Advice for the next generation

[JG80]

Hello everyone.

I created this account 11 years ago because I was more interested in realism for my sports gaming than most kids. Now that I am 25, I feel like I've come full circle here on OS. Still trying to make sports games more realistic, but with very little time to do so compared 2013-2022.

Just a tidbit of background information:
I'm only 2 years removed from graduating with my bachelor's, and already I have shifted careers. I initially treated my degree like high school, and only realized after the fact that there is so much more to a college degree. After working as a Soil Conservationist for the government, I went back to school for a degree in Comp Sci - Software engineering. After successfully completing one semester, I was offered a job by a company who trains employees to become software engineers.

I realize that most people here, to my knowledge, are significantly older than me (If I'm wrong, my apologies ). If you have any advice for someone like myself, please share your thoughts.

[ImTellinTim]

Re: Advice for the next generation

Don't give up your life for the company you work for. Use your PTO - it's their responsibility to make sure the work gets done when you're not there, not yours.

[KSUowls]

Re: Advice for the next generation

Don't give up your life for the company you work for. Use your PTO - it's their responsibility to make sure the work gets done when you're not there, not yours.

This. When I was new in my career I always felt bad when I would take PTO. It took me a long time to get comfortable with that. Now I'm in a position where I have to encourage my direct report who is young in their career to do so all the time.

I would also just in general to never forget that work is work, it's not your life. It's very easy to get caught up in projects and deadlines. Don't miss opportunities to spend with family and friends because of them.

Other advice is the basic but it can't be overstated. Start saving early in your career. Even if it's just $50 or $100 a pay check. Whatever you can afford. Invest for retirement early and often.

[Ghost Of The Year]

Re: Advice for the next generation

Don't give up your life for the company you work for. Use your PTO - it's their responsibility to make sure the work gets done when you're not there, not yours.

Absolutely unequivocally 100% this. No one on their deathbed looks back with regret and says, ''You know, l wish I had spent more time at work.''

[LetsGoBucs]

Re: Advice for the next generation

I'm almost 50 and here is what I would say -

- Like others have said already, don't feel like your work defines you. If a company needs to get rid of you they will in a second. If you leave they will not shut down, they will replace you. It doesn't mean you shouldn't care, but understand that you don't need to give up your life and free time for a company. I like to use the phrase that I "work to live not live to work".

- That being said, also understand that there are times when you DO need to put in additional effort and time. Especially in software development coming up on releases and such. No job like that is a strict 9-5 job all the time. But try to make things even out in the long term. If there is a day where you don't have a lot going on leave early (or shut it down early).

- Don't be afraid to hop jobs. I'm in that in-between generation where people older than me stayed at a place their whole lives while the younger generations hop around. I've never been hesitant to move and have found that it is a great learning opportunity. Not every place does everything right (or wrong) and you can pick up best practices along the way that you can take with you.

- Try to find a place where you care about the product/service/etc. that you work on. For me personally I've found that if I enjoy what I'm working on it makes my day MUCH better. I have an engineering background (electrical/software) and have worked at places where I could care less about what I was working on and it made the days drag on. Software development is pretty much a universal skill so find an industry that interests you and go for it. I'm currently a program manager in the sports industry. If you like sports for example, don't forget that there are tons of opportunities for things other than being an athlete.

- Don't give up if you don't get the job you want right away. I applied for a job where I'm currently at 3 times before getting the job on the 4th try. I knew it was where I wanted to be and I tried not to let the times it didn't work out deter me from continuing to try.

- Don't hesitate to rely on your network when looking for jobs. As you grow and get older your network will expand. I've helped several friends, ex-colleagues, etc. find a role because I knew someone at that company. And I'm sure if I needed it my network would do the same for me.

That was a LONG WINDED answer to your question... Hopefully it helps!

[davep]

Re: Advice for the next generation

First off, smart question coming from a 25 year old!

Great answers above.

I'd emphasize a few things:

1. Try to find something you'll enjoy for the long term as well as the short term, this can be difficult. What may be amazing for the first 5 years can become tedious for the rest of your working life. Try to find something that allows creativity so it remains interesting.

2. Coming from a 50 year old here that retired at 48 (with a spouse and a child). Save. Save. Save for retirement NOW. I worked a very demanding (on several levels) but rewarding government job that didn't pay great but it's all about compound interest and time. Look up the graphs on how much money you'll make if you save early on in your life.

3. As others have stated, there are times to work hard but please enjoy your time off and take those days truly off. Your job will never love you back.

Godspeed and good luck!

[EUBlink]

Re: Advice for the next generation

Try anything once unless it smells like a fish but is not a fish.


Also, learn how to truly remove yourself from your desires, and remove your desires from yourself. I'll dig into this a little deeper later.

[JG80]

Re: Advice for the next generation

Big thanks to everyone for responding; I sincerely appreciate your opinions and perspectives.

[JMD]

Re: Advice for the next generation

First off, smart question coming from a 25 year old!



2. Coming from a 50 year old here that retired at 48 (with a spouse and a child). Save. Save. Save for retirement NOW. I worked a very demanding (on several levels) but rewarding government job that didn't pay great but it's all about compound interest and time. Look up the graphs on how much money you'll make if you save early on in your life.

This can not be said enough. When I was in my 20's my father always encouraged me to start saving money. Just put a little away each paycheck he said. Well I didn't listen , I didn't save and now I'm 64 and won't be retiring until I'm 66. Had I taken his advise I would have retired at 55.

When you are young it feels like you have plenty of time but it gets here before you know it. Put away what you can each week, when you hit 50 you will be so glad you did.

[Picci]

Re: Advice for the next generation

2. Coming from a 50 year old here that retired at 48 (with a spouse and a child). Save. Save. Save for retirement NOW. I worked a very demanding (on several levels) but rewarding government job that didn't pay great but it's all about compound interest and time. Look up the graphs on how much money you'll make if you save early on in your life.

Saluti



JG80,

You're my youngest son age. Going to tell you what I told him. Open up an investment account for your future now and enjoy your life. You're still single right? (oh, to be 25 again)

Another thing I'll pass onto you as a gamer over 35 years especially playing sports games. If you keep playing you'll eventually be taping your main playing thumb before playing some day in your future.

[TheMatrix31]

Re: Advice for the next generation

Care way less about the opinion of others.

That doesn't mean be belligerent, uncaring, rude, etc. That means don't be concerned and don't conduct yourselves based on others. Most people do not care about you or what you're doing, wearing, look like, whatever nearly as much as you think they do.

So much of the poor trajectory of our society is based on people giving too much priority to this. It's a hard change to make but best to teach younger people from the start to be comfortable in their own skin, to listen and respect others but not determine their entire personality on fitting in, etc.

They think about how lives are portrayed on social media, see "how happy" others are, get despondent when their lives aren't like that, etc. They feel lonely and whatnot. The weakest among us can't handle it and they act accordingly. It's absolutely horrendous.

[kingsofthevalley]

Re: Advice for the next generation

Learn what the word discernment means and make sure you're using it at every turn. This will help with treating others as individuals and not as stereotypes.