The GF vs THE EX!!

[dodgersrule]

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[Suburban Rhythm]

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

Does your ex just not get it?? i broke up with my gf of 2 years ago, over a year ago, she said she would wait. Throughout the first year my ex would still text me, telling me she missed me and loved me, for the first couple of months. it was annoying and would piss me off. after some time the texts became casual, but at times will still tell me she loved me. after she found out that i had a new gf, her text minimized and she would try not to tell me she loved me, but would sometimes still tell me. the longest that shed gone without contacting me had been a month, but recently i have not heard from her in over four months. i loved this girl, but i didn't see how it would work, so i thought it best to just brake it off. i had plans of a life together with her but she would always say "if we get married" she said it was only to make it less painful in case i ever did leave. I love my girl (i've been with her a couple of months) but i miss my ex and i can't imagine another holiday season without my ex. I ended up making a list of pro's and con's for my ex and gf and i ended up writing not betty on a con for my gf. my ex's name is betty!! the last time my ex contacted me she told me she loved me a lot and that i would never know how much. my ex has not dated ever since we broke up, i'm shocked and flattered!! should i call my ex and tell her i miss her or should i just send her a casual text just to see where things go?? i was a jerk with my ex and she put up with it and was still there for me when i needed her regardless and i know she will always be there. should i just let her be?? has anyone ever had a similar experience?

I was sold right there

[Suburban Rhythm]

dola

as far as anyone else ever having had this happen-

PING JimmyWint

[Groundhog]

First things first; spelling, capital letters, and paragraphs.

Outside of that, try and remember the reasons behind why you split with your ex in the first place. Distance makes the heart grow fonder, but it can also obscure the major issues you had in the first place, issues that will no doubt arise again if you go back to your ex.

[BrianD]

Wasn't this an episode of Friends?

[fantom1979]

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

i loved this girl, but i didn't see how it would work, so i thought it best to just brake it off.

This is what you should be concentrating on right now. Why didn't you think it would work? Why do you think it would work now? Without more details about the ex and why it didn't work, it would be real hard to give you any type of advice. Also, pics would help the board decide as well

Originally Posted by Groundhog

First things first; spelling, capital letters, and paragraphs.

Also very important. I am a horrible writer, but its amazing how much reading your post after writing it can help.

[MrBug708]

Stick with the gf. You aren't with the ex for a reason

And this post is wierd...very wierd.

And kind of scary

[Schmidty]

I'm so happy that I'm married and don't have to worry about bullshit like this.

I just have to put up with other, more mundane bullshit.

[lungs]

See if you can pull off being with both of them.

[JS19]

Originally Posted by lungs

See if you can pull off being with both of them.

Exactly.

[lungs]

What makes this a lot easier to pull off is that the ex is still hung up fricken two years later?? Start hosin' her on the side. So long as your current GF doesn't find out you'll be in the clear.

[gkb]

How am I supposed to help without pictures of both? Also, which one has the higher earning potential?

[MrBug708]

At of all of the things about the girls, you say they smell good?

[MrBug708]

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

Dude not a bloody murder scene lol

What?

[JediKooter]

If you are with both, learn how to fudge a bank statement.

Now for some questions:
Who gives the better head?
Who looks just as good naked as she does clothed? (pix for proof plz)
Who is more understanding when you go out with the boys?
Which one is the better cook?
If the game is on, which one gives you a harder time about watching it?

That's a small list, but defnitely points to ponder. Good luck!

[MrBug708]

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

i fell for both girls for various reasons not cus they smell good. i'm missing my ex and not sure what do to about it. not wanting to kill her

Stick with the new girl, I'm sure she's better for you

[PilotMan]

This thread has potential. I'll be following along.

[PilotMan]

Any chance you could be cocky with ex and funny with the gf?

[fantom1979]

Do you think there is any chance of getting married to your current gf? If not, there is no reason not to resume banging your ex on the side.

[Balldog]

3-some

[JHandley]

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

good points

Really?

[MrBug708]

Happiness > Memories

[Vince, Pt. II]

[GoldenEagle]

I think this is some sort of advanced spam.

Spam 2.0 if you will.

[Izulde]

$5 says he leaves the screen up, his girl sees it, and all hell breaks loose.

[Swaggs]

Are you considering a future with either one of these girls?

I'd say your EX sounds pretty pathetic and you will probably never respect her enough for you two to have a future together. And, if you are considering the EX, the current GF isn't capable of holding your interest (only 2-months in and you are already looking?) and you have no future with her.

In cases like this, quit worrying about it so much and just have fun with things until something better comes along or you get bored.

[RomaGoth]

Is this thread for real?

[RomaGoth]

Originally Posted by Schmidty

I'm so happy that I'm married and don't have to worry about bullshit like this.

I just have to put up with other, more mundane bullshit.

This. I still am not sure which is worse, non-married bullshit or married bullshit.

[Chief Rum]

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

Does your ex just not get it?? i broke up with my gf of 2 years ago, over a year ago, she said she would wait. Throughout the first year my ex would still text me, telling me she missed me and loved me, for the first couple of months. it was annoying and would piss me off. after some time the texts became casual, but at times will still tell me she loved me. after she found out that i had a new gf, her text minimized and she would try not to tell me she loved me, but would sometimes still tell me. the longest that shed gone without contacting me had been a month, but recently i have not heard from her in over four months. i loved this girl, but i didn't see how it would work, so i thought it best to just brake it off. i had plans of a life together with her but she would always say "if we get married" she said it was only to make it less painful in case i ever did leave. I love my girl (i've been with her a couple of months) but i miss my ex and i can't imagine another holiday season without my ex. I ended up making a list of pro's and con's for my ex and gf and i ended up writing not betty on a con for my gf. my ex's name is betty!! the last time my ex contacted me she told me she loved me a lot and that i would never know how much. my ex has not dated ever since we broke up, i'm shocked and flattered!! should i call my ex and tell her i miss her or should i just send her a casual text just to see where things go?? i was a jerk with my ex and she put up with it and was still there for me when i needed her regardless and i know she will always be there. should i just let her be?? has anyone ever had a similar experience?

Translation:

Ever had an ex who just never seemed to move on from you?

I broke up with my girlfriend of two years over a year ago.

It was hard on her, but she said she would wait for me. Early on after that, she was constantly texting me, telling me how much she missed me, and loved me. It was very annoying, and pissed me off a bit.

Eventually, she found out I had a new girlfriend. She texted less after that, and it was more casual stuff, too. But she would still occasionally tell me she missed me. I have heard less and less from her, and it's now up to four months, a lot longer than ever before.

Now, I did love this girl once upon a time. I thought of a future with her, and made plans. We would talk about it, and she would always add, "if we get married". When I pointed out she always said this, she would say it would make it less painful if we broke up. At the time, though, I just didn't see how it would work out. It seemed best for me to break it off.

My new girlfriend's terrific; I love her, too, and have been with her for a couple months, but I am starting tor ealize how much I miss my ex. The holidays were always a special time with us, and I look ahead at the upcoming holidays, and find it hard to see going through that without her.

So I did the whole Pros and Cons thing between my current girlfriend and my ex, and, almost like some melodrama in a rom-com, I actually wrote "Not Betty" under my current girlfriend's name as a con (my ex's name is Betty, FYI).

Last time I heard from my ex, she told me she loved me a lot, and that I would never know how much. To my knowledge, she still has not dated since I broke up with her. It's kinda floored me, and I'm flattered a bit, too.

So there's my dilemma: Should I get back in touch with the ex? Should I just be casual if I do, or should I just break it out with how much I miss her?

I'll admit, I was a jerk to my ex. She supported me when I needed her, and didn't ask about her own needs. She will always be there for me. So should I take her back?

I hope someone else has had an experience like this to help me with it.

[Chief Rum]

FTR, that ended up being a lot harder than it had seemed when I first started it.

[Noop]

Your ex lied about not being with anyone else since you. Keep your current woman and never look back.

[MrBug708]

Those posts were deleted fairly quickly

[Swaggs]

Hmmmm?

[Neuqua]

Haha

[MrBug708]

This was just tooo...odd

[RainMaker]

After watching that movie Dear Zachary last night, any ex who "can't get over me" is one I'm running away from as fast as possible. Bitches be crazy.

[Izulde]

Yep I bet his girl was about to bust him.

[DeToxRox]

Shit like this doesn't happen to Giants fans.

[dodgersrule]

yup my girl caught me

[MalcPow]

It gets easier in high school bro

[TCY Junkie]

I had over 40, I should have went with a teaser.

[lighthousekeeper]

Originally Posted by MalcPow

It gets easier in high school bro

awesome

[Mustang]

This thread needs MickeyJam, the master of analysis.

[JediKooter]

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

yup my girl caught me

Well, hopefully the conflict has been settled then.

In all seriousness, women are a bit picular(sp?) when it comes to being possesive. Some days it's cute, most days it's not. It's hard to find a girl that is not only nice to look at, but, is fun to be around, smart, funny, a good person, and understands that when I say, "It was fine." when you ask me how my day was, that that really does encompass my whole day with no further elaboration needed.

Just feel lucky that you are not me, overweight, starting to lose my hair and pushing 40. You'll just wind up posting funny pictures on Facebook and trying to get your friends count up past 100.

In a nut shell...what's the old song? "Love the one you're with".

[RomaGoth]

Originally Posted by MrBug708

Those posts were deleted fairly quickly

Originally Posted by Izulde

Yep I bet his girl was about to bust him.

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

yup my girl caught me

The ex, or the new one? Oh, still waiting on pics k thx.

[QuikSand]

I hope dodgersrule and Mr Bug can get together and try to work this out.

[Passacaglia]

Originally Posted by dodgersrule

yup my girl caught me

That's too bad, since the fact that the ex hasn't contacted you in four months (if I've read that right) probably means that she's finally moved on.

[Dr. Sak]

Originally Posted by Chief Rum

FTR, that ended up being a lot harder than it had seemed when I first started it.

I find it a little amusing that you are now the person that deciphers long posts when you use to be the king of novel posts

[Rizon]

I dated my best female friend last year, after she came on to me. Then she abruptly broke it off.

She's come back at least 6 or 7 times (to "just be friends"), and each time I've told her to F off. But she's like a bad case of herpes or something, I can't get rid of her.

[DanGarion]

In times like these I like to use Translation Party to understand what was wrote...

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I have to please her in the next few months, one of my first two, the first is one of the following 2,3,1,1, fails to love can last that morning.
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After me, she has a lot of people, I'm such a text.
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