I feel your pain man. Similar sad story here: 4 user's in
PS3 Online Dynasty (Post Patch & Tuner) we deleted all files and started fresh.
1. a single user/user game still needs to be played on ave. 5 times due to the connection to your opponent has been lost msg. All of us have fantastic internet speed. User/cpu hasn't been a problem at all.
2. Transfer failed msg.'s
3. Failed to upload photos msg.
4. Still unable to chat w/ other users via headset or b-tooth while in dynasty HQ. This just might be a PS3 thing