One thing that has helped me is to get her involved in some PC gaming. Yes, she loves stuff like Bejeweled and even got her doing Zoo Tycoon and some Nancy Drew mystery stuff. I think it's cute when she comes into the other room and tells me how she just leveled or solved the crime of the century. Reminds me of when I say stuff like, omg I just hit a 3 pointer at the buzzer to win the NCAA championship.