[dcal]

Keep your head up man. Its easy to get down on yourself and let things snowball. Its harder to step up for your family when that happens. I can give you a little advice on the "handy man" type stuff. In the past I have not been particularly handy but have since learned to build a computer, repair an irrigation system, take apart and re-assemble a toilet, fix leaking sinks, and other stuff I previously did not know how to do.

How? Promise not to laugh..............Youtube. Everything mentioned above and more I searched on Youtube and found multiple tutorials on how to do things. You will learn as you encounter new things and before you know it that stuff will no longer be an issue. You just have to be willing to learn it and dont get discouraged when the first couple tries on something takes long.

I hope that helps. It just covers a small portion but if I can learn some of these things anyone can.