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As a fellow 'survivor' of some pretty nasty sh*t, I highly reccomend some professional counciling.
Between the grief, and possible PTSD, you'll need the help and perspective of someone who can help you figure out how to come to grips with your wife's obvious behavioral issues.
In most areas, there are places where you can go that bill on a sliding scale.
Find strength in your relationships with your daughters, family and friends.
Most important thing is you and your daughters at this point.
Lots of good advice here. Make sure you're strong because your daughters will need you.
"It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace
"You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob Neyer
Wow man, that's really awful and the fact that she pulled it right before Christmas . . Like others have said, hang in there and stay strong for your daughters. Also, Like King said, some counseling would probably be a good idea especially for your 15 year old since she seems to be taking it pretty hard.
As a few have said as hard as it is on you, its hard on your daughters as well. Focus on them and take things one step at a time. Sorry to hear everything and you will be in my thoughts.
You will definitely be in my thoughts man and all I can say is like what many others have said stay strong for your daughters. They are going to need you the most now.
This is just really sad, man. I'm sorry that you have to endure this. I can't even imagine what I'd do. Everything has been said already, but your definitely are in my prayers, brother. God bless you and your daughters. This is just a season.
Originally posted by J. Cole
Fool me one time that's shame on you. Fool me twice can't put the blame on you. Fool me three times, **** the peace sign, load the chopper let it rain on you.
As others have said, there's a lot of good advice. I don't know how strong the words of strangers are, but I hope you can find some solace somehow. It's going to be hard, but your daughters need you and you have to become the wall they can lean on.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Stay strong.
It is wonderful to see such an outstanding response on this board allowing you to know that as foolish as some people are at times, there is a whole other side of people waiting to show you why life is so great and be as supportive of you and your family as possible. May God Bless You and may the support of your children, friends, and even OS Community Members give you the strength to find what the next step in your life will be. Our prayers are with you!!!
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