This Needs A Poll...Easy Mac's Situation

Chief Rum · 03-23-2003, 05:19 PM

I couldn't resist. Easy you are under no obligation to follow the results of this poll, and good luck with your situation.

Here are links to the discussions at hand...

I Need A Drink and...

Shoul I Spread The News?...

Chief Rum

rexalllsc · 03-23-2003, 05:39 PM

Don't tell. If my gf pulled away from a guy who tried to kiss her, and I found out, I would be happy...but I would rather not know...

Just me.

PS - I would've hit it.

Easy Mac · 03-23-2003, 06:47 PM

Strangely CR, I actually joked about a menage trois with my girlfriend and the other girl before it happened, and they both laughed, though I did get a menacing glare when the other girl left.

Chief Rum · 03-23-2003, 07:25 PM

Great minds think alike...well, when it ain't politics anyway.

Chief Rum

tucker342 · 03-23-2003, 09:15 PM

that's the first thing I thought of when I read the thread. If a guy tried to kiss my girlfriend, I would want to find out, so that I could go "talk" to him about it.

Daimyo · 03-23-2003, 09:31 PM

You didn't do anything wrong, so nothing to tell IMO. IMO, If you tell her she's just going to think there is more to it. (ie, "why would you be telling me this if you don't feel guilty" / "if you feel guilty about it, it must mean you weren't innocent in all this" is what I imagine will go through her head).

Celeval · 03-24-2003, 10:27 AM

You didn't do anything wrong, which is why you tell. Otherwise it looks like you did. Checked this out with my gf of 5+ years (had read pieces of the original thread to her, she was rolling), and she wholeheartedly agrees.

Besides, the ex was drunk when going to get the drink - which means who knows what she thinks may have happened before you pushed her away. All it takes is her being pissed and drunk around your current gf once: "Hey, ___ is a great kisser... found out that other night." It's all over then.

If you're serious about your current, you need to tell her. I'd also broach the subject with your roommate.

Kevin

Celeval · 03-24-2003, 10:29 AM

To address Daimyo's point... heh, use one to solve the other. Tell your GF what happened. Get her advice as to whether you should tell the roommate. This way she doesn't think it's guilt driving you telling her, she will (maybe not immediately, but after some time) feel good that you're coming to her for advice, and she'll be on your side in the deal.

That's how I see it, at least.

Samdari · 03-24-2003, 01:01 PM

I demand a poll option for "bang the roommate's ex, attempting to keep both roommate and girlfriend in the dark."

Bonus points if you do this for several months, all the while telling newchick, "I am going to break up with my girlfriend soon, the time is just not right."

Fritz · 03-24-2003, 01:04 PM

Put everyone in the chipper a shoot the chunks over a lake or river.

Get rent from your roomie first.

View Poll Results: What Should Easy Mac Do?
Tell his girfriend, not to the roommate	21	30.00%
Tell his roommate, not to his girlfriend	2	2.86%
Don't tell a soul	19	27.14%
Tell everyone	10	14.29%
Typical Humorous response: Broach the subject of a menage a trois...	18	25.71%
Voters: 70. You may not vote on this poll

03-23-2003, 07:25 PM	#4
Chief Rum Hall Of Famer Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Where Hip Hop lives	Great minds think alike...well, when it ain't politics anyway. Chief Rum __________________ . . I would rather be wrong...Than live in the shadows of your song...My mind is open wide...And now I'm ready to start...You're not sure...You open the door...And step out into the dark...Now I'm ready.

03-23-2003, 09:31 PM	#6
Daimyo College Starter Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Berkeley	You didn't do anything wrong, so nothing to tell IMO. IMO, If you tell her she's just going to think there is more to it. (ie, "why would you be telling me this if you don't feel guilty" / "if you feel guilty about it, it must mean you weren't innocent in all this" is what I imagine will go through her head). Last edited by Daimyo : 03-23-2003 at 09:32 PM.

03-24-2003, 01:01 PM	#9
Samdari Roster Filler Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Cicero	I demand a poll option for "bang the roommate's ex, attempting to keep both roommate and girlfriend in the dark." Bonus points if you do this for several months, all the while telling newchick, "I am going to break up with my girlfriend soon, the time is just not right." __________________ http://www.nateandellie.net Now featuring twice the babies for the same low price!

03-24-2003, 01:04 PM	#10
Fritz Lethargic Hooligan Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: hello kitty found my wallet at a big tent revival and returned it with all the cash missing	Put everyone in the chipper a shoot the chunks over a lake or river. Get rent from your roomie first. __________________ donkey, donkey, walk a little faster

03-23-2003, 05:39 PM	#2
rexalllsc Banned Join Date: Feb 2003	Don't tell. If my gf pulled away from a guy who tried to kiss her, and I found out, I would be happy...but I would rather not know... Just me. PS - I would've hit it.

03-23-2003, 06:47 PM	#3
Easy Mac Registered User Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Here	Strangely CR, I actually joked about a menage trois with my girlfriend and the other girl before it happened, and they both laughed, though I did get a menacing glare when the other girl left.

03-23-2003, 09:15 PM	#5
tucker342 Pro Starter Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Iowa City, IA	that's the first thing I thought of when I read the thread. If a guy tried to kiss my girlfriend, I would want to find out, so that I could go "talk" to him about it.

03-24-2003, 10:27 AM	#7
Celeval Pro Starter Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Cary, NC, USA	You didn't do anything wrong, which is why you tell. Otherwise it looks like you did. Checked this out with my gf of 5+ years (had read pieces of the original thread to her, she was rolling), and she wholeheartedly agrees. Besides, the ex was drunk when going to get the drink - which means who knows what she thinks may have happened before you pushed her away. All it takes is her being pissed and drunk around your current gf once: "Hey, ___ is a great kisser... found out that other night." It's all over then. If you're serious about your current, you need to tell her. I'd also broach the subject with your roommate. Kevin

03-24-2003, 10:29 AM	#8
Celeval Pro Starter Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Cary, NC, USA	To address Daimyo's point... heh, use one to solve the other. Tell your GF what happened. Get her advice as to whether you should tell the roommate. This way she doesn't think it's guilt driving you telling her, she will (maybe not immediately, but after some time) feel good that you're coming to her for advice, and she'll be on your side in the deal. That's how I see it, at least.

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