Ha-ha! I started sports video gaming about 20 years ago now. Over the years I've stopped playing any game where I can't be just me -- create myself, and play the entire game only as myself. So I'm pretty much limited now to golf games, along with PES because it has a player lock feature. (I don't play Be A Pro-style modes, and only play custom seasons and tourneys.)
Take it from the "master" of self-creation: you'll seldom if ever look like yourself.
I use my imagination
a lot while playing. If it sorta kinda looks like me, well then good enough. Also, I create my player over a period of several days. I play exhibition games for the first week or two and keep tweaking my player's looks until I feel comfortable with what I've created. It always becomes "you" after a time at some point.
Funny story from yesterday as a matter of fact. I was cycling through the generic players in PES 2011, and came across a player that looks like me. I was like "Whoa!" So I loaded him up and ran around the pitch with him to take a better look. But I just couldn't use him, I've gotten too used to the player I created that sorta kinda but doesn't really look like me, lol.