I agree with this completely. No meter is the way that APF2K8 did it and it certainly made the kicking game exciting. 2K8 gave feedback after each kick and eventually you would get a feel for it. BUT, you could never quite master it. Just like in real football, you never could be completely certain. Ratings did matter in that game, however the user could still blow it.
I want Madden '09 to be the best game it can be (just like everyone else here) and addressing this vital aspect of football would certainly help.