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05-27-2010, 12:40 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Bethlehem, Pa
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best of luck with it all todd...hoping for the best.
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05-27-2010, 01:22 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: Troy, Mo
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hoping for the best too Todd.. hang in there...
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05-27-2010, 01:31 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Seven miles up
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My thoughts are with you Todd. It's terrible to have to go through this.
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05-27-2010, 01:45 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
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Sad to hear about this.
Hang in there. |
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05-27-2010, 01:47 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Seattle, WA
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Well crap. Nothing to add except my continued best wishes for all of you.
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05-27-2010, 01:56 PM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Maassluis, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
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Sad to read things are going downhill, Todd. Best of luck to have things get better soon...
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05-27-2010, 02:17 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2003
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Good luck, man.
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05-27-2010, 02:47 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: DeKalb, IL
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Todd, my prayers and thoughts are with you and your wife. Hang in there.
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05-27-2010, 07:54 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Hang in there Todd. Praying for you and your wife.
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05-27-2010, 08:54 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: C-Town
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I missed the original post of what you were going through a few years ago. So sorry you're going through this again Todd
 My thoughts are with you - stay strong man...
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05-27-2010, 08:55 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: New Jersey
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I'm sorry to see you going through this, Todd. I know it can be a very difficult road. You have my best wishes and prayers.
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05-27-2010, 09:31 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: sans pants
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Well I'll just stop whining now about all of the petty little shit with which I have to deal.
Sorry you have to bear this burden. Hang in there.
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05-28-2010, 05:45 AM
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Pro Starter
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Toledo - Spain
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Im so sorry to hear it, you are in my thoughts.
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05-28-2010, 08:18 AM
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Join Date: May 2001
Location: williamsburg, va
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A repeat reality check from the first time you posted. I have no idea what to say besides I wish you the best, awful situation to have to deal with.
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05-28-2010, 09:21 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
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Sorry man...best of luck to both of you.
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05-28-2010, 09:30 AM
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Coordinator
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: The scorched Desert
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So sorry to hear Todd, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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05-28-2010, 11:52 AM
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Pro Starter
Join Date: Nov 2000
Location: Cary, NC, USA
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Stay strong, you'll make it through.
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06-07-2010, 07:39 PM
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Pro Starter
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Burke, VA
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I wanted to update the thread with the latest developments but first I have to say thank you to everyone who has sent me well-wishes, good thoughts and prayers over these last 2 weeks. It's been very very difficult and your support has really helped.
Now to the bad news. My wife tried to check herself out of the hospital on Saturday against medical advice but I filed another detention order to keep her in over the weekend. The judicial hearing on that detention order was this morning and I lost - the judge overruled the order and said my wife was free to go. The law in Virginia makes is extremely difficult to detain someone unless they have a documented history of physical violence. So anyway, my wife got out against the very strong recommendation of her hospital's psych, her regular psych, the social worker, and the independent evaluator for the hearing. The first thing my wife said she was going to do was "go take" our daughter. Well, I was afraid of that, so I went home, packed up a few days worth of stuff, and me and my daughter have hit the road. We're at a friends house in town tonight but we'll be moving on tomorrow most likely. Fortunately, I know I have the law on my side when it comes to custody, so I have no fears there. My wife knows that when I hear from one of her doctors that they approve of her being out of the hospital and she has started an out-patient program, only then will I bring my daughter home. I've cleared my daughter's absence with her school with the blessings of the principal, and now I just need to stay aware and keep my daughter safe. To be clear, this is a nightmare. I cannot believe things have gotten to this point, but my mission is pretty clear and I'm okay with that. Keep us in your thoughts and prayers. I don't need to crash at any of your places - yet. Todd Last edited by Toddzilla : 06-07-2010 at 07:39 PM. |
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06-07-2010, 07:46 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: San Diego via Sausalito via San Jose via San Diego
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Damn. When is school out for you daughter? I would hate that she's at school and mom comes by to take her out early for an 'appointment' and now your wife has your daughter.
I'm really sorry to hear this and I hope that somehow your wife has a moment of clarity and gets back on her meds and there's no big hassles that you will have to deal with in addition to what you already are.
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06-07-2010, 07:47 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: On Lake Harriet
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Wow, Todd, can't say I'm happy to read that, but hang in there.
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06-07-2010, 07:50 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Kansas City, MO
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Best of luck, Todd. You know you're doing what's best.
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06-07-2010, 07:52 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Edge of the Great Dismal Swamp
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Holy cr*p, TZ, I just cannot imagine what you must be going through. What sort of judge would overrule the recommendations of the psychiatric professionals and create a potentially disastrous situation?
Hang in there, man.
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06-07-2010, 08:07 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2001
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Wow man, stay strong, I cannot begin to imagine what you're going through
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06-07-2010, 08:14 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Damn Todd. Sorry to hear this. Sounds like it's gotten even worse. I can only hope that better days are around the corner for you and your daughter.
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06-07-2010, 08:15 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: New Jersey
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Sorry to hear things aren't going well, Todd. You will continue to be in my prayers.
King of New York, I used to work at Charity Hospital in New Orleans and saw some VERY psychotic patients.. what laymen would call bat shit crazy. There was one judge in the area who was infamous for releasing everyone. One day, I got him via the luck of the draw. He released a guy who had tried to cut off his own penis just 2 weeks earlier and was still psychotic as all get out. Some judges make bad decisions in these type of cases.
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06-07-2010, 08:21 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Austin, TX
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I was thinking about this thread today. Sorry you're going through this Todd, I can't imagine what it's like to be in your situation. Sounds like you're doing the right thing by pulling her out of school to keep her safe.
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06-07-2010, 08:36 PM
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Join Date: May 2001
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Virginia is pretty consistent that most schools get out between like the 15th-21st. The good thing in this situation (although probably questionable academically) is that the SOLs (big standardized test to meet national standards) just finished and schools pretty much stop teaching for the next couple of weeks - so if Todd has to keep her out, it shouldn't have a big impact.
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06-07-2010, 08:39 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
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That's definitely a good thing then. If they are all done, I would for sure keep her out of school.
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06-07-2010, 08:56 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Seven miles up
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Todd, again, I want to say that it must be brutal to be going through all of that. You are an amazing person for putting your daughter first, and for enduring this horrid situation over and over. You are a man's man, taking responsibility, protecting the weak, and still staying by your wife as you are able. My thoughts and concerns are with you.
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06-07-2010, 08:59 PM
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Join Date: May 2001
Location: williamsburg, va
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Oh - and I continue to not know what to say other than I'm wishing the best for you.
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06-07-2010, 09:06 PM
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Join Date: May 2003
Location: Ashburn, VA
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I wish I had more I could offer, but I'll be thinking of you guys. Hang in there.
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06-07-2010, 09:35 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Chicago
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Hope that you are able to continue making the right decisions in a scenario where everything must feel like lose/lose. It sounds like you are doing the right things but working against a system that fundamentally doesn't get this kind of situation "right", if that makes sense.
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06-07-2010, 09:46 PM
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06-07-2010, 10:29 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Bloomington, IN
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Todd,
If you need a place to crash in the short term and you're heading toward Indiana, I've got an extra bedroom, even it's just for a night on the way to elsewhere. Take care of yourself and your daughter. |
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06-07-2010, 10:43 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Newburgh, NY
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Same thing as Drake said if you're in the Hudson Valley area. Good luck.
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06-07-2010, 10:46 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: non white trash MD
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holly hell! Ive been follwing this... but cant comprehend the situation! Im local, and if you need you can crash here, I have a big house....
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06-07-2010, 11:37 PM
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Todd,
I don't even want to imagine what you and your family is going through. Have they ever figured out what caused this? Was it a medical issue, such as a stroke (like you had said) or just a dormant problem that overtook her normal rational self when the catalyst of the break-in occurred? God bless your family, man. You guys need it. |
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06-08-2010, 12:22 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2001
Location: Whittier
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Tough stuff Todd. I cant even imagine what you or your daughter are going through.
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06-08-2010, 12:26 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: The scorched Desert
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Unbelieveable Todd, I echo others sentiments in that I respect you immensely for the way you are handling this and wish you and your Daughter the best.
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06-08-2010, 12:58 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Wisconsin
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I couldn't imagine going through this either... take care.
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06-08-2010, 06:39 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Wentzville, MO
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Todd, I'm with you...but I might urge caution in posting anywhere on the internet where you're at or might be going.
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06-08-2010, 10:01 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Decatur, GA
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I'd echo Poli's statements. You never know, after all.
You are in my prayers, buddy.
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06-08-2010, 11:03 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself, but I will add that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I have tremendous respect for your perseverance. |
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06-08-2010, 11:10 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Sterling Heights, Mi
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Todd, I don't think I was on the board when you started this thread. I just spent the last hour reading this and the "Dynasty" thread. My prayers are with out and your daughter. I echo the statements from others here, if you need anything, don't hesitate to ask.
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06-08-2010, 03:00 PM
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06-08-2010, 03:48 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Hometown of Canada
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Wow man, I'm hoping for the best out of this situation for all parties involved.
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09-20-2010, 02:25 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Norman, Oklahoma
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Any updates?
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09-20-2010, 03:25 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2007
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First time I have seen this thread, sorry to see what you have been going through TZ. Hopefully since your last post in this thread things are going better.....
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09-20-2010, 09:01 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Burke, VA
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Things are much much improved and slowly getting back to "normal". I'll post a longer update very soon.
Thank you so much for thinking about me ... touches my heart I <3 you guys |
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