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Join Date: Nov 2013
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Some minor news in my weekly walk. The Trumper and Mary both showed up and there were no problems. 10 people showed up (which is a record!) so there were plenty of people to mingle with.
The Trumper has a dinner scheduled for the evening (I didn't sign up for it) and didn't make a reservation even though 8 people signed up for it so we'll see if he did so. There's a new woman that showed to the last couple walks. She seems to have similar interests to me. She also mentioned that she wants a workout partner and I think I'll volunteer. Sarah was also there with her daughters but she cut halfway through the walk (I scheduled the walk this way because in the past I've had elderly people who couldn't walk a 5k). She messaged me that she got tired but honestly I don't know if I believe it.
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Join Date: May 2002
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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Very common for the snowflakes to actually melt when pressed
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#303 |
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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Honestly I think you people are being too harsh on the particular Trumper in this group.
But honestly I was slightly worried there would be a scene but there was none.
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#304 |
Coordinator
Join Date: May 2002
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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How to (successfully) hit on a coworker.
Because of your second sentence is why the feelings exists
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#305 |
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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I guess that's fair (which is a common phrase said by Barbara)
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Favored Bitch #1
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: homeless in NJ
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Can you just update the thread title when someone has some sex?
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Coordinator
Join Date: May 2002
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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I think only flere can do that
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Coordinator
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Chicagoland
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If only I had such power.
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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My mouth had sex with a Philly cheese-steak the other day. Should I go into more detail?
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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I'd settle for some more NFL WIPs
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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Note to self:
When organizing an event on meetup, people will always follow gps directions to the wrong locations rather than look at the map you posted (with meeting location) on the event website. On the positive side I did ask Sarah to go kayaking with just me and she agreed (and gave me her number).
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Coordinator
Join Date: May 2002
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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Winning
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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So she went kayaking with me. We really connected quite well. I also learned that I underestimated her age by a least a decade. Otherwise on a dating checklist she checked pretty much all the boxes I want in a woman. If I don't date her I definitely want her as a close friend.
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#316 |
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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Well I got a text from Sarah saying she doesn't want to go kayaking with me next week.
I am dejected right now.
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Coordinator
Join Date: May 2002
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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Doesn't want to? Are you reading into that or did she literally say those words?
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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I offered to go Tuesday or Wednesday depending on the weather (There are some scattered rains in the area and the rest of the week cools down). To quote her text "Thank you Nobodyhere but you go ahead"
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#319 |
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Yeah, I think that's it for Sarah.
But hey, you've now got some good experience for the next one |
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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Well I'm not giving up quite yet. Unlike my coworkers I'm willing to push things more. This part is to add some excess drama. But I spotted her talking to another man on my walk today and they exchanged phone numbers!* *My walks are for people to socialize with others but still I am quite jealous that this other guy monopolized her time and I didn't get a good chance to socialize with her.
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Pacific
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Women just do not get what a total disaster it is for men to stick their necks out only to get their heads cut off. I wish women would understand how that rejection feels.
Equality= BS
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Join Date: Jan 2001
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NEXT! Definitely move on. Your best bet here is that she likes the drama and would string you along. At best. At worst, she's just not interested. Either way, not someone you want to be involved with. |
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: homeless in NJ
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Rejection sucks, but I have never felt the need to go for a run without listening to music, been afraid to walk to my car alone in a parking garage, someone following me to my room in a hotel, having my drink spiked... Like I said, rejection sucks, but women have it FAR worse then men do. |
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#326 |
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Take a 4 week trip to Asia (pick any country) and get yourself on the local scene and on the local Match, Tinder etc. I'm sure you'll get interest from a lot of "professionals" but you'll get a fair share of regular women too. Go in with your eyes wide open, your main appeal (for vast majority of non-pro women responding to you) is your ability to support her (and her extended family) and US citizenship. It'll start there and up to you to progress from there. (And definitely don't start off with dominatrix roleplay. I'm pretty sure you'll scare off regular women) FWIW, I had a colleague back in the 90's that got a Russian mail-order bride. He was divorced and wanted someone non-US. She had kids and he became an instant dad. I don't know the situation now but he was happily married for at least a couple years when I knew him. Maybe check out mail-order brides? Last edited by Edward64 : 09-18-2022 at 08:53 AM. |
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Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: homeless in NJ
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#328 |
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Join Date: May 2002
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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agreed
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Join Date: Sep 2004
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These aren't really options, though. They're pay-to-play with a greater time and resource commitment that ends approximately the same as going the pro route. He'll rack up a marriage, a kid or two with that valuable American citizenship, and a divorce after which she heads back to the homeland. It's a movie I've seen play out multiple times
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#332 |
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Join Date: Oct 2000
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Women are not aliens, property or commodities. Dating works just fine if you can think of each one as an individual with her own motivations and needs.
So, Sarah didn't work out. That's fine. Be happy for her if she makes a connection on your walk. Men have it far easier. All we have to do is learn to read and not be assholes when we don't get our way. |
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Join Date: Feb 2002
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Good Christ, NO!
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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It's not easier when you're 5'3. Most women have written you off already.
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Canton, OH
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They won't overlook you if you read them right.
Too often, what I see is men making a decision as to what they want, and then going in and trying to make it happen and becoming indignant when they feel their wants are reasonable and it doesn't work. Dating is about finding out if your needs and her needs are compatible. The height issue is a real one. Women want to feel protected, and that visual seems to be how this works. Very tall women have the same problem. They're often OK with the height issue, but many men can't handle it, either. Your potential pool is smaller, literally. But there are more women looking for relationships than men. The numbers work out, you just have to put yourself out there. The downside for many of us is that we feel the same way about "a few extra pounds" on women, which these days often stretches the word "few" a few more sizes. Maybe we can't get over that. |
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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They are definitely are options. They may also be "pay-to-play" but I don't really know your definition. I assume you mean that Nobody has to pay significant amount of $ throughout the courtship? If this correct, regular dating in the US is "pay-to-play". Your last sentence assumes the vast majority of these marriages are a "sham", that all she'll want is the green card and then say "see ya" in 2-5 (?) years. There is no doubt US green card (or any western country) is a compelling differentiator but I'd dispute the vast majority (or even majority) is a sham. I looked and was not able to find any stats (e.g. how many US-Foreign marriages result in divorce after X years would probably give a high-water indicator). If you have those stats, share them. I will say that I've known 2 Filipino born nurses married to US citizens, immigrated and they are still happily married. Last edited by Edward64 : 09-18-2022 at 05:25 PM. |
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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I disagree to "most women". It's definitely a factor but there are other factors. So instead of focusing on height, which you can't control, what are other things that will make you more attractive to a woman? Go through an internal SWOT analysis - strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, threats. (Well, maybe not so much threats). Figure it out and come up with a 6-12 month plan. Let's put it this way. If you have bad hygiene, really overweight, can't hold a conversation etc. your pool will also be smaller in Asia (e.g. it won't be because of height). Last edited by Edward64 : 09-18-2022 at 05:26 PM. |
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#338 |
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Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: homeless in NJ
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Height is absolutely a deal breaker for most women.
I did find this interesting chart 400 Bad Request |
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This guy has posted so much, his fingers are about to fall off.
Join Date: Nov 2000
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I saw this tweet and thought of this thread...
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Interesting chart. I was looking at Females on the 5'3" row for 1988-94. 20-29 years - 34.3% of women are 5'3" or shorterAm I reading this right? Does this indicate shorter women die earlier than taller women? |
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#341 |
Favored Bitch #1
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: homeless in NJ
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hmm, I dunno. But I did learn I am taller than 98% of my peers.
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Made me look at average heights around the world. More evidence that Nobody should expand search criteria to overseas and/or Asians.
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#343 |
Favored Bitch #1
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: homeless in NJ
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Maybe someone should start a dating app for short dudes?
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#344 |
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Join Date: Jun 2001
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I’m tall enough. 5’10”.
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Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Winnipeg, MB
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I think this indicates that the average height of humans continues to increase with better nutrition in our early years. It also indicates that people shrink as they get older. My Dad was over 6'1" when I was growing up, and at 77 is now under 6'.
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#346 |
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Yes, I noticed the first. Not surprising, when I go into museums I think ... people used to fit in that?
Didn't think about shrinking when you get older, good point. I guess for women there is osteoporosis. |
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#347 |
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Join Date: Oct 2002
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Wassup shorty?! ![]()
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#348 |
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Join Date: Nov 2013
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Well on a positive note today I learned that Barbara is going to be moving into an apartment just about a mile down the road from me.
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Solecismic Software
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Canton, OH
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On the positive side, little people are about the only ones who can travel comfortably on a commercial airliner these days.
I think, after a year of trying, it's best not to assume Barbara's move is germane to your original topic pursuit. OK, I just youtubed Randy Newman's one-hit wonder (only top 40 single, though he has had a long and successful career). |
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