OP said exactly why PRO-AM is boring. I was gonna join a Pro AM team yday, but I let them know I was not a 24/7 beta. They kept talking about defense and shooting...smart team play....and I am a smart player who clamps anyone with any position, but I know what they wanted. A beta player who stands around and watches them run the offense.
It's not fun. I would never do that to anyone. These players are just ballhogs and they want the ball and don't care if you scored because it wasn't fun for them on that play. They will say they just want to win.....don't believe them.
The moment they pass you the ball you better shoot or it upsets them. You put the ball on the floor and they don't get the assist, they get upset (even if they don't say anything).
And not far behind that is Pro-AM.
Maybe I just need a better Pro-AM team, so I want to give it another shot....I'm not getting my hopes up though. The problem is it's impossible to find players who are both good at the game and not ballhogs. That venn diagram has a huge gap in the middle.