I hear ya.
And to be fair, it has been this way since NCAA/Madden appeared on next gen, but I am starting to see more and more each game that there will never really be a fair balance. To get the right side sacks, you may need to drop the pass blocking so low and coverage so high that the QB can't find anyone open and MAYBE just runs to the right side and he can get hit for a sack. Other than that I just can't utilize anyone from the right as far as pass rushing goes.
And maybe I just suck. That's why I want to know how others do it, especially because I'm a defense-oriented kind of guy.
I try controlling the DT's too, but that's pretty hit or miss.