

The wife and I have had discussions over this in the past, and this is the basic conclusion we reached for our relationship. If you take 100 "attempts" by either partner. Lets assume 50 are mutually desired so we are working with 50 unrequited attempts. Occassionally one should give in and do without, and occassionally one should relent and proceed even if they may not be 100% on board. If the pendulum always swings in 1 direction (hubby always wants it wife always doesnt in the spread sheet example) she is then valuing her desire to not have sex over his desire to do so. In this case a compromise is in order and they can both achieve what they want (he can have sex and she can abstain) if she isnt willing to concede this, nor willing to "take one for the team"...then she is being a selfish beotch IMHO.

just kidding on the conclusion a bit...but I think the sentiment is still there.

sabotai · 07-22-2014, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Blackadar

Now it's possible the husband's email and actions were immature. But there's a fundamental lack of communication here and instead of dealing with her husband, she chose to post this on Reddit. Does anyone really think that is the sign of a mature adult who is looking to resolve this situation? Or more the actions of an immature bitch?

In her original post, she said that after getting the email, she tried calling and texting her husband the rest of the day, and the next morning, but he wasn't responding.

bryce · 07-22-2014, 02:28 PM

I just had to google "what is reddit" and I'm still not sure I really understand.

molson · 07-22-2014, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by bryce

I just had to google "what is reddit" and I'm still not sure I really understand.

It's like FOF if we had about a hundred million posters and thousands of sub-forums.

flere-imsaho · 07-22-2014, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by molson

It's like FOF if we had about a hundred million posters and thousands of sub-forums.

I was going to say something witty here in disagreement, but then thought about it and figured you've gotten it right.

sabotai · 07-22-2014, 02:45 PM

FWIW, here's a screencap of her post before it was deleted.

http://i.imgur.com/Zreanes.png

sterlingice · 07-22-2014, 02:47 PM

Can we all agree that sending a spreadsheet and not answering your phone is probably the wrong move and that then turning around, posting it to reddit, and then asking for advice there is /also/ a wrong move?

SI

sabotai · 07-22-2014, 02:53 PM

Also

(Linked because language - NSFW)

http://i.imgur.com/aLBKMrr.jpg

Lathum · 07-22-2014, 02:58 PM

If nothing else her comments validate a need for communication in their relationship. She clearly thought nothing was wrong, and he clearly did. For it to get to this point there is enough blame on both, but the husband comes off as pretty immature. IMO. As does she for posting it on a forum.

FWIW 26 and no kids they should be doing it more often.

sterlingice · 07-22-2014, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by sabotai

Also

(Linked because language - NSFW)

http://i.imgur.com/aLBKMrr.jpg

You could always use the spoiler tag for something like that

SI

Blackadar · 07-22-2014, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by sterlingice

Can we all agree that sending a spreadsheet and not answering your phone is probably the wrong move and that then turning around, posting it to reddit, and then asking for advice there is /also/ a wrong move?

SI

Yes, 100%.

Saying "I'm watching my show and I don't want to miss anything" to avoid sex should be grounds for an immediate divorce.

Blackadar · 07-22-2014, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Lathum

FWIW 26 and no kids they should be doing it more often.

Like RABBITS.

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07-21-2014, 01:04 PM	#7
Suburban Rhythm Pro Starter Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Pittsburgh	Sort of upsetting that he didn't put a little more effort into it... The spreadsheet I mean. Not with the wife. That ship has probably sailed long ago. But he could have at least added a graph depicting most frequent responses. __________________ "Do you guys play fast tempos with odd time signatures?" "Yeah" "Cool!!"

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07-21-2014, 04:24 PM	#16
Draft Dodger Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Keene, NH	my take, by the way...Spreadsheet? Yeah, kind of lame but not totally outrageous. But the big issue is the way he sent it to her - a nasty email as she left on a ten day trip. That's beyond childish. __________________ Mile High Hockey

07-21-2014, 12:20 PM	#2
flere-imsaho Coordinator Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Chicagoland	I'm surprised this hasn't happened before, tbh. Well, I'm sure it's happened before. I'm surprised it hasn't been turned into a new story until now.

07-21-2014, 12:30 PM	#3
Lathum Favored Bitch #1 Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: homeless in NJ	kind of a douche move by the husband. If you and your wife aren't having enough sex maybe try talking about it with her.

07-21-2014, 03:35 PM	#10
CU Tiger Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Backwoods, SC	Shit around the 4th "No" he should have added an additional column

07-21-2014, 03:51 PM	#12
Logan Head Coach Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: NYC	Seeing the responses of "I feel gross and need to shower (didn't shower until next morning)" tells me this is a wife issue.

07-21-2014, 07:03 PM	#18
stevew Hall Of Famer Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: the yo'	Immediately knew what thus was going to be about by the thread title.

07-22-2014, 12:50 AM	#25
Izulde Head Coach Join Date: Sep 2004	My suspicion is that she's fucking somebody else. __________________ 2006 Golden Scribe Nominee 2006 Golden Scribe Winner Best Non-Sport Dynasty: May Our Reign Be Green and Golden (CK Dynasty) Rookie Writer of the Year Dynasty of the Year: May Our Reign Be Green and Golden (CK Dynasty)

07-22-2014, 07:32 AM	#30
Lathum Favored Bitch #1 Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: homeless in NJ	I'm curious why you guys think she is cheating. Is it frequency or the way he or she reacted? I think it is hard to make that conclusion without knowing more information.

07-22-2014, 07:45 AM	#32
Danny General Manager Join Date: Jul 2001	I don't agree at all with the cheating assumptions. The total probably would have been 0 and I especially don't think she post it for her cheating partner to see she's still sleeping with her husband . A couple with some serious communication problems.

07-22-2014, 09:05 AM	#35
Blackadar Retired Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Fantasyland	I'm putting this mostly on her, based on her original post (which is now been hidden/removed from Reddit). They were having sex 3-5 times a week. She got weight-conscious and life got "hectic". Their sex life tapered off and her post indicates she didn't think this was a problem. She then rejected her husband enough that he started keeping track of this (which didn't happen overnight). When he finally kept track of it, the facts showed that she rebuffed him about 90% of the time. When you get rejected by the one you love 90% of the time over the span of months, you're not likely to appreciate it much or react well. I don't think we can trust her word that she didn't know anything was wrong. That sounds too convenient and makes her too oblivious. Maybe she is, but that's not a really good excuse either. Now it's possible the husband's email and actions were immature. But there's a fundamental lack of communication here and instead of dealing with her husband, she chose to post this on Reddit. Does anyone really think that is the sign of a mature adult who is looking to resolve this situation? Or more the actions of an immature bitch? --- On a personal note, I once read my wife the riot act via an email. Talking to her wasn't working - it was going in one ear and out the other or she would derail the conversation into a fight about something else. So the best approach was in writing, where I could lay out my concerns. My wife realized that she had been taking me for granted and things changed. So this guy sending his wife an Excel spreadsheet isn't necessarily the worst way to communicate with her. It may be his last ditch attempt to communicate before he seeks a divorce from his clueless and immature wife.

07-22-2014, 10:31 AM	#37
Arles Grey Dog Software Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Phoenix, AZ by way of Belleville, IL	Everyone goes through dry spells. I think his mistake was his persistence and not understanding how to achieve the goal he wanted. You get rejected Monday and Tuesday night - don't ask Wednesday and Thursday, you're just being an ass then. Give her a few days off, set up a nice romantic dinner on Friday and if you still don't get some - you have a strong case when you talk on Saturday. Honestly, it looks like both these people are miserable. She feels he's super pushy and isn't interested for whatever reason (self image via weight, his attitude, stress, ...). He's pissed because it went from 2-3 times a week to 2-3 times a month (fair initial response), but he's handled it like a child instead of just talking to her. Tells me he's tapping out mentally and is probably getting some on the road. Then, when she catches him, he can whip out the spreadsheet as a justification. __________________ Developer of Bowl Bound College Football http://www.greydogsoftware.com

07-22-2014, 11:15 AM	#39
CU Tiger Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Backwoods, SC	I guess each person and each relatonship has a different priority regarding sexual frequency and quality. Got into a rather long discussion about this a few weeks ago at a (multi gender) poker night. Based on that I am not sure anyone else can say what is going on in their house, but I feel its pretty apparent they place different levels of emphasis on sexual contact in their relationship and thats a pretty big hurdle to over come in my opinion. If he sees their frequency as a problem, it is a problem for the relationship whether she thinks its a problem or not. I think far too often we fall into a trap of valuing the other person's feelings too much. In Arles example above. On each attempted night each of the partners has a desire/need. The initiator has a desire for physical intimacy with their partner and the other partner does not share that desire or has a different desire (laziness, alcohol, sleep, etc). Each of these desires is valid AND equal. The wife and I have had discussions over this in the past, and this is the basic conclusion we reached for our relationship. If you take 100 "attempts" by either partner. Lets assume 50 are mutually desired so we are working with 50 unrequited attempts. Occassionally one should give in and do without, and occassionally one should relent and proceed even if they may not be 100% on board. If the pendulum always swings in 1 direction (hubby always wants it wife always doesnt in the spread sheet example) she is then valuing her desire to not have sex over his desire to do so. In this case a compromise is in order and they can both achieve what they want (he can have sex and she can abstain) if she isnt willing to concede this, nor willing to "take one for the team"...then she is being a selfish beotch IMHO. just kidding on the conclusion a bit...but I think the sentiment is still there. Last edited by CU Tiger : 07-22-2014 at 11:24 AM.

07-22-2014, 02:28 PM	#41
bryce High School Varsity Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Dallas, TX	I just had to google "what is reddit" and I'm still not sure I really understand.

07-22-2014, 02:45 PM	#44
sabotai General Manager Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: The Satellite of Love	FWIW, here's a screencap of her post before it was deleted. http://i.imgur.com/Zreanes.png

07-22-2014, 02:47 PM	#45
sterlingice Hall Of Famer Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Back in Houston!	Can we all agree that sending a spreadsheet and not answering your phone is probably the wrong move and that then turning around, posting it to reddit, and then asking for advice there is /also/ a wrong move? SI __________________ Houston Hippopotami, III.3: 20th Anniversary Thread - All former HT players are encouraged to check it out! Janos: "Only America could produce an imbecile of your caliber!" Freakazoid: "That's because we make lots of things better than other people!" Last edited by sterlingice : 07-22-2014 at 02:48 PM.

07-22-2014, 02:53 PM	#46
sabotai General Manager Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: The Satellite of Love	Also (Linked because language - NSFW) http://i.imgur.com/aLBKMrr.jpg Last edited by sabotai : 07-22-2014 at 02:54 PM.

07-22-2014, 02:58 PM	#47
Lathum Favored Bitch #1 Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: homeless in NJ	If nothing else her comments validate a need for communication in their relationship. She clearly thought nothing was wrong, and he clearly did. For it to get to this point there is enough blame on both, but the husband comes off as pretty immature. IMO. As does she for posting it on a forum. FWIW 26 and no kids they should be doing it more often.

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