Wow! Spot on advice! I tried all of that and won 17-13 in a heavy defensive battle (no points til end of 2nd quarter). I ended up with 3 INTs against me... But I knew I was throwing risky passes so it wasn't a shock. I definitely stuck to my 1st read too much before.... I was surprised at how many other guys were open at 5-7 yards and then I make one guy miss and turn it into a first down. Throwing those passes opened up my run so I was able to run more. I think we will stay with setting and just work on getting better with it. I still need to work on run defense and making picks (had 6 dropped easy picks) as well as not getting impatient and forcing throws.
I think my biggest issue will be going from the mentality of "I want to throw the ball to player1 because it will be around 20 yards deep" to "what is the defense giving me that equals positive yardage?"