Deep down 99% of us dont want recruiting and dynasty play to be overly realistic. The average fan of a smaller school knows that in time he can build a team up to be a great team in this game which is why it's fun. If the game was really realistic, most of the people that take these average teams would remain average forever. This is a situation where most people accept easier recruiting since it makes dynasties more fun and interesting. I think adding a recruiting difficulty option or slider would help people to find the level of recruiting difficulty they like. But other than that, EA has to make recruiting easier than reality to cater to our coaching egos.