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Looking for advice
So, I'm a married guy away on a trip and I met this girl, who is also married. We hit it off. really well. We've kept in touch since we met. Now the issue is that we had a really great connection with each other, nothing I've ever felt before, and I love my wife. So I don't know what it is or how to explain it, and the sense I get from her is the same. We've talked about it and are both actually a little scared about the feeling. Part of me just wants to forget about this girl, but I can't, I find myself thinking about here more and more. Anyway else ever had anything like this happen? Not sure what to do here....thanks
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03-16-2007, 12:39 PM
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03-16-2007, 12:43 PM
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I didn't have to read past the little paragraph blurb that pops up as a tooltop and my answer is
NO NO NO DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE |
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03-16-2007, 01:09 PM
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Just say no. Nothing good can come from it...
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03-16-2007, 01:13 PM
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DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE NO NO NO DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE
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03-16-2007, 01:18 PM
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Lame noob post probably from an FOFC regular trying to create some spice for the board
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03-16-2007, 01:18 PM
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From a two-and-a-half year old account?
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03-16-2007, 01:19 PM
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Do you want to do more than cheat on your wife...? Leave her to explore this new relationship?
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03-16-2007, 01:28 PM
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/wonders if we've stumbled into the Penthouse rather than the Front Office
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03-16-2007, 01:31 PM
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My advice?
Leave her immediately before she reveals her d*ck in a box. |
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03-16-2007, 01:33 PM
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03-16-2007, 01:46 PM
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Head Coach
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This is not a question for a football game message board.
Talk to your priest, or a counselor, or someone who knows you and is qualified to give serious life advice. |
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03-16-2007, 01:48 PM
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I may not be a priest or a counselor, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night. |
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03-16-2007, 02:13 PM
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Get her name tatooed on the inside of your foreskin.
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Superman was flying around and saw Wonder Woman getting a tan in the nude on her balcony. Superman said I going to hit that real fast. So he flys down toward Wonder Woman to hit it and their is a loud scream. The Invincible Man scream what just hit me in the ass!!!!! I do shit, I take pictures, I write about it: chrisshue.com |
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03-16-2007, 02:18 PM
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Can I have an affair with your wife if you're done with her?
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03-16-2007, 02:19 PM
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when you hit it, use the back door.
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03-16-2007, 02:20 PM
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At times like these, I turn to the Bible for advice.
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I'd say Jesus would advise you to chop off your unit. I hear these guys are available again: hxxp://www.citizen-times.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=200770315139 Last edited by sjshaw : 03-16-2007 at 02:24 PM. |
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03-16-2007, 02:21 PM
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03-16-2007, 02:23 PM
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Oh SERIOUS life advice. I misread that.
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Superman was flying around and saw Wonder Woman getting a tan in the nude on her balcony. Superman said I going to hit that real fast. So he flys down toward Wonder Woman to hit it and their is a loud scream. The Invincible Man scream what just hit me in the ass!!!!! I do shit, I take pictures, I write about it: chrisshue.com |
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03-16-2007, 03:45 PM
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can't believe no one's asked the obvious question yet.
Who's hotter? And how big are this new chick's breasts?
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03-16-2007, 03:46 PM
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Yeah ask those people. Because we can't give serious advice about life....  |
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03-16-2007, 03:47 PM
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pics plz thx
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03-16-2007, 03:51 PM
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Sure, we could. However, for someone with only 2 posts, it is unlikely any of us know enough about him to give reasonable good advice except for the obvious standard answer that one should never cheat on their spouse. |
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03-16-2007, 03:57 PM
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Tell her you know a message board full of single horny men
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03-16-2007, 04:07 PM
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Easy, tell your wife that you are falling for another woman and the only way she can hold on is if she agrees to a three-some. She can't say yes if you don't ask.
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03-16-2007, 04:26 PM
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Should I be answering this thread with an ID I created years ago?
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03-16-2007, 04:30 PM
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pix pls followed by a Hot or Not poll should allow for proper feedback
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03-16-2007, 04:31 PM
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Excellent idea! 
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03-16-2007, 04:31 PM
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Wrong place to ask advice. As someone said, you are better off asking a good friend (somebody who knows you well). Somebody who you trust implicitly (ironic huh?).
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03-16-2007, 04:31 PM
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03-16-2007, 05:41 PM
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I read this post originally as "I married a guy on a trip and I met this girl..."
Yeah, what everybody else said. You've got an old account and don't post much so none of us knows much about you, but it seems like general good advice, DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE. Repeat ad nauseum. /tk
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03-16-2007, 08:02 PM
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How about taken and horny?  Or should that be a  |
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03-16-2007, 08:14 PM
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Do you have kids?
If so, walk away and walk far away from this woman, especially if you say you love your wife. But yeah, in general cheating is bad form. And while this chick may seem awesome now, she's also new and the novelty factor makes her more exciting. Furthermore, you met her on a trip and while you're keeping in touch, it sounds to me like you're doing this from a distance. So you don't know how she is in day to day reality. My personal inclination is to say stop all contact with her. You've got too much to lose if you pursue it and she turns out to be not what she seems in this first exciting blush in the long run.
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03-16-2007, 08:17 PM
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Its not cheating if you do it from behind in the dark, because I mean its not like you can tell who it is.
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03-16-2007, 08:30 PM
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You should probably start sending her hush money. Send cash, because checks and paypal are traceable.
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03-16-2007, 08:31 PM
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A good part of your interest/excitement is due to the freshness of the interest from this woman. That you really seem to click with her is only natural. We meet people we click with occasionally.
The question you need to ask yourself is what will happen if you pursue this. First, don't know this woman like you know your wife. She can seem normal now, but imagine having to tell your wife how you got herpes. If you love your wife as you say you do, the choice should be easy. If you don't, then be respectful and move on. |
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03-16-2007, 08:32 PM
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unless they're sequential. |
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03-16-2007, 08:54 PM
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Whoa.
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03-16-2007, 10:49 PM
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The real queestion is how many asseets do you have?
If the answer>0, don't go there unless she is worth half.... DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE At worst be a man about it and tell her, end that relationship and start another if you must, but dont cheat. Also what everyone else says, its the new exciting factor, and its nice to know another woman is interesteed sometimes. But dont act on it. Give it the test. Close your eyes and envision another man pounding your wife, if you are ok with this I'd probably end the marriage and pursue something else. If not, just remember that is how she would feel. Last edited by CU Tiger : 03-16-2007 at 10:50 PM. |
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03-16-2007, 11:09 PM
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You should follow the golden rule in life: Bang everything you can.
But seriously, the real golden rule is due unto others as you would have them do unto you. So, the question is if you would have no problem with your wife sleeping with another woman and then telling you about it, then you should go ahead and do the same with your new friend. |
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03-16-2007, 11:12 PM
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Question: Did she tape it, so that I could analyze it? |
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03-16-2007, 11:16 PM
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Unreal.
When Ashley and I were on a business trip we all stayed at the Hyatt. there was a classroom trainer that I thought was hot and one night Ashley went to bed early and a bunch of us stayed up drinking, hanging out and this was with hot trainer girl and a bunch of other people. As we all started hanging out all I thought about was "Yes this girl is hot yet she is also cool....I really really want Ashley to meet her and hang out with us!" So the next day I introduced Ashley to her and they hit it off and now we all keep in touch via email.... I guess my point is that i have a great wife (come April 29th) and to have more and more cool hot people around is fine, but to even think of sleeping with someone else other than Ashley (outside of the jokes with friends, "Id hit it." etc.) is just something that would make me want to vomit...literally. To me it is truly quite an easy frame of mind to have this not come into question and I guess I have a hard time empathizing with someone who takes the ok reaction i had, "Wow she's hot" and carries it to the bad reaction, "Jeez, I wonder if I should screw around on my wife.".
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03-16-2007, 11:17 PM
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03-16-2007, 11:55 PM
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03-17-2007, 01:43 AM
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03-17-2007, 01:45 AM
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Ok, how can you tell that the first sentence gives away your obvious take on this. Not only have you not been married a long time, but you aren't even married yet. This makes your response quite logical. I was joking. I think. Yeah, I was joking. |
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03-17-2007, 01:48 AM
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Upon further reflection, I only believe going with the new girl is ok if you do her in the butt provided your wife has already rejected a similar request.
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03-17-2007, 04:16 AM
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Original Topic: Really if you're interested in exploring a little somthing on the side, man up and tell your wife you want out. Be straight with her, don't be a little sleaze and sneak around behind her back. Wanting to eat your cake and have it too, in a case like this just isn't fair to your wife.
My topic: It looks like Flasch is open to a threesome. |
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