How to (successfully) hit on a coworker. - Page 8

sterlingice · 09-20-2022, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by NobodyHere

I'd settle for some more NFL WIPs

This thread takes so many weird turns whenever I try to catch up with it, but I think we can all agree on this.

SI

JeeberD · 09-21-2022, 10:38 PM

As someone who works in HR, I absolutely cringe every time I see the title of this thread.

Hypocritical, I know, since I met my wife at work. But we were also just kids, not working in a professional environment.

Lathum · 09-21-2022, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by JeeberD

As someone who works in HR, I absolutely cringe every time I see the title of this thread.

Hypocritical, I know, since I met my wife at work. But we were also just kids, not working in a professional environment.

I miss you my friend!

JeeberD · 09-22-2022, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Lathum

I miss you my friend!

Hey there! You know, I'm friends with this dude on FB who reminds me of you...except he's like this family man and isn't a fiery debater and late-night drunk poster.

Solecismic · 09-22-2022, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by WhoTheHeckIsThis?

As someone who works in HR, I absolutely cringe every time I see the title of this thread.

Hypocritical, I know, since I met my wife at work. But we were also just kids, not working in a professional environment.

It's too bad we don't have Ime Udoka on this board for his input, though surely there's more to that story than just co-worker.

stevew · 09-22-2022, 10:26 PM

Udoka was banging a VPs wife apparently?

Lathum · 09-22-2022, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by JeeberD

Hey there! You know, I'm friends with this dude on FB who reminds me of you...except he's like this family man and isn't a fiery debater and late-night drunk poster.

sounds like a hell of a guy

JeeberD · 09-23-2022, 01:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Solecismic

It's too bad we don't have Ime Udoka on this board for his input, though surely there's more to that story than just co-worker.

Is it strange to be excited that after 20+ years on this board (though admittedly mostly absent for the past dozen years), to FINALLY have Jim quote one of my posts?

JeeberD · 09-23-2022, 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Lathum

sounds like a hell of a guy

Dola-

He's a'ight.

HomerSimpson98 · 09-23-2022, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by stevew

Udoka was banging a VPs wife apparently?

Ah, the ol' Terry Bowden move! Niiiiiiiiice

NobodyHere · 09-24-2022, 02:34 PM

So two things of note happened this week.

My boss interviewed a person for a new rumored position of HR manager who is suppose to implement some new policies. He only interviews front office people so we know she's not a production worker (that and the way she dressed). And I don't know if she's single yet. So Barbara better stop waffling.

Second thing is that my walk had it's biggest turnout yet with 9 people showing up. Part of the meetup was going to a local bar for drinks and 6 people stayed. One of the women who stayed (let's call her Amber) asked me for my number and asked if we could go on a one-on-one walk tomorrow. Honestly I was kind of shocked because although I did talk with her most of the walk, and while the conversation while good it wasn't exactly electrifying. But of course I said yes.

Flasch186 · 09-24-2022, 02:42 PM

The correct answer

I like her intention and willing to take a risk

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Edward64 · 09-24-2022, 03:40 PM

Nice!

Kodos · 09-24-2022, 07:14 PM

Good to hear!

NobodyHere · 09-24-2022, 08:51 PM

One thing that Amber did mention to me is that the Trumper tried to ask her out on a previous meetup but she turned him down.

NobodyHere · 09-30-2022, 09:45 PM

To give an update:

I'm told my boss didn't hire the HR person because she lacked the qualifications he was looking for in the position. So I'm free to hit on my coworker if necessary.

I did a workout with Amber (which consisted of a 30 minute workout on an elliptical) and it went well and I'm expecting more workout days in the future. She asked to me to go to a movie and dinner tomorrow which I agreed to. So expect a review of Bullet Train tomorrow.

With that said, I'm kind of 50/50 on her intentions. Half of me thinks she really into me, while the other half thinks she just wants a workout buddy and social wingman. I'll take either one as I really like her but I'm not "gaga" yet.

By the way, do you all prefer a dinner and a movie, or a movie and a dinner?
I know that former is traditional but it seems harder to time a movie than a dinner. Plus if you see the movie first then it is great conversational piece at dinner.

Solecismic · 09-30-2022, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by NobodyHere

To give an update:
With that said, I'm kind of 50/50 on her intentions. Half of me thinks she really into me, while the other half thinks she just wants a workout buddy and social wingman. I'll take either one as I really like her but I'm not "gaga" yet.

It's up to you, if I'm reading this correctly. She is making this easy.

If you're not gaga, either you should avoid singing about Alejandro or you should friend zone her. Men rarely discover an attraction if they don't have it right away. And if you're not strongly attracted now and start something up, it's not fair to her.

NobodyHere · 09-30-2022, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Solecismic

It's up to you, if I'm reading this correctly. She is making this easy.

If you're not gaga, either you should avoid singing about Alejandro or you should friend zone her. Men rarely discover an attraction if they don't have it right away. And if you're not strongly attracted now and start something up, it's not fair to her.

Who is Alejandro?

Edward64 · 09-30-2022, 10:42 PM

I would do movie then dinner. Like you say, a good conversation piece.

Don't know your definition of "gaga" but if there is some attraction, I'd encourage it and see where this leads. I don't really believe in love (vs lust) at first sight, and believe relationships take time to develop.

Be sure to think up of how to end the dinner - whose paying, "want to do X next weekend" etc.

NobodyHere · 09-30-2022, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Edward64

I would do movie then dinner. Like you say, a good conversation piece.

Don't know your definition of "gaga" but if there is some attraction, I'd encourage it and see where this leads. I don't really believe in love (vs lust) at first sight, and believe relationships take time to develop.

Be sure to think up of how to end the dinner - whose paying, "want to do X next weekend" etc.

I thought this was the 2020s where people pay their own share.

I'll offer to pay and see what she says.

NobodyHere · 09-30-2022, 11:03 PM

Also I feel I am close to dragging Barabara out on one of these walks. Even if I don't date her I think it would be good for her.

NobodyHere · 09-30-2022, 11:25 PM

Ugh, just got asked by a guy that I assume is in wheelchair to join us on our "walk" this week. I had to turn him down because this weeks chosen walk isn't wheelchair friendly.

Next week I can accommodate him on a paved route.

MIJB#19 · 10-01-2022, 04:49 AM

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Originally Posted by NobodyHere

Who is Alejandro?

Wasn't Lady Gaga singing about Alejandro?

Flasch186 · 10-01-2022, 07:12 AM

dude, stop thinking so hard about your date with Amber. It's good energy to get out there and take swings. Go and turn your brain off for the night.

Lathum · 10-01-2022, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Flasch186

dude, stop thinking so hard about your date with Amber. It's good energy to get out there and take swings. Go and turn your brain off for the night.

Live look in

Mota · 10-01-2022, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Flasch186

dude, stop thinking so hard about your date with Amber. It's good energy to get out there and take swings. Go and turn your brain off for the night.

Yup, whether it turns out to be something or not, he's in the game.

Edward64 · 10-01-2022, 01:30 PM

Check it out? Might be worth the investment?

https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-st...t-quality=auto

Izulde · 10-02-2022, 01:03 AM

Movie then dinner, so if the conversation is going well, you can linger and aren't under time pressure.

Also, she's in to you - the key is mentioning Trumper asked her out and she said no. If she wasn't interested beyond a platonic thing, she wouldn't have brought that up

Lathum · 10-02-2022, 09:44 AM

So was there sex?

GrantDawg · 10-02-2022, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Izulde

Movie then dinner, so if the conversation is going well, you can linger and aren't under time pressure.

Also, she's in to you - the key is mentioning Trumper asked her out and she said no. If she wasn't interested beyond a platonic thing, she wouldn't have brought that up

I read that "linger" with an "f" instead of a "L" and thought you were expecting that date to go really well.

NobodyHere · 10-02-2022, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Izulde

Movie then dinner, so if the conversation is going well, you can linger and aren't under time pressure.

Also, she's in to you - the key is mentioning Trumper asked her out and she said no. If she wasn't interested beyond a platonic thing, she wouldn't have brought that up

I didn't even think about this point but it could very well be true.

Anyways yes, she is into me. We saw the movie (which I paid for) and had dinner (which I offered to pay for but we paid for our own meals). We did smooch after we left the resteraunt.

This morning at our walk (which had a record turnout of about 15 people) we held hands during 80% which we both would like to think made the Trumper insanely jealous.

This week we're doing our weekly workout and I invited her over to my place on Saturday.

Edward64 · 10-02-2022, 02:01 PM

Congrats!

A key win for FOFC

NobodyHere · 10-02-2022, 02:10 PM

Amber also told me that the Trumper was also banned from another meetup group because he would try to hit on women and not take "no" for an answer.

sabotai · 10-02-2022, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Edward64

Congrats!

A key win for FOFC

A great day for FOFC, and therefore, the world.

Ksyrup · 10-02-2022, 03:36 PM

Great update!

NobodyHere · 10-02-2022, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by sabotai

A great day for FOFC, and therefore, the world.

Kodos · 10-02-2022, 04:37 PM

Nice!

NobodyHere · 10-02-2022, 05:13 PM

The Trumper has been spamming a "Strength Training" meetup for pretty much every other day for the next month. Maybe schedule one or two to see if people are interested?

ETA: But no seriously he posted 18 events for the next month. I'm not sure if this is his intent but I'm worried that his spamming might prevent people from finding my weekly walk which I have grown quite fond of.

Heck's he's still spamming them.

NobodyHere · 10-02-2022, 06:27 PM

I asked the Trumper why he was scheduling so many events and this was his response.

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Originally Posted by Trumper

How is it spamming? You schedule the metroparks. I'm trying to get people to exercise. If people want to do strength training. They need a minimum of 2 days per week. If they want to be serious about strength training goals you should be at the gym every day. Doing legs day 1 day next upper body or chest and biceps. You can do abdominal training everyday.

NobodyHere · 10-02-2022, 06:31 PM

He's not exactly wrong but at least gauge interest before spamming the group with 20+ events.

Flasch186 · 10-02-2022, 09:22 PM

I wouldn’t sweat it

People into strength training will go to that and people that don’t want that will come to yours

It really doesn’t matter

Ignore him and you do you boo

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NobodyHere · 10-03-2022, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Flasch186

I wouldn’t sweat it

People into strength training will go to that and people that don’t want that will come to yours

It really doesn’t matter

Ignore him and you do you boo

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I'm mostly concerned that people won't be able to find legitimate events (such as my walks) amidst all his spam.

Flasch186 · 10-03-2022, 09:05 AM

add a catchy picture to yours to get their attention. Works on Facebook.

Edward64 · 10-03-2022, 10:24 PM

So what's up next?

Inquiring minds want to know.

Lathum · 10-04-2022, 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Edward64

So what's up next?

Hopefully his penis in her vagina....

NobodyHere · 10-05-2022, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Edward64

So what's up next?

Inquiring minds want to know.

Well we did a workout today, and she's coming over to my place on Saturday sometime after the group walk.

sovereignstar v2 · 10-05-2022, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Edward64

So what's up next?

NobodyHere · 10-05-2022, 06:46 PM

Did anyone watch that Dahmer movie that starred Hawkeye in the title role?

Ksyrup · 10-05-2022, 07:26 PM

The actual documentary-style Dahmer stream is coming to Netflix on Friday (the Dahmer Tapes). I'll watch that. Not really interested in fictionalized history.

sabotai · 10-05-2022, 07:51 PM

The Dahmer Tapes will be an instant watch for me. The Dahmer show, maybe I'll get to it when there's nothing else to watch.

09-21-2022, 10:38 PM	#352
JeeberD General Manager Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The Town of Flower Mound	As someone who works in HR, I absolutely cringe every time I see the title of this thread. Hypocritical, I know, since I met my wife at work. But we were also just kids, not working in a professional environment. __________________ UTEP Miners!!! I solemnly swear to never cheer for TO

09-24-2022, 02:34 PM	#361
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	So two things of note happened this week. My boss interviewed a person for a new rumored position of HR manager who is suppose to implement some new policies. He only interviews front office people so we know she's not a production worker (that and the way she dressed). And I don't know if she's single yet. So Barbara better stop waffling. Second thing is that my walk had it's biggest turnout yet with 9 people showing up. Part of the meetup was going to a local bar for drinks and 6 people stayed. One of the women who stayed (let's call her Amber) asked me for my number and asked if we could go on a one-on-one walk tomorrow. Honestly I was kind of shocked because although I did talk with her most of the walk, and while the conversation while good it wasn't exactly electrifying. But of course I said yes. __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney" Last edited by NobodyHere : 09-24-2022 at 07:21 PM.

09-24-2022, 02:42 PM	#362
Flasch186 Coordinator Join Date: May 2002 Location: Jacksonville, FL	The correct answer I like her intention and willing to take a risk Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ Jacksonville-florida-homes-for-sale Putting a New Spin on Real Estate! ----------------------------------------------------------- Commissioner of the USFL USFL

09-24-2022, 07:14 PM	#364
Kodos Resident Alien Join Date: Jun 2001	Good to hear! __________________ Author of The Bill Gates Challenge, as well as other groundbreaking dynasties.

09-24-2022, 08:51 PM	#365
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	One thing that Amber did mention to me is that the Trumper tried to ask her out on a previous meetup but she turned him down. __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney" Last edited by NobodyHere : 09-24-2022 at 08:55 PM.

09-22-2022, 10:26 PM	#356
stevew Hall Of Famer Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: the yo'	Udoka was banging a VPs wife apparently?

09-24-2022, 03:40 PM	#363
Edward64 Head Coach Join Date: Oct 2005	Nice!

09-30-2022, 09:45 PM	#366
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	To give an update: I'm told my boss didn't hire the HR person because she lacked the qualifications he was looking for in the position. So I'm free to hit on my coworker if necessary. I did a workout with Amber (which consisted of a 30 minute workout on an elliptical) and it went well and I'm expecting more workout days in the future. She asked to me to go to a movie and dinner tomorrow which I agreed to. So expect a review of Bullet Train tomorrow. With that said, I'm kind of 50/50 on her intentions. Half of me thinks she really into me, while the other half thinks she just wants a workout buddy and social wingman. I'll take either one as I really like her but I'm not "gaga" yet. By the way, do you all prefer a dinner and a movie, or a movie and a dinner? I know that former is traditional but it seems harder to time a movie than a dinner. Plus if you see the movie first then it is great conversational piece at dinner. __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney" Last edited by NobodyHere : 09-30-2022 at 09:54 PM.

09-30-2022, 10:42 PM	#369
Edward64 Head Coach Join Date: Oct 2005	I would do movie then dinner. Like you say, a good conversation piece. Don't know your definition of "gaga" but if there is some attraction, I'd encourage it and see where this leads. I don't really believe in love (vs lust) at first sight, and believe relationships take time to develop. Be sure to think up of how to end the dinner - whose paying, "want to do X next weekend" etc.

09-30-2022, 11:03 PM	#371
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	Also I feel I am close to dragging Barabara out on one of these walks. Even if I don't date her I think it would be good for her. __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney"

09-30-2022, 11:25 PM	#372
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	Ugh, just got asked by a guy that I assume is in wheelchair to join us on our "walk" this week. I had to turn him down because this weeks chosen walk isn't wheelchair friendly. Next week I can accommodate him on a paved route. __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney"

10-01-2022, 07:12 AM	#374
Flasch186 Coordinator Join Date: May 2002 Location: Jacksonville, FL	dude, stop thinking so hard about your date with Amber. It's good energy to get out there and take swings. Go and turn your brain off for the night. __________________ Jacksonville-florida-homes-for-sale Putting a New Spin on Real Estate! ----------------------------------------------------------- Commissioner of the USFL USFL

10-01-2022, 01:30 PM	#377
Edward64 Head Coach Join Date: Oct 2005	Check it out? Might be worth the investment? https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-st...t-quality=auto Last edited by Edward64 : 10-01-2022 at 01:31 PM.

10-02-2022, 01:03 AM	#378
Izulde Head Coach Join Date: Sep 2004	Movie then dinner, so if the conversation is going well, you can linger and aren't under time pressure. Also, she's in to you - the key is mentioning Trumper asked her out and she said no. If she wasn't interested beyond a platonic thing, she wouldn't have brought that up __________________ 2006 Golden Scribe Nominee 2006 Golden Scribe Winner Best Non-Sport Dynasty: May Our Reign Be Green and Golden (CK Dynasty) Rookie Writer of the Year Dynasty of the Year: May Our Reign Be Green and Golden (CK Dynasty)

10-02-2022, 09:44 AM	#379
Lathum Favored Bitch #1 Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: homeless in NJ	So was there sex?

10-02-2022, 02:01 PM	#382
Edward64 Head Coach Join Date: Oct 2005	Congrats! A key win for FOFC Last edited by Edward64 : 10-02-2022 at 02:01 PM.

10-02-2022, 02:10 PM	#383
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	Amber also told me that the Trumper was also banned from another meetup group because he would try to hit on women and not take "no" for an answer. __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney" Last edited by NobodyHere : 10-02-2022 at 03:42 PM.

10-02-2022, 03:36 PM	#385
Ksyrup This guy has posted so much, his fingers are about to fall off. Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: In Absentia	Great update! __________________ M's pitcher Miguel Batista: "Now, I feel like I've had everything. I've talked pitching with Sandy Koufax, had Kenny G play for me. Maybe if I could have an interview with God, then I'd be served. I'd be complete."

10-02-2022, 04:37 PM	#387
Kodos Resident Alien Join Date: Jun 2001	Nice! __________________ Author of The Bill Gates Challenge, as well as other groundbreaking dynasties.

10-02-2022, 05:13 PM	#388
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	The Trumper has been spamming a "Strength Training" meetup for pretty much every other day for the next month. Maybe schedule one or two to see if people are interested? ETA: But no seriously he posted 18 events for the next month. I'm not sure if this is his intent but I'm worried that his spamming might prevent people from finding my weekly walk which I have grown quite fond of. Heck's he's still spamming them. __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney" Last edited by NobodyHere : 10-02-2022 at 05:48 PM.

10-02-2022, 06:31 PM	#390
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	He's not exactly wrong but at least gauge interest before spamming the group with 20+ events. __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney" Last edited by NobodyHere : 10-02-2022 at 06:32 PM.

10-02-2022, 09:22 PM	#391
Flasch186 Coordinator Join Date: May 2002 Location: Jacksonville, FL	I wouldn’t sweat it People into strength training will go to that and people that don’t want that will come to yours It really doesn’t matter Ignore him and you do you boo Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ Jacksonville-florida-homes-for-sale Putting a New Spin on Real Estate! ----------------------------------------------------------- Commissioner of the USFL USFL

10-03-2022, 09:05 AM	#393
Flasch186 Coordinator Join Date: May 2002 Location: Jacksonville, FL	add a catchy picture to yours to get their attention. Works on Facebook. __________________ Jacksonville-florida-homes-for-sale Putting a New Spin on Real Estate! ----------------------------------------------------------- Commissioner of the USFL USFL

10-03-2022, 10:24 PM	#394
Edward64 Head Coach Join Date: Oct 2005	So what's up next? Inquiring minds want to know.

10-05-2022, 06:46 PM	#398
NobodyHere Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2013	Did anyone watch that Dahmer movie that starred Hawkeye in the title role? __________________ "I am God's prophet, and I need an attorney"

10-05-2022, 07:26 PM	#399
Ksyrup This guy has posted so much, his fingers are about to fall off. Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: In Absentia	The actual documentary-style Dahmer stream is coming to Netflix on Friday (the Dahmer Tapes). I'll watch that. Not really interested in fictionalized history. __________________ M's pitcher Miguel Batista: "Now, I feel like I've had everything. I've talked pitching with Sandy Koufax, had Kenny G play for me. Maybe if I could have an interview with God, then I'd be served. I'd be complete."

10-05-2022, 07:51 PM	#400
sabotai General Manager Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: The Satellite of Love	The Dahmer Tapes will be an instant watch for me. The Dahmer show, maybe I'll get to it when there's nothing else to watch.

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