That is exactly where it is. Just turned mine off, but just double checked on Youtube and its under the Manage Rosters section then one of the things you can select within that menu itself.
Played 4 games, 2 close and 2 blown out. Both blow outs I lost was because the AI would not grab the puck, skate by it to allow other team to just grab it and pass in front of net for a quick goal. At least in other years, it wasn't almost always a guaranteed goal.