Let me just say that if you think this game is an "awesome game", as you put it, then theres no need for EA to change anything on it.
If you think this game is awesome, despite the fact that it's missing nearly 3/4 of the features which made the PS2 game so great, then the PS2 version in comparison must be the greatest recurring game ever for the past 7 years.
If you think the speed differential in this game is indicative of real life, you might want to watch college football more closely. I've never seen a 250lb TE outrun a DB who runs a 4.4 40.