This is why I say that the most valuable yet most underappreciated pillar that 2k has ever had is its (well, was ... as it seems that the new trend is to limit editing) editability/customization/options.
You can alter whatever can be altered and make the videogame fit your view of the game ... use sliders within this thread as a base and build/adjust your own until it fits your playstyle and unique view ... use what suits you best.