On of my favorite things is to see Madden folks hold The Show up as an example to emulate, only to go to the the show forum, where the game is being ripped apart, and see them hail Madden as as an example to follow. And for the record, The Show forum is ripping this year's game and the upcoming game apart.
The reality is, both games are fun if you stop wasting time on expectations and appreciate the games for what they do. But this zeal for the ultimate sim is destroying sports gaming for a ton of gamers. This entire site is awash with toxic posts that slam games, devs, and anyone that doesn't embrace the sim ethos.
You might be surprised how easy it is to get on with your life, even if your favorite sport is not be represented with a video game you like. I would say that time I spent not playing baseball and football games actually helped me appreciate the current state of sports games more. Actually, I went years without a baseball, football, or basketball game I really liked.
I love sports, and spend a ton of time watching, reading, and listening to sports and those that cover them. I got into fantasy baseball and football in part because those past games that so many of you hold up as classics were, to me, terrible and not worth playing.
There is also an issue with getting so good at a game that it no longer works for you. A ton of people absolutely destroyed their ability to enjoy sports games by obsessively mastering them, making all the flaws easy to see, and the AI pitifully easy to beat.
For a lot games, that's not a big deal. You move on to something else. But sports games are basically the same every year. You master Master Madden 18, and you are already in line to master Madden 19. That's not a flaw, that's just the breaks. This is not an issue from most of their annual customers who play and enjoy the game for an hour or two a week. But for the ones that obsess and post the most, it can destroy the fun of playing.
So you see the flaws in Madden and see The Show as doing it right. But those more obsessed with the The Show can appreciate Madden. Maybe just play the other game and wait on Madden, or a new entry, to change in a way you like.
It doesn't even have to be done in a huff and out of anger. It can be an understanding of how the gaming industry works, and focusing on what actually brings you joy, and cutting down the time on games that annoy the crap out of you.