There is certainly a better way of being respectful to the devs while getting your point across. But to say they have "ignored" the requests by everyone is just ridiculous. If they have "ignored" them, which I don't think they have, then it is just about the only thing you can say has been "ignored" since these guys add stuff that we request every year.
But seriously, if you are concerned or frustrated that the option isn't in there (obviously you are), at least say so with some class and respect.