Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

[stewaat]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

I didn't read your post, just the title. It's over, there's nothing more to say.

[sportsdude]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

if you still feel she's one for you, all you can do is let her know how you feel, then back off and give her the space she says she desires. And when I say give her space, I mean don't answer IMs or emails or text messages or phone calls, except for the rare occasion to acknowledge her presence. When she realizes she doesn't have that security anymore, she'll either A) come back to you soon or B) move on.

And you yourself need to start moving on. Don't tell people "yeah I have a girlfriend, but we're on a break." Worst thing you could do is convince yourself something still exists when it doesn't.

[johnny_park]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

My experience with a break:

http://www.operationsports.com/forum...9-post119.html

We never got back together. I talk to her only if she calls me and If am not busy. I still care about her but I don't think I could ever go back with her again. I've moved on. She is still with the other guy. Her parents dont approve of him. They told her that they would never accept him into their family.

[trobinson97]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

That's a nice way of putting it. LOL.

Beau, plain and simple.....she wants strange. Just let her go man. Plenty out there for you.

LOL! Yep, but you know how it goes. For real, them sorority girls get to sitting around and talking about all that dik they done like "Girl, he did this" and "Girl I was like..." All that talk about the frat boys get's to em'. The new girls get so curious and before you know, its the only thing they can think about. It's like Husker said, that first year of sisterhood is the worse time to try to be in a relationship with a girl.



Join a fraternity man, let the brothers hook you up too. Enjoy the hell out of your youth.

[jmood88]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

Cut her loose. Her saying she wants a break is basically her saying "Oh, I don't really wanna be with you, but I want you as a security blanket and ego boost for when I haven't found someone else to bone."

Pretty much.

[JohnDoe8865]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

Damn man I was in this same situation a month ago sort of, and I'll tell you that she is probably already eyeing somebody or being with someone else behind your back. I'm going thru it right now, bro ... even if yall get back together it'll never be the same. I thought my girl was "The One" too. Now granted I had only been with her for about 1 year not 3, but still, I'm telling you it doesn't sound good.

I'm sorry to hear your plight brother, I'm going thru the same situation right now in a lot of ways. It's hard as hell no lie.

[ehh]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

Give the ho credit, at least she gave you that BS line about wanting a break - sure beats you walking in on her getting plowed by some other dude.

[Cebby]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

Here's what you do.

1. Ask her for some sex before it's over

2. Film it. Maybe try and get some weird **** going on.

3. Spread it on OS with her real name

4. All of us use the google linking thing or whatever, so that whenever somebody googles her name, which will inevitably occur, it will show a video of you beating it up, hopefully in a very embarrassing way

5. Really nothing after that. You'll clearly have won.

[ex carrabba fan]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

LOL ^ Cebby comin through with the gospel.

Anyway it's clear how OS feels about this situation.. not one person said anything that different.

[WTF]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

Here's what you do.

1.Ask her for some sex before it's over

2. Film it. Maybe try and get some weird **** going on.

3. Spread it on OS with her real name

4. All of us use the google linking thing or whatever, so that whenever somebody googles her name, which will inevitably occur, it will show a video of you beating it up, hopefully in a very embarrassing way

5. Really nothing after that. You'll clearly have won.

[snepp]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

Time to go rail those other chicks you've been eyeballing over the years, you know who they are.

[youvalss]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

I'd say this relationship is over. You don't take a break from something you like.
Sorry man, but you'll be fine, even though you can't see it now.

[ManiacMatt1782]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

the dreaded break, if a break last longer than a week, it is over. This is only if you had the marriage talk prior, otherwise once the "b" word is mentioned, it's over. You did have the marriage talk, so it could be cold feet. What you have to do is tell her, you love her, but breaks are bull(word censored by OS), and you are ready to move on if thats what it comes to. If she comes running back in less than a week, than she was just feeling cold feet but she doesnt want ot lose you. If it last longer, she just wants to get railroaded by some new stuff.

[Pappy Knuckles]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

Don't let your emotions keep you from seeing the big picture. You'll get over it in time. Listen the OS brethren.

[ThreeKing]

Re: Girl Wants A "Break"... Anyone Been There?

Cut her loose. Her saying she wants a break is basically her saying "Oh, I don't really wanna be with you, but I want you as a security blanket and ego boost for when I haven't found someone else to bone."

Truth.

I need a break = I found someone else or I want to whore around. Of course she will call you in 3 months at 3am............... drunk and crying because her new boyfriend is an ***.

More truth.

need a break=I wanna be a SLORE for awhile but I'll still get pissed at you if I hear about you boning someone else.

In your face truth.


I've been there before Beau. I know, it sucks. My suggestion is to try a forget about her and take up a new hobby.