Off Topic 2012

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Off Topic 2012

what happened? you alright?

Yeah I'll be fine. It's just I'm coming up on a year since I broke up with my fiancee, and all the memories and **** are starting to flood back in. Not only that, but all the girls I've attempted to take on a date since then have turned me down/not answered my calls/etc, I recently found out from a girl that I liked in high school that had I asked her out a week before I did, we would still potentially be together today. But now she's married to the guy she started dating a couple days before me asking and has two kids (on top of that she really, really dislikes him and his family). I played it smooth with a girl in class a few days ago and it blew up in my face. Thanks to all the rejections and what not, I'm back to where I used to be of not being able to talk to anyone, not even my own family. Which leads to me not being able to even strike up a simple conversation with any girl.

TL;DR- I'm just a big fat, shy loser who will never be able to date a girl, regardless of being in my league or not.

EDIT- And on top of all that, I've only "gotten some" once since June.

[l3ulvl]

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Yeah I'll be fine. It's just I'm coming up on a year since I broke up with my fiancee, and all the memories and **** are starting to flood back in. Not only that, but all the girls I've attempted to take on a date since then have turned me down/not answered my calls/etc, I recently found out from a girl that I liked in high school that had I asked her out a week before I did, we would still potentially be together today. But now she's married to the guy she started dating a couple days before me asking and has two kids (on top of that she really, really dislikes him and his family). I played it smooth with a girl in class a few days ago and it blew up in my face. Thanks to all the rejections and what not, I'm back to where I used to be of not being able to talk to anyone, not even my own family. Which leads to me not being able to even strike up a simple conversation with any girl.

TL;DR- I'm just a big fat, shy loser who will never be able to date a girl, regardless of being in my league or not.

my suggestion =

works for me every time

%AlkyAdvice

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Off Topic 2012

my suggestion =

works for me every time

%AlkyAdvice

Yeah I don't drink though. Although seriously over-used, consider me "straight edge".

[Bellsprout]

Re: Off Topic 2012

my suggestion =

works for me every time

%AlkyAdvice

Pepsi? I always imagined that emoticon dude as drinking Pepsi.

[TracerBullet]

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Pepsi? I always imagined that emoticon dude as drinking Pepsi.

I thought it was sludge from the mythical "hype train" that OS loves so much. I typically see it in posts mentioning that and kool-aid.

[BurghFan]

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Pepsi? I always imagined that emoticon dude as drinking Pepsi.

Nah, it's Dr Pepper

It does look much to dark to be any beer though.

[ryan36]

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Nah, it's Dr Pepper

It does look much to dark to be any beer though.

has nobody ever had a guinness?

[TracerBullet]

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There should really be a way to block just pictures that people like on Facebook.

[Chrisksaint]

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Being drunk always helps when talking to chicks, has helped me a lot this past year. Talking to girls not sober sucks unless I know them, even then it takes a lot for me to get the courage to do anything.

Stuff happens, just gotta try to move on

[baumy300]

Re: Off Topic 2012

Yeah I'll be fine. It's just I'm coming up on a year since I broke up with my fiancee, and all the memories and **** are starting to flood back in. Not only that, but all the girls I've attempted to take on a date since then have turned me down/not answered my calls/etc, I recently found out from a girl that I liked in high school that had I asked her out a week before I did, we would still potentially be together today. But now she's married to the guy she started dating a couple days before me asking and has two kids (on top of that she really, really dislikes him and his family). I played it smooth with a girl in class a few days ago and it blew up in my face. Thanks to all the rejections and what not, I'm back to where I used to be of not being able to talk to anyone, not even my own family. Which leads to me not being able to even strike up a simple conversation with any girl.

TL;DR- I'm just a big fat, shy loser who will never be able to date a girl, regardless of being in my league or not.

EDIT- And on top of all that, I've only "gotten some" once since June.

First of all, cheer up man. This probably isn't what you want to hear, but I think it's what you need to hear.

You are not going to be tearing it up with the ladies if you don't stop feeling sorry for yourself. While no one can speak for every woman, I think it is safe to say that a guy with zero confidence will turn almost every one of them off.

This garbage about being a "big fat, shy loser who will never get a date" is the anti-vag. If that is really how you feel about yourself it will show.

Now ask yourself this - If you're a girl, either looking to just play around or get serious, would you want a guy like you just described?

If there's something about yourself you don't like, change it.

Go hit up a gym. Buy P90x. Eat right. Start talking to people to break the shyness up. Join a men's league for golf/bowling/tennis/etc... or just wake up tomorrow, look in the mirror, and bluntly - grow a pair.

Just don't put yourself through this. There's no reason to suffer when you could be doing things to better yourself.

This has been your $wag talk. I'm sure plenty of other guys on here have even better advice, but it's all I have for now.

[TripleCrown9]

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First of all, cheer up man. This probably isn't what you want to hear, but I think it's what you need to hear.

You are not going to be tearing it up with the ladies if you don't stop feeling sorry for yourself. While no one can speak for every woman, I think it is safe to say that a guy with zero confidence will turn almost every one of them off.

This garbage about being a "big fat, shy loser who will never get a date" is the anti-vag. If that is really how you feel about yourself it will show.

Now ask yourself this - If you're a girl, either looking to just play around or get serious, would you want a guy like you just described?

If there's something about yourself you don't like, change it.

Go hit up a gym. Buy P90x. Eat right. Start talking to people to break the shyness up. Join a men's league for golf/bowling/tennis/etc... or just wake up tomorrow, look in the mirror, and bluntly - grow a pair.

Just don't put yourself through this. There's no reason to suffer when you could be doing things to better yourself.

This has been your $wag talk. I'm sure plenty of other guys on here have even better advice, but it's all I have for now.

Yeah I've been going to the gym. I've actually lost about 50 pounds since starting back in May. It just gets really annoying when girls are like "Where are all the nice guys out there?" and they refuse to acknowledge that there's one right in front of them willing to give them the world.

[l3ulvl]

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Being drunk always helps when talking to chicks, has helped me a lot this past year. Talking to girls not sober sucks unless I know them, even then it takes a lot for me to get the courage to do anything.

Stuff happens, just gotta try to move on

Yeah alcohol breeds confidence.

Yeah I've been going to the gym. I've actually lost about 50 pounds since starting back in May. It just gets really annoying when girls are like "Where are all the nice guys out there?" and they refuse to acknowledge that there's one right in front of them willing to give them the world.

That's because girls secretly don't actually want nice guys.

[TripleCrown9]

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Yeah alcohol breeds confidence.



That's because girls secretly don't actually want nice guys.

WELL THEN THEY SHOULDN'T SAY IT, DAMNIT! Lol

[l3ulvl]

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WELL THEN THEY SHOULDN'T SAY IT, DAMNIT! Lol

lol I think they say it in order to get nice guys to befriend them. They don't look at opposite sex friendships like we do, we look at them as prospects, they look at it as, well, who the hell knows, if I could solve that riddle I'd be rich .

[baumy300]

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That's because girls secretly don't actually want nice guys.

Listen to this guy. He is right. But it's a fine line between being "not a nice guy" and a total douche. Start off just being yourself.

Yeah I've been going to the gym. I've actually lost about 50 pounds since starting back in May. It just gets really annoying when girls are like "Where are all the nice guys out there?" and they refuse to acknowledge that there's one right in front of them willing to give them the world.

Again man, I know this doesn't make any sense, and I have no idea why, but they don't want that. They want to make it into a game of some sort.

Here, I have a theory and it is proven. I was told this by a girl I know and it works.

When I would go out and talked to a girl, I normally tell them I have a girlfriend if I want to bag them. It's simple - If I say I'm single, the girl will know that she could have me at any point and it won't be "fun" for her anymore.

This is where it gets tricky. She wants to feel wanted, and sought after, but not from some loser. In her twisted mind, if she can get a guy who already has a girlfriend to get with her, that's a victory. It automatically makes her feel like she has one-upped your girlfriend and is even sexier since you "cheated" with her and were willing to possibly sacrifice your relationship. Plus if you say you're single, In her mind she may think there's something wrong with you, that you're creepy, no girls like you and she shouldn't be the first, etc...

It's pretty much reverse psychology 101. Of course since neither you nor I have a girlfriend, the joke is on them the next morning

$wag talk pt. 2

EDIT: And major props for losing 50lbs. Keep it up man.