To me, the realistic flow of a NFL game does not include getting limited in the calls I can make.
When I see a NFL game, I don't see FORCED limitation of play calls any more than I see going for it on 4th on your own 20.
Neither one is realistic. Nor is being forbidden to go for it except for when EA thinks I should be allowed to. I don't cheese or make utterly stupid low percentage plays, even against the AI, but I also want to be able to play mind games, which might include going for it on 4th in short now and then.
You know, like real NFL coaches do sometimes. I want TRUE realism, which includes being able to play a metagame with the other coach, the "chess match" that's often talked about. I can't do that even in REALISTIC situations if EA is saying, "No no no, you can't go for it yet!"
I mean, it's stupid. I can throw a bomb on 3rd and 1 to confuse a coach that might just be expecting a HB Dive, but on 4th and 1, I'm not even allowed to do a HB Dive or a play fake bootleg into a quick out to the TE on the same side of the field if I want to play a few mind games while on the plus 40-45 yd line once in a while?
And this is what folks consider realistic? Seriously?
This reminds me of in M10 where the whole "you throw to the HB too much!" was considered cheese - except teams like the Ravens...Rice was their NUMBER 1 in receptions. So, if I play Baltimore REALISTICALLY (i.e. throw to Rice a lot), it's considered cheese. The Fair Play rules remind me of the same kind of thing.