I agree, but since I have noticed this trick, I have spent way more time on focusing on that timing, and it has improved my defense a ton. I have had about 2 hits to the 3rd basemen in the last 7 or 8 games that have not been smooth. (possibly the camera not reacting quick enough) Everything else to the SS 2bag or even grounders to the OF have been perfect.
I also use medium defensive view, and it gives a nice perspective of the play.
I feel it's not perfect, but the best option if you practice and get rid of the preload animation on contact.