You couldn't be more wrong in this case. I don't claim to be an amazing player but i'm fairly good. I took the last years off with this game because of bad experiences with the previous ps3 versions and bought it this year because it was getting great reviews.
I played A LOT of online before the patch came out and my time away from the game hurt me and i was about 30 games under .500 at one point. But i got better and at my peak got about 20 games over .500 and at one point was ranked in the top 400. Pretty good for a guy who was 30 games under .500 at one point. And to answer your question no i didn't cheese to boost my record, there are guys here on OS who can attest to that.
I do use sliders. Matt10's Heisman set, that is adjusted slightly to how i want to play. I'm 7-4 or 7-5 in my dynasty with Washington which i love. I LOVE the fact that I am getting beat. I am an avid sports gamer and whenever I play dynastys it is always important to me to play at a level where i can get beat, because it makes it more realistic.
What you said in your post is wrong and you are being an EA apologist, and you can't deny that fact if you had read my original post. All of the issues I had with the game were with things that I COULD NOT CONTROL. How can i defend the flat if my defender runs considerably far out of bounds and stays there until the rb catches it (No i wasn't controlling the lb and no this would never ever happen in real life). How was that skill/ability/ or a mistake i made?
How is it skill/ability/or a mistake I made when my corner is in press coverage without me putting him in it. (I would have audibled him to drop back had i known, but the corners and outside reciever are not visible at the line of scrimmage on my tv.) How is it skill/ability/ or a mistake I made when the same corner slides a yard to his left without his feet moving when the ball is snapped to allow the receiver to run his go route uncontested?
How is it skill or ability when you can't move your linebacker where you want to, because he is being pulled into an offensive blocker when he's 3 yards away from said blocker and i am moving him the opposite way???
How is it skill or ability if you throw an Interception (which i don't do often btw) and the pass is picked because a defender morphs through your receiver to make the pick?
Please please please tell me how any of those things are my fault or are skill related or how practice would make me better. As i said in my original post. I love the game. I've put more hours into it, than any game i've had since the old ncaa ps2 days. But these are issues that I CANNOT CONTROL at all, and issues which make any already difficult game a heck of a lot harder. I can handle getting beat by the computer. I actually welcome it. But only if it is fair, and what i have been experiencing is anything but.