Hate when people say **** like this.
This is what you say when you suck at something.
I work 40+ hours and am working my way up but probably around 60k a year right now without outside income, I'm also a beginning part time streamer on TwitchTV probably 3-4 hours 4+ days a week. Aside from that I've began creating my own gaming YouTube content and upload it weekly well also avidly keep up with all things MMA as often as I can. I still get out for a social life and females are never an issue.
It's called being motivated to do a multitude of things with your life, I fill every day with as much as I can, playing games doesn't mean that's all you do.
Not everyone operates that way, but that goes with anything and anyone not just games and gamers. I used to be more lazy I'll admit it but I'm friends with Jon Jones and at some point I had to check myself.. when someone you know succeeds at that level it really pushes you to bring the best out of yourself. Everyone should do that. You can fit way more in your day than you think you can.